Guest guest Posted November 5, 2004 Report Share Posted November 5, 2004 What he never knows will never hurt him LOL But Robyn you said that he gave you tickets to Australia in 2003? When was your surgery? didn't he know you when you were heavier? I love the sneaky way you got through that. Have you talked to him about your concerns or are you not that far into this with him? If Im being too nosey just tell me LOL Kat Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 5, 2004 Report Share Posted November 5, 2004 Here's our timeline: I knew him when he was married to his ex wife. Since then we both went through divorces. He sold his Orange County house and bought a ranch up north in Nevada County. He keeps an apartment in SF. I went up north with him in 2002 to help him decorate his new place. At that time my weight soared to 250. I went to surgery at 278. He knew me fat. But we were just friends. He's no virgin to pork because he has a 300 pound sister that he refers to as " heavy. " However, my weight was not attractive to him. He gave me the Australia flight pass in December 2002.I'll post my Australia pix to show you what I looked like the last time he saw me before my weight loss. I was down under until February 2003. Had surgery in September 2003. I told him I was having GBS and sent him a new pic after minus 75. He got interested in my weight loss. He gave me the Europe airline pass in July when I was in the 160's. He began to call and email while I was in NY and Europe. His birthday is in October. He wanted me to wait for him in Europe and said he would fly over and we could spend time together. I put him off because I was scared of ??? I finally acquiesed and met him in Vegas for his belated birthday three weeks ago. That was our " new " beginning. I flew up to SFO last weekend, stayed at his place and also spent two days in Reno Halloween weekend. I told him about my need for PS in Vegas because of my insecurity. I was afraid my sorry looking and post menopausal body would turn him off. So far so good. However, I have still maintained some of " myster! " LOL LOL LOL! He still has NOT seen the batwings! LOL LOL LOL! Robyn > > What he never knows will never hurt him LOL But Robyn you said that > he gave you tickets to Australia in 2003? When was your surgery? > didn't he know you when you were heavier? I love the sneaky way you > got through that. Have you talked to him about your concerns or are > you not that far into this with him? > > If Im being too nosey just tell me LOL > > Kat Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 5, 2004 Report Share Posted November 5, 2004 Robyn I am very proud of you. If you ever want to go anywhere with him or even try to find out, you have to be upfront about your insecurities and issues or he will feel like he is doing something wrong. Who knows..I suspect he will suprise you and support your decisions and be there for you anyway. He is obviously interested and knows you've gone through all this. I like what he said about not having a Barbie Doll. mine says that too..but I got news for him..he's getting one! lol I dont need or want a perfect body..I just want to feel " normal " and I am close to that now...until I see all the stretch marks and rolled up skin on my chest..then its another story LOL Kat Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 5, 2004 Report Share Posted November 5, 2004 Kat, its funny you say this. I wanted to be post PS when I went to see him. Was afraid I would look like the Bride of enstein. But, I was afraid to see him with this saggy and droopy body because of my insecurties. Was afraid to put him off any longer because I didn't want him to think I was rejecting him. Every man has only so much patience. Didn't want to lose another potential opportunity in my life. Obesity stole years of living from my life. All this is still so scary for me. Sometimes I hstill have moments of longing for my old wall of fat so I don't have to deal with all these new feelings... Robyn > > Robyn I am very proud of you. If you ever want to go anywhere with > him or even try to find out, you have to be upfront about your > insecurities and issues or he will feel like he is doing something > wrong. Who knows..I suspect he will suprise you and support your > decisions and be there for you anyway. He is obviously interested > and knows you've gone through all this. I like what he said about > not having a Barbie Doll. mine says that too..but I got news for > him..he's getting one! lol I dont need or want a perfect body..I > just want to feel " normal " and I am close to that now...until I see > all the stretch marks and rolled up skin on my chest..then its > another story LOL > > Kat Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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