PS: Follow up on Malignant Men

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In order to find a healthy relationship you have to get rid of any involvements with men who are trouble or conflicted. If you are presently involved with a Malignant Man the achievement of a healthy relationship is almost impossible.

Who are Malignant Men?

If you’ve ever been left feeling broken, hurt, injured, and/or traumatized by a man who may have even initially acted seductive and interested in you, then you’ve probably had an involvement with a Malignant Man.

How do Malignant Men destroy relationships?

By saying something or doing something insulting, rejecting, devaluing, cruel, mean, hurtful and/or spiteful to you. They can push you to the breaking point if you hang out with them long enough. They often have wonderful qualities too, which is how they get us to fall in love with them.

Here are some of the questions Rhonda will answer in her free tele-seminar about dealing with Malignant Men. The last 15 minutes of her tele-seminar will be open to questions and answers.

How do you know if the man you’re attracted to or involved with is a Malignant Man?

What are the signs of Malignant Man? How do you handle a relationship with a Malignant Man? Why are you attracted to a Malignant Man? How do you detach from a Malignant Man? Can a Malignant Man ever change?

When: Tuesday, December 7, 2010 at 9:00 -10:00 pm (EST)

To register for this free tele-seminar email RhondaDCTM@... and the call-in number will be sent to you within 24 hours.

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Rhonda Findling is the author of “Don’t Call That Man! A Survival Guide To Letting Go”, “The Commitment Cure: What To Do For An Ambivalent Man”, “The Dating Cure”, “A Jewish American Princess Dethroned”, and “Portrait of My Desire”. She is also a psychotherapist with an international private practice based out of New York.

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Thank you for your emails. They help believe me. I am no longer living with my husband. I live in another state, by myself, and loving it. We talk on the phone just fine, nothing personal of course, and he has come to visit, but the visits are terrible. I end up taking care of him totally,he could not peel a potato.... I don't want another relationship. I don't really know what I want at this point. I wish to hell I never would have married him. But I am mad, I feel like I was used and all those years I had no support. But he is so nice.... Depression, anxiety, no one would understand what I was dealing with. Daughter still tells me Nothing is wrong with Dad.. although she has asked me lots of times.. what is wrong with Dad.. I think I am in hiding. kind of like

"just everyone leave me alone".

Subject: PS: Follow up on Malignant MenTo: aspires-relationships Date: Sunday, December 5, 2010, 5:09 AM

In order to find a healthy relationship you have to get rid of any involvements with men who are trouble or conflicted. If you are presently involved with a Malignant Man the achievement of a healthy relationship is almost impossible.

Who are Malignant Men?

If you’ve ever been left feeling broken, hurt, injured, and/or traumatized by a man who may have even initially acted seductive and interested in you, then you’ve probably had an involvement with a Malignant Man.

How do Malignant Men destroy relationships?

By saying something or doing something insulting, rejecting, devaluing, cruel, mean, hurtful and/or spiteful to you. They can push you to the breaking point if you hang out with them long enough. They often have wonderful qualities too, which is how they get us to fall in love with them.

Here are some of the questions Rhonda will answer in her free tele-seminar about dealing with Malignant Men. The last 15 minutes of her tele-seminar will be open to questions and answers.

How do you know if the man you’re attracted to or involved with is a Malignant Man?

What are the signs of Malignant Man? How do you handle a relationship with a Malignant Man? Why are you attracted to a Malignant Man? How do you detach from a Malignant Man? Can a Malignant Man ever change?

When: Tuesday, December 7, 2010 at 9:00 -10:00 pm (EST)

To register for this free tele-seminar email RhondaDCTM@... and the call-in number will be sent to you within 24 hours.

_______________________________________________________________________________________

Rhonda Findling is the author of “Don’t Call That Man! A Survival Guide To Letting Goâ€, “The Commitment Cure: What To Do For An Ambivalent Manâ€, “The Dating Cureâ€, “A Jewish American Princess Dethronedâ€, and “Portrait of My Desireâ€. She is also a psychotherapist with an international private practice based out of New York.

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What would happen if you just didn't take care of him? I just wonder because my first response to the helpless sort of person is to just leave them afloat in their own muck, no matter how deep the muck. I love to help people who really need it and who are willing to work and grow but have no patience for those who are just in it as a way to live life. I suppose the crux of the issue is that you didn't realize what you were getting until you already had it?

Sounds like your daughter has some denial... she was willing to question his behavior as long as she was assured he would be there but now feels unsafe to do so because she see's you are seperated because YOU questioned his behavior (or accepted that there is something wrong). Maybe she now feels like if she agrees with you that there is something wrong with him then he won't accept her any more?

Jennie AS -not helpless

PS: Follow up on Malignant MenTo: aspires-relationships Date: Sunday, December 5, 2010, 5:09 AM

In order to find a healthy relationship you have to get rid of any involvements with men who are trouble or conflicted. If you are presently involved with a Malignant Man the achievement of a healthy relationship is almost impossible.

Who are Malignant Men?

If you’ve ever been left feeling broken, hurt, injured, and/or traumatized by a man who may have even initially acted seductive and interested in you, then you’ve probably had an involvement with a Malignant Man.

How do Malignant Men destroy relationships?

By saying something or doing something insulting, rejecting, devaluing, cruel, mean, hurtful and/or spiteful to you. They can push you to the breaking point if you hang out with them long enough. They often have wonderful qualities too, which is how they get us to fall in love with them.

Here are some of the questions Rhonda will answer in her free tele-seminar about dealing with Malignant Men. The last 15 minutes of her tele-seminar will be open to questions and answers.

How do you know if the man you’re attracted to or involved with is a Malignant Man?

What are the signs of Malignant Man? How do you handle a relationship with a Malignant Man? Why are you attracted to a Malignant Man? How do you detach from a Malignant Man? Can a Malignant Man ever change?

When: Tuesday, December 7, 2010 at 9:00 -10:00 pm (EST)

To register for this free tele-seminar email RhondaDCTM@... and the call-in number will be sent to you within 24 hours.

_______________________________________________________________________________________

Rhonda Findling is the author of “Don’t Call That Man! A Survival Guide To Letting Goâ€, “The Commitment Cure: What To Do For An Ambivalent Manâ€, “The Dating Cureâ€, “A Jewish American Princess Dethronedâ€, and “Portrait of My Desireâ€. She is also a psychotherapist with an international private practice based out of New York.