Re: lynda-everyone....Mold

[Guest guest]

Amen Lynda

I agree and would never file a claim unless absolutely necessary which really bites as we pay sooooo much for heath home and auto.... I was recently denied for life insurance which of course is not unusual for implant victims but my hubby's company went w/ a new insurance co and I applied for more life... They called me two weeks ago w/ very weird questions. I understand most of them but they asked me if I had ever attempted suicide which floored me. Everyone knows that any life ins co has very strict rules of not paying out if it is a suicide - it is spelled out very clearly so the fact that they would ask that is weird. Of course I said "NO" which was the truth but I guess they asked as I have taken antidepressants for the last few years for depression as well as pain, etc. I have stopped taking them about a month ago but they sent a letter later regretting that they were denying my coverage. It is sad.... 34 year old mom of a 4 year old with a hubby, etc., getting better and better and I can't even pay to get life ins in case something bad happens to me to insure my son and hubby don't have to sell our home and he can be raised in a decent community. It actually made me cry. As so many silicone sisters know I guess I am screwed for life from having had implants even though they are gone and supposedly "completely safe" according to the FDA. Sorry but that makes me even more pissed than ever. I actually wrote that to the command trust network on one of my "many" emails to them and copied my local state reps. If they are safe and not bad for you why can I not get health ins at 34? I do not smoke or use drugs - I am a house mom from a decent family. My hubby and I want a baby more than anything but I am scared to do that too, due to those toxic life ruiners that affected my little one... Pretty soon I will be too old then regretting it even more. It is very sad and confusing trying to make that decision hoping to spin the wheel....

Sorry - had to vent there. didn't mean to use the language but it is how I feel now.

love

shari

[Guest guest]

Well, another strike against insurance companies. Have to have them, but

don't have to love them.

Lynda

At 08:04 AM 8/9/2005, you wrote:

>Amen Lynda

>

>I agree and would never file a claim unless absolutely necessary which

>really bites as we pay sooooo much for heath home and auto.... I was

>recently denied for life insurance which of course is not unusual for

>implant victims but my hubby's company went w/ a new insurance co and I

>applied for more life... They called me two weeks ago w/ very weird

>questions. I understand most of them but they asked me if I had ever

>attempted suicide which floored me. Everyone knows that any life ins co

>has very strict rules of not paying out if it is a suicide - it is spelled

>out very clearly so the fact that they would ask that is weird. Of course

>I said " NO " which was the truth but I guess they asked as I have taken

>antidepressants for the last few years for depression as well as pain,

>etc. I have stopped taking them about a month ago but they sent a letter

>later regretting that they were denying my coverage. It is sad.... 34

>year old mom of a 4 year old with a hubby, etc., getting better and better

>and I can't even pay to get life ins in case something bad happens to me

>to insure my son and hubby don't have to sell our home and he can be

>raised in a decent community. It actually made me cry. As so many

>silicone sisters know I guess I am screwed for life from having had

>implants even though they are gone and supposedly " completely safe "

>according to the FDA. Sorry but that makes me even more pissed than

>ever. I actually wrote that to the command trust network on one of my

> " many " emails to them and copied my local state reps. If they are safe

>and not bad for you why can I not get health ins at 34? I do not smoke or

>use drugs - I am a house mom from a decent family. My hubby and I want a

>baby more than anything but I am scared to do that too, due to those toxic

>life ruiners that affected my little one... Pretty soon I will be too old

>then regretting it even more. It is very sad and confusing trying to make

>that decision hoping to spin the wheel....

>

>Sorry - had to vent there. didn't mean to use the language but it is how

>I feel now.

>

>love

>shari

>

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>licensed health care professionals. Consult your physician or licensed

>health care professional before commencing any medical treatment.

>

> " Do not let either the medical authorities or the politicians mislead you.

>Find out what the facts are, and make your own decisions about how to live

>a happy life and how to work for a better world. " - Linus ing,

>two-time Nobel Prize Winner (1954, Chemistry; 1963, Peace)

>

>

[Guest guest]

Shari,

You don't need to apologize for airing your very valid feelings

about all of this. That is what a support group is for. We have all

suffered in many different ways, and this is just one more way that

implants have ruined our lives. It affects not only our health, but

our relationships, our financial security, our earning potential,

our insurability, our children, and on and on it goes. It's a

nightmare, it is like a cancer that invades everything in our life

and taints everything that we do. Is there anything that implants

don't touch in our lives, once we've made the mistake of getting

them and gotten sick?

I pray that you begin to see the light at the end of the tunnel, and

that your healing will someday soon begin to go forward in leaps and

bounds. Mine took off after the 4th year. Hopefully in the next

few years you will be able to finally put most of this mess behind

you and not look back except to be a source of hope for other women

just getting on this merry-go-round from hell.

Implants destroy lives. It's just the plain and ugly truth. Your

feelings are valid, so don't ever apologize for them!

Stay hopeful....you have much to look forward to in your future!

Love,

Patty

> Amen Lynda

>

> I agree and would never file a claim unless absolutely necessary

which really

> bites as we pay sooooo much for heath home and auto.... I was

recently

> denied for life insurance which of course is not unusual for

implant victims but my

> hubby's company went w/ a new insurance co and I applied for more

life...

> They called me two weeks ago w/ very weird questions. I

understand most of them

> but they asked me if I had ever attempted suicide which floored

me. Everyone

> knows that any life ins co has very strict rules of not paying out

if it is a

> suicide - it is spelled out very clearly so the fact that they

would ask that

> is weird. Of course I said " NO " which was the truth but I guess

they asked

> as I have taken antidepressants for the last few years for

depression as well

> as pain, etc. I have stopped taking them about a month ago but

they sent a

> letter later regretting that they were denying my coverage. It is

sad.... 34

> year old mom of a 4 year old with a hubby, etc., getting better

and better and I

> can't even pay to get life ins in case something bad happens to me

to insure

> my son and hubby don't have to sell our home and he can be raised

in a decent

> community. It actually made me cry. As so many silicone sisters

know I guess

> I am screwed for life from having had implants even though they

are gone and

> supposedly " completely safe " according to the FDA. Sorry but that

makes me

> even more pissed than ever. I actually wrote that to the command

trust network

> on one of my " many " emails to them and copied my local state

reps. If they are

> safe and not bad for you why can I not get health ins at 34? I do

not smoke

> or use drugs - I am a house mom from a decent family. My hubby

and I want a

> baby more than anything but I am scared to do that too, due to

those toxic life

> ruiners that affected my little one... Pretty soon I will be too

old then

> regretting it even more. It is very sad and confusing trying to

make that

> decision hoping to spin the wheel....

>

> Sorry - had to vent there. didn't mean to use the language but it

is how I

> feel now.

>

> love

> shari