Guest guest Posted September 27, 2005 Report Share Posted September 27, 2005 Welcome Eleni, I'm glad to hear you are doing well. Should you have any problems, remember we are here for you. The way your doctor treated you, while not common, has been reported by women across medical specialities. Please report your doctor, even if you don't press charges. Just having the report on file will put your doctor on notice that his behavior is not acceptable. For whatever reason, some doctors seem to have a deity complex and appear to think women are attracted to their " perfection " . . . Unfortunately, sometimes they're right and, by playing on women's insecurities, find a way to entertain themselves! Hugs and prayers, Rogene Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 27, 2005 Report Share Posted September 27, 2005 > Welcome Eleni, > > I'm glad to hear you are doing well. Should you have > any problems, remember we are here for you. > > The way your doctor treated you, while not common, has > been reported by women across medical specialities. > Please report your doctor, even if you don't press > charges. Just having the report on file will put your > doctor on notice that his behavior is not acceptable. > > For whatever reason, some doctors seem to have a deity > complex and appear to think women are attracted to > their " perfection " . . . Unfortunately, sometimes > they're right and, by playing on women's insecurities, > find a way to entertain themselves! > > Hugs and prayers, > > Rogene Thank you Rogene, I think you hit it right on the nail with this one. The problem with me is that I had a crush on him. He's generally sweet natured, had this innocent look in his eyes, and is one of those tall sensitive types. He was afraid that I'd report him, so he got to his malpractice lawyers before I reported him. It was very conflicting feeling a crush on him, and I told him to " stop doing what he was doing. " I made the mistake of telling him my concerns that he may be manipulating me, slightly, entertaining himself exactly as you put it, all via phone. I should not have done this, but talked to him face-to-face. His wife works in his office, I found out later. He never once mentioned her. If he had mentioned her to begin with, this would have buffered any idea of crush or chemistry or whatever it is. But you're right, he was entertaining himself. I told him I wouldn't file a report. But now you guys are making me think twice. Of course he may tittlate (is that the right word?) other women. Many of the women he does are elderly. I don't know if his marriage is satisfactory, and the guy seemed to maybe be going through a midlife crisis, as he seemed distrought. His surgical abilities are entirely reliable, which I'm glad for. I also think that when this doctor found out the new PS I have currently, who is a more wholesome, older, fatherly, and very brutally honest guy who did a tummy tuck for me, and not a flirter, he may have contacted him and set me up to look like I was flirting with the doctor. Well, if I did flirt with that first PS, I certainly did NOT intend to. I was vulnerable, and I the PS was somewhat attractive to me but not that attractive a guy. It was confusing, trust me. Anyway...I may go ahead and file. I will watch for symptoms, however, as you guys describe. Surely can't hurt. Thanks, Eleni Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 27, 2005 Report Share Posted September 27, 2005 Hi Lea, I'm doing better . . . still have a very sore mouth. I get the stitches out tomorrow. I've started eating foods that require a tiny bit of chewing, even though it doesn't feel good on my gums. I have a bad habit of clenching my jaw. It's probably not helping. I'll be so glad when this is OVER! Explant was a breeze by comparison! Hugs, Rogene Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 16, 2006 Report Share Posted August 16, 2006 Hi, Glad you joined us. I checked out your site and even posted a question. Thanks for the info you provide, it's needed and appreciated. And again, welcome. Barbara > > i thought i'd introduce myself. i have a site for bikers & hep C. It > hopefully explains the issues without all the crap & subjectivity & a > little humor. > > I've been reading these posts for a while, and this looks like a > really active, cool group. i'm glad to be a part. > > Anyways ... hope you'll check it out. > k.c. regalado > > www.hepcstraightup.com > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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