Re: Understanding 'Understanding the Borderline Mother' Kyla

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Well put Kyla! You have a way with words!!

Stay Strong,

Dawn

> >

> > Hi everyone. Haven't posted since 'babysitting?' but I've been

> > reading a lot. keeps me inspired.

> > i've been reading the Big Book (UBM) and getting a little confused

> > (and totally creeped out by how right on it is!). the fact that

it's

> > a 'disease' and the borderline isn't aware of what they're doing

> makes

> > me feel SAD for my mother, but her past actions, and even some

> current

> > actions make me MAD at my mother. how do you guys balance that?

it

> > seems that feeling SAD totally rids her of any responsibility, but

> > being MAD at a mentally ill woman doesn't seem too productive.

any

> > advice? i would love to hear back on this one...

> > k8

> >

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