married to an autistic man

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Greetings: Sounds like are at cross road in your life? Maybe it would be more productive to figure out how you got from A to Z as oppose to your partner.

I have been divorced for three years and the best advice I can give is to work on you and quit supporting him in a comfortable role of learned helplessness. It does do not do either of you any good. "My love with fix him" IF only... "I can't do this because I have ADD". NO, it might take you more help, but you are making a choice not to change your behavior. AS is no different. We are different and have choices in life. Including folks with AS.

Just me.