Re: Justice is served....NOT!!!

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Hi Bunny,

You're opinion does matter. You are important! You're a wonderful person! It

comes through just in your posts!

sleddog wrote:

Oh, Bunny, NEVER feel this way...you healed, for YOU...you knew they

would

never change, and the courts always beleive the parents over the

siblings.....but you just have to be a so much better person since you've

healed, and are not part of that psycho mess you call your family !! I'm

sorry the judge bought into the lie, thats not your fault !!

>My opinion has never mattered and I'm beginning to think it never will...I

>feel like all of >my healing has been in vain...I hate them both so much.

good for you, you can see the lighter side of a tragic event :-)

>There were about 10 very large guys standing on the sidewalk when I flung

>the door open and stormed down the sidewalk to my car. 1 of them jumped in

>the bushes to >avoid me...he was still there when I pealed out of the

>parking lot. I heard one of them say " holy shit...I think she's ready to

>freaking kill somebody dude " . Imagine me...5' >nothing...107 pounds

>clearing a sidewalk filled with very large men. Lol...that actually made

>me giggle about 20 minutes later.

actually, you shouldn't feel either...you are NOT responsible for what

happend, not with your brother, not with your FOO and not with the

courts...you tried to right the wrong, but the sticky ball was already in

motion and one person alone cannot do much to stop it...you should feel good

that you tried, and that YOU know you are right...

>I don't know if I should feel angry or defeated...if I can get past about

>30 minutes >without bursting into tears maybe I could decide. Story

>developing....I'm off to the movies.

I wish I could make it better for you

Jackie

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[Guest guest]

Bunny,

You are certainly justified in being mad as hell. However, once the

initial rage passes you will find that all the work you've done for

yourself will help you get through this. You are strong and you WILL

get through this!

One thing seems a little weird--didn't the judge find it rather odd

that the parents were testifying against their kid? Most parents

prefer to pretend that their kids can do no wrong no matter what

evidence to the contrary. Can your brother appeal? What was his

lawyer doing when they were committing perjury? A lawyer friend once

told me that if I thought the law had anything to do with justice I

didn't know much about the law. Isn't that nice?! Grrrr....

Hugs and kisses to you, hon. You certainly need them now!

Barb

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> Hey guys...I'm going to catch up with all of you over the long

weekend. I kind of dropped off the radar due to some pretty heavy

stuff going on in addition to a wonderful belated mother's day trip.

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> I'm so ticked right now I'm literally seeing red. Last week my

brother was arrested due to nada and fada's ridiculous made up story

to the police...today was his bail hearing and despite being

promised that I could speak they totally glossed over me like I was

the invisible woman. The did however let the 2 lunatics

speak...they totally lied through their teeth...I had spoken with

the public defender and made it crystal clear that they were both

fabricating the entire events and they were both completely NUTS!

The judge bought it hook line and sinker. I feel so useless...so

powerless...so defeated. When will it ever change? My opinion has

never mattered and I'm beginning to think it never will...I feel

like all of my healing has been in vain...I hate them both so much.

I very half heartedly wish he would be capable of the things they

accuse him off...I'll stop there...once I cool off I will regret it

if I finish.

>

> Once the judge spoke I stormed out of the courtroom like a raging

bull...I was sobbing so hard in the hallway all 4 courts had to

recess and they had to escort me out of the building. There were

about 10 very large guys standing on the sidewalk when I flung the

door open and stormed down the sidewalk to my car. 1 of them jumped

in the bushes to avoid me...he was still there when I pealed out of

the parking lot. I heard one of them say " holy shit...I think she's

ready to freaking kill somebody dude " . Imagine me...5'

nothing...107 pounds clearing a sidewalk filled with very large

men. Lol...that actually made me giggle about 20 minutes later.

>

> I don't know if I should feel angry or defeated...if I can get

past about 30 minutes without bursting into tears maybe I could

decide. Story developing....I'm off to the movies.

>

> Luv ya all...it's been a bad day.

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> Kisses and Nibbles,

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> Bunny

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