everyone get along-please!

[Guest guest]

Hi all

As one of the moderators here I just wanted to send another post reminding everyone that we are a support group to help sick women.... all the bickering, problems, and attacking here are not helping anyone and could be driving women away that may really need our help. If anyone here has a personal issue with anyone else I will once again point out that the best way to handle this is through personal e-mails - not thorough our group. We love everyone here and everyone has wonderful information to share and support to bring to the table - every single one of you...we want you all to get along and support one another. I will please ask that if anyone has any issues that must be addressed, please do it personally so it does not affect the rest of the group... some people here, including myself, get very upset when there is drama going on here instead of support. Please let us not forget why we are here - because we are sick and want to help others. Please handle all these other issues off the group as it only causes stress and problems to women here that have been through enough sickness, etc., to have to read this on a daily basis. We need to all get along and stop the constant picking at one another and bickering. This is unhealthy and is helping no one. If anyone has any serious issues with another we ask that you please ask to address it with one of the moderators privately so these issues can be discussed and worked out without disrupting everyone here. I am not trying to make light of any of these issues or hurt any feelings - I am just trying to make sure we all can do whatever it takes to make the new sick women welcome here and avoid further drama and hurt feeling amongst the people here that are just here to get info or help others.

Please - let's work on getting along and like I said - if there are issues that are troubling anyone, please bring it to the attention of one of the group moderators so it can be taken care of in a private manner. Feel free to address me at any time involving these issues as I am always here to help and am in daily contact with the other group moderators here.

We are all here for the same reason - let's save our anger for the implant manufacturers, not each other.

Thanks and love to all,

Shari

[Guest guest]

Hi,

As another moderator, I want to emphasize that we are here to be supportive.

We can all have our beliefs. It does not entitle us to push them upon others.

Please, let us be here to support and help, not argue.

As Maya Angelou has said, " We are more alike than we are different " .

Lynda

At 08:03 AM 8/17/2005, you wrote:

>Hi all

>

>As one of the moderators here I just wanted to send another post reminding

>everyone that we are a support group to help sick women.... all the

>bickering, problems, and attacking here are not helping anyone and could

>be driving women away that may really need our help. If anyone here has a

>personal issue with anyone else I will once again point out that the best

>way to handle this is through personal e-mails - not thorough our

>group. We love everyone here and everyone has wonderful information to

>share and support to bring to the table - every single one of you...we

>want you all to get along and support one another. I will please ask that

>if anyone has any issues that must be addressed, please do it personally

>so it does not affect the rest of the group... some people here,

>including myself, get very upset when there is drama going on here instead

>of support. Please let us not forget why we are here - because we are

>sick and want to help others. Please handle all these other issues off

>the group as it only causes stress and problems to women here that have

>been through enough sickness, etc., to have to read this on a daily

>basis. We need to all get along and stop the constant picking at one

>another and bickering. This is unhealthy and is helping no one. If

>anyone has any serious issues with another we ask that you please ask to

>address it with one of the moderators privately so these issues can be

>discussed and worked out without disrupting everyone here. I am not

>trying to make light of any of these issues or hurt any feelings - I am

>just trying to make sure we all can do whatever it takes to make the new

>sick women welcome here and avoid further drama and hurt feeling amongst

>the people here that are just here to get info or help others.

>

>Please - let's work on getting along and like I said - if there are issues

>that are troubling anyone, please bring it to the attention of one of the

>group moderators so it can be taken care of in a private manner. Feel

>free to address me at any time involving these issues as I am always here

>to help and am in daily contact with the other group moderators here.

>

>We are all here for the same reason - let's save our anger for the implant

>manufacturers, not each other.

>

>Thanks and love to all,

>

>Shari

>

>

>

>Opinions expressed are NOT meant to take the place of advice given by

>licensed health care professionals. Consult your physician or licensed

>health care professional before commencing any medical treatment.

>

> " Do not let either the medical authorities or the politicians mislead you.

>Find out what the facts are, and make your own decisions about how to live

>a happy life and how to work for a better world. " - Linus ing,

>two-time Nobel Prize Winner (1954, Chemistry; 1963, Peace)

>

>

[Guest guest]

Thanks Lynda and Shari!

Very well said!

God Bless All,

Rogene

[Guest guest]

Shari

Very well said.Thank you

Dianehalvey70@... wrote:

Hi allAs one of the moderators here I just wanted to send another post reminding everyone that we are a support group to help sick women.... all the bickering, problems, and attacking here are not helping anyone and could be driving women away that may really need our help. If anyone here has a personal issue with anyone else I will once again point out that the best way to handle this is through personal e-mails - not thorough our group. We love everyone here and everyone has wonderful information to share and support to bring to the table - every single one of you...we want you all to get along and support one another. I will please ask that if anyone has any issues that must be addressed, please do it personally so it does not affect the rest of the

group... some people here, including myself, get very upset when there is drama going on here instead of support. Please let us not forget why we are here - because we are sick and want to help others. Please handle all these other issues off the group as it only causes stress and problems to women here that have been through enough sickness, etc., to have to read this on a daily basis. We need to all get along and stop the constant picking at one another and bickering. This is unhealthy and is helping no one. If anyone has any serious issues with another we ask that you please ask to address it with one of the moderators privately so these issues can be discussed and worked out without disrupting everyone here. I am not trying to make light of any of these issues or hurt any feelings - I am just trying to make sure we all can do whatever it takes to make the new sick women welcome here and avoid further drama and hurt feeling amongst the

people here that are just here to get info or help others.Please - let's work on getting along and like I said - if there are issues that are troubling anyone, please bring it to the attention of one of the group moderators so it can be taken care of in a private manner. Feel free to address me at any time involving these issues as I am always here to help and am in daily contact with the other group moderators here.We are all here for the same reason - let's save our anger for the implant manufacturers, not each other.Thanks and love to all,ShariDiane

[Guest guest]

Hi Shari,

I apologize for going public with my post to Aylene. I should have either ignored her, the grown up thing to do, or written her back privately. I am frustrated with her private and public attacks and let it get the best of me. It won’t happen again.

Kenda

Hi all

As one of the moderators here I just wanted to send another post reminding everyone that we are a support group to help sick women.... all the bickering, problems, and attacking here are not helping anyone and could be driving women away that may really need our help. If anyone here has a personal issue with anyone else I will once again point out that the best way to handle this is through personal e-mails - not thorough our group. We love everyone here and everyone has wonderful information to share and support to bring to the table - every single one of you...we want you all to get along and support one another. I will please ask that if anyone has any issues that must be addressed, please do it personally so it does not affect the rest of the group... some people here, including myself, get very upset when there is drama going on here instead of support. Please let us not forget why we are here - because we are sick and want to help oth ers. Please handle all these other issues off the group as it only causes stress and problems to women here that have been through enough sickness, etc., to have to read this on a daily basis. We need to all get along and stop the constant picking at one another and bickering. This is unhealthy and is helping no one. If anyone has any serious issues with another we ask that you please ask to address it with one of the moderators privately so these issues can be discussed and worked out without disrupting everyone here. I am not trying to make light of any of these issues or hurt any feelings - I am just trying to make sure we all can do whatever it takes to make the new sick women welcome here and avoid further drama and hurt feeling amongst the people here that are just here to get info or help others.

Please - let's work on getting along and like I said - if there are issues that are troubling anyone, please bring it to the attention of one of the group moderators so it can be taken care of in a private manner. Feel free to address me at any time involving these issues as I am always here to help and am in daily contact with the other group moderators here.

We are all here for the same reason - let's save our anger for the implant manufacturers, not each other.

Thanks and love to all,

Shari

Opinions expressed are NOT meant to take the place of advice given by licensed health care professionals. Consult your physician or licensed health care professional before commencing any medical treatment.

" Do not let either the medical authorities or the politicians mislead you. Find out what the facts are, and make your own decisions about how to live a happy life and how to work for a better world. " - Linus ing, two-time Nobel Prize Winner (1954, Chemistry; 1963, Peace)

[Guest guest]

That was to have gone private, I apologize that it didn’t.

Kenda

Hi Shari,

I apologize for going public with my post to Aylene. I should have either ignored her, the grown up thing to do, or written her back privately. I am frustrated with her private and public attacks and let it get the best of me. It won’t happen again.

Kenda

Hi all

As one of the moderators here I just wanted to send another post reminding everyone that we are a support group to help sick women.... all the bickering, problems, and attacking here are not helping anyone and could be driving women away that may really need our help. If anyone here has a personal issue with anyone else I will once again point out that the best way to handle this is through personal e-mails - not thorough our group. We love everyone here and everyone has wonderful information to share and support to bring to the table - every single one of you...we want you all to get along and support one another. I will please ask that if anyone has any issues that must be addressed, please do it personally so it does not affect the rest of the group... some people here, including myself, get very upset when there is drama going on here instead of support. Please let us not forget why we are here - because we are sick and want to help oth ers. Please handle all these other issues off the group as it only causes stress and problems to women here that have been through enough sickness, etc., to have to read this on a daily basis. We need to all get along and stop the constant picking at one another and bickering. This is unhealthy and is helping no one. If anyone has any serious issues with another we ask that you please ask to address it with one of the moderators privately so these issues can be discussed and worked out without disrupting everyone here. I am not trying to make light of any of these issues or hurt any feelings - I am just trying to make sure we all can do whatever it takes to make the new sick women welcome here and avoid further drama and hurt feeling amongst the people here that are just here to get info or help others.

Please - let's work on getting along and like I said - if there are issues that are troubling anyone, please bring it to the attention of one of the group moderators so it can be taken care of in a private manner. Feel free to address me at any time involving these issues as I am always here to help and am in daily contact with the other group moderators here.

We are all here for the same reason - let's save our anger for the implant manufacturers, not each other.

Thanks and love to all,

Shari

Opinions expressed are NOT meant to take the place of advice given by licensed health care professionals. Consult your physician or licensed health care professional before commencing any medical treatment.

" Do not let either the medical authorities or the politicians mislead you. Find out what the facts are, and make your own decisions about how to live a happy life and how to work for a better world. " - Linus ing, two-time Nobel Prize Winner (1954, Chemistry; 1963, Peace)

[Guest guest]

sorry Kenda - I did not realize that was to be a private email either. Anytime you respond to a message and do not do a regular email to a specific address it goes to the group... I used to make the same mistakes before I understood the group posting stuff... if you need to send mail personally to me or anyone, just click on our individual addresses or type them in for a private email. Otherwise everyone sees it through the group. Hopefully now we can put all this stuff behind us and move forward towards supporting and helping one another!!

To everyone - Lets just try to get along and if anyone gets under your skin just ignore them or post privately to one of the moderators ... we can handle any issues form there without disrupting the whole group. it is much more effective that way and saves people from hurt feelings, etc.

Hope you are feeling well today!!!

shari

[Guest guest]

Thank you, Shari. I realized what I did as soon as I hit send. I was hurrying to get out of the house to an appointment.

I am feeling wonderful today! It’s a beautiful day here today. I’m off to the gym and to dog training. I am showing one of my Goldens in obedience next weekend at a UKC trial here.

Kenda

sorry Kenda - I did not realize that was to be a private email either. Anytime you respond to a message and do not do a regular email to a specific address it goes to the group... I used to make the same mistakes before I understood the group posting stuff... if you need to send mail personally to me or anyone, just click on our individual addresses or type them in for a private email. Otherwise everyone sees it through the group. Hopefully now we can put all this stuff behind us and move forward towards supporting and helping one another!!

To everyone - Lets just try to get along and if anyone gets under your skin just ignore them or post privately to one of the moderators ... we can handle any issues form there without disrupting the whole group. it is much more effective that way and saves people from hurt feelings, etc.

Hope you are feeling well today!!!

shari

Opinions expressed are NOT meant to take the place of advice given by licensed health care professionals. Consult your physician or licensed health care professional before commencing any medical treatment.

" Do not let either the medical authorities or the politicians mislead you. Find out what the facts are, and make your own decisions about how to live a happy life and how to work for a better world. " - Linus ing, two-time Nobel Prize Winner (1954, Chemistry; 1963, Peace)