Thanks to all

[Guest guest]

I just want to thank all of you for being there. It is unfortunate

that any of us have to be in this situation, cause be our nadas,

fadas and FOO. It does help me alot that someone somewhere

understands.

It makes it easier to get through recovery. Lately I have been

realising I still have a long way to go to get to where I need to be.

I guess the healing goes in stages. I have come along way on less

than a year in theropy. Will never go back to where I was, but I now

realise I am far from where I need to be. I think I am grieving

another part of my childhood. The part where I now how bad nada and

my FOO has damaged that little girl. They had no right to do that.

Not ever loving me wasn't enough for them. They had to try and

destroy me along the way. The world just don't get how dangerous and

what kinda of damage BPD's and other personality disorders can do.

The effects that is felt by society is yet unrealised. The are so

many children of BPD's that have no idea what they where rasied by

and never get theropy. If I would not have known what my nada had I

may not have gotten help. I may have wondered around in the dark for

the rest of my life.

[Guest guest]

, we all have 'far to go', no matter where we are on 'the path'. It is

a consequence of being a KO that we find that the more we 'know', the more we

need to learn. Never criticize yourself for being a learner. Carol

In a message dated 6/16/2006 7:19:12 AM Eastern Daylight Time,

maryec73@... writes:

I just want to thank all of you for being there. It is unfortunate

that any of us have to be in this situation, cause be our nadas,

fadas and FOO. It does help me alot that someone somewhere

understands.

It makes it easier to get through recovery. Lately I have been

realising I still have a long way to go to get to where I need to be.

I guess the healing goes in stages. I have come along way on less

than a year in theropy. Will never go back to where I was, but I now

realise I am far from where I need to be. I think I am grieving

another part of my childhood. The part where I now how bad nada and

my FOO has damaged that little girl. They had no right to do that.

Not ever loving me wasn't enough for them. They had to try and

destroy me along the way. The world just don't get how dangerous and

what kinda of damage BPD's and other personality disorders can do.

The effects that is felt by society is yet unrealised. The are so

many children of BPD's that have no idea what they where rasied by

and never get theropy. If I would not have known what my nada had I

may not have gotten help. I may have wondered around in the dark for

the rest of my life.