Trip with borderline borderline.

June 7, 2006

I have posted over the last couple of weeks about the woman that

works for me is to my knowledge a " borderline " borderline. Sort of a

lesser version of a BPD but with alot of similar traits.

My theropist is an expert in the field of personality disorders and

she warned me that someone like that must be kept in check or they

think they can take over.

Honestly she is the only disfunctional person from my past I have

any contact with. We're not friends, though she likes to think we

are when she wants something. So far she does her job well.

Today I had to take her on an assignment with me and I just wanted

to get so far away from her it wasn't funny.

1st we had lunch. Not at a table, right to the bar where she

proceeded in trying to be her BPDish, whorish self with the

bartender. Lucky for me he wasn't intrested. I think in her mind he

is, because he is nice.

I sat there after telling her I wasn't going to tolerate her smart

mouth and defensive ways with me and she was stepping over my

boundries and I will step right back and explode. I told her that

the sweetness she adds to the knife with her comments don't fly with

me. It's still a knife. well she claims she doesn't know she does it

and she is under alot of stress with the job cause we're very busy.

YET she talks nice to everyone else but me!! Can not figure that one

out. Any reasons why she would do that??? She said she was sorry and

would watch.

So as we were back to the office she smart mouthed me again.

At lunch I sat there and thought you can't carry on a normal

conversion with this person. I felt like I was talking to my one

sister that is so shallow and histrionic that I wanted to smack her.

The one day we ordered lunch in the office and when it got there she

didn't have any money so I paid and told her she owes me lunch.

Today I said she could buy my lunch that she owes me and she said

she would Friday when she gets paid and said she had 10$ to her name.

I paid for mine and she paid for hers and her check was almost 25$

and she paid it. 10-25 would be a negative 15$? She lied right to my

face so she didn't have to buy me the lunch she owes me what a BITCH!

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