Re: Can any one help me feel more assured.

[Guest guest]

Hi,

Any man who truly is interested in you, won’t care what your chest looks like. In my case, my husband was dead set against my getting implants but I wanted them. I joined this group prior to my implantation date, asking for advice. I was immediately talked out of getting implants and my husband has been pleased ever since. I have since been told that most men don’t actually even like the feel of implanted breasts, they are not natural feeling at all.

I did date one guy in my early 20’s who said he wasn’t physically attracted to me because of my small bust size. He offered to buy me implants and I dumped him.

Kenda

Hi,

I just want to say that I am very glad that many of you ladies have

decided to build chat rooms and post it boards for this topic. I have

thought many times over the years of getting implants because well....

I had many circustances that made me want to get them. I had been

involved in the entertainment industry for a short time and felt that

women who had implants got better treatment than women who didn't.

This wasn't always the case though some women had men that were

terrible to them even after they had implants. One women told me that

after she got her implants her boyfriend tried to bust them by hitting

her in the chest area!

I was wondering if any of you women out there had pressure from this

type of business or men, in particular, I have had many ugly remarks

from men over the years and now I am very self-concuss of my bust

now. I am a 34 B and not necessarily flat but I have been told ugly

things by men were I am almost turn off by all of them now. Can some

one help me with some of their stories that they have had? Thanks!!!

Opinions expressed are NOT meant to take the place of advice given by licensed health care professionals. Consult your physician or licensed health care professional before commencing any medical treatment.

" Do not let either the medical authorities or the politicians mislead you. Find out what the facts are, and make your own decisions about how to live a happy life and how to work for a better world. " - Linus ing, two-time Nobel Prize Winner (1954, Chemistry; 1963, Peace)

[Guest guest]

Good for you Kenda! Good grief, what a cad that guy was to tell you

that he was attracted to you physically because of small breast

size! That was his stinking problem, not yours!

It's stuff like that from guys that makes me shake my head. Some of

them are really pretty clueless.

Patty

--- In , Kenda Skaggs <skaggs@c...>

wrote:

> Hi,

>

> Any man who truly is interested in you, won¹t care what your chest

looks

> like. In my case, my husband was dead set against my getting

implants but I

> wanted them. I joined this group prior to my implantation date,

asking for

> advice. I was immediately talked out of getting implants and my

husband has

> been pleased ever since. I have since been told that most men

don¹t

> actually even like the feel of implanted breasts, they are not

natural

> feeling at all.

>

> I did date one guy in my early 20¹s who said he wasn¹t physically

attracted

> to me because of my small bust size. He offered to buy me

implants and I

> dumped him.

>

> Kenda

>

> > Hi,

> >

> > I just want to say that I am very glad that many of you ladies

have

> > decided to build chat rooms and post it boards for this topic.

I have

> > thought many times over the years of getting implants because

well....

> > I had many circustances that made me want to get them. I had been

> > involved in the entertainment industry for a short time and felt

that

> > women who had implants got better treatment than women who

didn't.

> > This wasn't always the case though some women had men that were

> > terrible to them even after they had implants. One women told

me that

> > after she got her implants her boyfriend tried to bust them by

hitting

> > her in the chest area!

> >

> > I was wondering if any of you women out there had pressure from

this

> > type of business or men, in particular, I have had many ugly

remarks

> > from men over the years and now I am very self-concuss of my bust

> > now. I am a 34 B and not necessarily flat but I have been told

ugly

> > things by men were I am almost turn off by all of them now. Can

some

> > one help me with some of their stories that they have had?

Thanks!!!

> >

> >

> >

> >

> > Opinions expressed are NOT meant to take the place of advice

given by licensed

> > health care professionals. Consult your physician or licensed

health care

> > professional before commencing any medical treatment.

> >

> > " Do not let either the medical authorities or the politicians

mislead you.

> > Find out what the facts are, and make your own decisions about

how to live a

> > happy life and how to work for a better world. " - Linus ing,

two-time

> > Nobel Prize Winner (1954, Chemistry; 1963, Peace)

> >

> >

[Guest guest]

I meant " wasn't " attracted to you...sorry.

I wonder why guys can't figure out that saying stuff like that would

hurt? I mean, how would they like it if we said we weren't

attracted to them because they were lacking in size in certain

areas? Duh.

Kenda, your guy sounds great. He's wise. : )

> > Hi,

> >

> > Any man who truly is interested in you, won¹t care what your

chest

> looks

> > like. In my case, my husband was dead set against my getting

> implants but I

> > wanted them. I joined this group prior to my implantation date,

> asking for

> > advice. I was immediately talked out of getting implants and my

> husband has

> > been pleased ever since. I have since been told that most

men

> don¹t

> > actually even like the feel of implanted breasts, they are not

> natural

> > feeling at all.

> >

> > I did date one guy in my early 20¹s who said he wasn¹t

physically

> attracted

> > to me because of my small bust size. He offered to buy me

> implants and I

> > dumped him.

> >

> > Kenda

> >

> > > Hi,

> > >

> > > I just want to say that I am very glad that many of you ladies

> have

> > > decided to build chat rooms and post it boards for this

topic.

> I have

> > > thought many times over the years of getting implants because

> well....

> > > I had many circustances that made me want to get them. I had

been

> > > involved in the entertainment industry for a short time and

felt

> that

> > > women who had implants got better treatment than women who

> didn't.

> > > This wasn't always the case though some women had men that were

> > > terrible to them even after they had implants. One women told

> me that

> > > after she got her implants her boyfriend tried to bust them by

> hitting

> > > her in the chest area!

> > >

> > > I was wondering if any of you women out there had pressure

from

> this

> > > type of business or men, in particular, I have had many ugly

> remarks

> > > from men over the years and now I am very self-concuss of my

bust

> > > now. I am a 34 B and not necessarily flat but I have been

told

> ugly

> > > things by men were I am almost turn off by all of them now.

Can

> some

> > > one help me with some of their stories that they have had?

> Thanks!!!

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > > Opinions expressed are NOT meant to take the place of advice

> given by licensed

> > > health care professionals. Consult your physician or licensed

> health care

> > > professional before commencing any medical treatment.

> > >

> > > " Do not let either the medical authorities or the politicians

> mislead you.

> > > Find out what the facts are, and make your own decisions about

> how to live a

> > > happy life and how to work for a better world. " - Linus

ing,

> two-time

> > > Nobel Prize Winner (1954, Chemistry; 1963, Peace)

> > >

> > >

[Guest guest]

The guy was as clueless as they come. He had been interested in me for years before I dated him. He was older than I was by more than he admitted. He was also a Los Angeles cop. He was the biggest jerk I ever dated before marrying.

My husband loves me the way I am and actually believes I am the most beautiful woman in the world and I actually get more beautiful as years pass. I think he needs glasses but I won’t buy them for him.

Kenda

I meant " wasn't " attracted to you...sorry.

I wonder why guys can't figure out that saying stuff like that would

hurt? I mean, how would they like it if we said we weren't

attracted to them because they were lacking in size in certain

areas? Duh.

Kenda, your guy sounds great. He's wise. : )

> > Hi,

> >

> > Any man who truly is interested in you, won’t care what your

chest

> looks

> > like. In my case, my husband was dead set against my getting

> implants but I

> > wanted them. I joined this group prior to my implantation date,

> asking for

> > advice. I was immediately talked out of getting implants and my

> husband has

> > been pleased ever since. I have since been told that most

men

> don’t

> > actually even like the feel of implanted breasts, they are not

> natural

> > feeling at all.

> >

> > I did date one guy in my early 20’s who said he wasn’t

physically

> attracted

> > to me because of my small bust size. He offered to buy me

> implants and I

> > dumped him.

> >

> > Kenda

> >

> > > Hi,

> > >

> > > I just want to say that I am very glad that many of you ladies

> have

> > > decided to build chat rooms and post it boards for this

topic.

> I have

> > > thought many times over the years of getting implants because

> well....

> > > I had many circustances that made me want to get them. I had

been

> > > involved in the entertainment industry for a short time and

felt

> that

> > > women who had implants got better treatment than women who

> didn't.

> > > This wasn't always the case though some women had men that were

> > > terrible to them even after they had implants. One women told

> me that

> > > after she got her implants her boyfriend tried to bust them by

> hitting

> > > her in the chest area!

> > >

> > > I was wondering if any of you women out there had pressure

from

> this

> > > type of business or men, in particular, I have had many ugly

> remarks

> > > from men over the years and now I am very self-concuss of my

bust

> > > now. I am a 34 B and not necessarily flat but I have been

told

> ugly

> > > things by men were I am almost turn off by all of them now.

Can

> some

> > > one help me with some of their stories that they have had?

> Thanks!!!

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > > Opinions expressed are NOT meant to take the place of advice

> given by licensed

> > > health care professionals. Consult your physician or licensed

> health care

> > > professional before commencing any medical treatment.

> > >

> > > " Do not let either the medical authorities or the politicians

> mislead you.

> > > Find out what the facts are, and make your own decisions about

> how to live a

> > > happy life and how to work for a better world. " - Linus

ing,

> two-time

> > > Nobel Prize Winner (1954, Chemistry; 1963, Peace)

> > >

> > >

[Guest guest]

Welcome and thanks for posting your concerns. I'm really glad you

haven't jumped into getting breast implants yet after all you've

seen and heard about them. I think they are totally overrated

myself. Almost every doctor you see out there who puts in implants

is going to give you the rosy picture about how good they are going

to make you look and how it builds your self esteem, but the truth

is far from the picture they paint.

Similar to Kenda, I did have an experience with one jerk who told me

that my breasts were too small, especially after his former

girlfriend was supposedly huge. What was strange was how

relentlessy he pursued me. He was actually just sick (the way I see

it), and I had a hard time making him leave me alone. This was a

college educated man, too!

Perhaps many of us have experienced negative, ugly comments from men

about our bust size. I only had one instance that I remember--you

said you have had many? Could it be that you are looking for men in

all the wrong places?

I am sure in the entertainment industry that there are many shallow

people who don't understand that the true value of a person lies in

their heart and soul, who they are on the inside, and not the outer

wrapping. There are so many judgements made on appearances. Sadly,

that occurs not only in the entertainment industry, but everywhere

in the world. So often, people are judged by appearances.

It takes a certain amount of maturity to recognize that beauty

fades and that our appearances, in the long run, don't matter. When

it comes down to relationships, it is all about being able to

express love in healthy ways, to cherish the heart and soul of those

we care about, and to give of yourself in meaningful ways. Guys who

are all about boobs or appearances don't get it, and aren't worth

the effort. Maybe they need time to " grow up " and hopefully someday

they will get a clue. There are alot of people running around out

there who are old and still immature.

I don't know if that helps you, but hopefully it will give you some

encouragement that it is okay to be picky about the guys out there!

Sensitive, caring and absolutely wonderful guys are out there...I

know, because I married one! You just have to know how to weed out

the bad ones to find the golden guys. Don't waste time on guys who

are shallow, because in the end, their selfishness is going to hurt

you.

Patty

> Hi,

>

> I just want to say that I am very glad that many of you ladies

have

> decided to build chat rooms and post it boards for this topic. I

have

> thought many times over the years of getting implants because

well....

> I had many circustances that made me want to get them. I had been

> involved in the entertainment industry for a short time and felt

that

> women who had implants got better treatment than women who

didn't.

> This wasn't always the case though some women had men that were

> terrible to them even after they had implants. One women told me

that

> after she got her implants her boyfriend tried to bust them by

hitting

> her in the chest area!

>

> I was wondering if any of you women out there had pressure from

this

> type of business or men, in particular, I have had many ugly

remarks

> from men over the years and now I am very self-concuss of my bust

> now. I am a 34 B and not necessarily flat but I have been told

ugly

> things by men were I am almost turn off by all of them now. Can

some

> one help me with some of their stories that they have had?

Thanks!!!

[Guest guest]

Dear,

The people who would value you for your bust size,

aren't worth being concerned over! . . .

They don't deserve your respect or consideration.

You're the one thinking straight, not them!

They are the type that would get rid of you at the

first sign of illness.

Hugs and prayers,

Rogene

--- kr4beck <kr4beck@...> wrote:

> Hi,

>

> I just want to say that I am very glad that many of

> you ladies have

> decided to build chat rooms and post it boards for

> this topic. I have

> thought many times over the years of getting

> implants because well....

> I had many circustances that made me want to get

> them. I had been

> involved in the entertainment industry for a short

> time and felt that

> women who had implants got better treatment than

> women who didn't.

> This wasn't always the case though some women had

> men that were

> terrible to them even after they had implants. One

> women told me that

> after she got her implants her boyfriend tried to

> bust them by hitting

> her in the chest area!

>

> I was wondering if any of you women out there had

> pressure from this

> type of business or men, in particular, I have had

> many ugly remarks

> from men over the years and now I am very

> self-concuss of my bust

> now. I am a 34 B and not necessarily flat but I

> have been told ugly

> things by men were I am almost turn off by all of

> them now. Can some

> one help me with some of their stories that they

> have had? Thanks!!!

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

I second that thought! Absolutely right!

Kendal.Rogene S <saxony01@...> wrote:

Dear,The people who would value you for your bust size,aren't worth being concerned over! . . . They don't deserve your respect or consideration.You're the one thinking straight, not them!They are the type that would get rid of you at thefirst sign of illness.Hugs and prayers,Rogene--- kr4beck <kr4beck@...> wrote:> Hi,> > I just want to say that I am very glad that many of> you ladies have > decided to build chat rooms and post it boards for> this topic. I have > thought many times over the years of getting> implants because well.... > I had many circustances that made me want to get> them. I had been > involved in the entertainment industry for a short> time and felt that > women who had implants

got better treatment than> women who didn't. > This wasn't always the case though some women had> men that were > terrible to them even after they had implants. One> women told me that > after she got her implants her boyfriend tried to> bust them by hitting > her in the chest area! > > I was wondering if any of you women out there had> pressure from this > type of business or men, in particular, I have had> many ugly remarks > from men over the years and now I am very> self-concuss of my bust > now. I am a 34 B and not necessarily flat but I> have been told ugly > things by men were I am almost turn off by all of> them now. Can some > one help me with some of their stories that they> have had? Thanks!!! > > >

[Guest guest]

I fully agree on the bust size thing - if that is all they care about then there is something seriously wrong with those guys.... Just from my own experience I am a small A. 10 years ago when I met my hubby I was getting ready to have my implants put in... we were just starting to date and he didn't like the idea and told me not to do it. At the time of course I was always wearing push-up super padded bras so I figured he really didn't know how small I actually was there so who was he to give his opinion... I was 25 and boy I wish I had listened to him. We married 3 years later and I will say that he NEVER like my implants - they just do not feel like regular boobs and he hated them. He was always trying to talk me into getting them removed. I was really worried about him seeing me after explant as he had never seen me otherwise.... The day I decided to have them removed he admitted how much he hated the implant thing and was very happy. He says that he likes them much better small and natural like they are now. I just wish I had listened to him before I made the fateful decision that has almost ruined my life!

shari

[Guest guest]

HI

I would love to be a 34B. I am a very padded bra 36A. My sister

and mom are both 34b and so is my daughter and I think they all have

very nice breasts. Especially my daughter. And she thinks so too.

Of course, I always point out how she has " something " . Her dad's

sisters all have giant (and in my opinion) ugly breasts and I think

my daughter was secretly relieved not to have to deal with those.

ANyway, even knowing what it is like to be completely flat I have

had 2 (first one died) wonderful husbands who think I am very

attractive and who have never made a comment about my flat breasts.

I got implants while my first husband was still alive, but it wasn't

his idea, it was mine. I won't say that he didn't think it was

great--he did. But even then, with implants, I was only a 34B!! I

know many many happily married women who have small breasts and

their spouses find them desirable. I also know women without

breasts--cancer--and their husbands still find them desirable.

Their is absolutely nothing wrong with you---only with the kind of

immature jerks you have had the misfortune to know.

Did you see the earlier post on movie stars with small breasts?

They don't seem to be hurting for attention. Anyone who would

comment on your breast size isn't worth knowing. HOw very very

shallow. Besides, I know lots of men who think small breasts are

cute and perky. Have you ever seen Rene Russo in that film with

Pierce Brosnan? THe Crown Affair? She shows her breasts and

they aren't very big and men tend to find her very hot in that

show.

I think that absolutely their are many men out there who would find

your breasts beautiful just the way they are--you just haven't met

them yet. Getting implants was the biggest mistake I ever made and

I am so very happy that you haven't gone down that same road.

God bless

kathy

> Hi,

>

> I just want to say that I am very glad that many of you ladies

have

> decided to build chat rooms and post it boards for this topic. I

have

> thought many times over the years of getting implants because

well....

> I had many circustances that made me want to get them. I had been

> involved in the entertainment industry for a short time and felt

that

> women who had implants got better treatment than women who

didn't.

> This wasn't always the case though some women had men that were

> terrible to them even after they had implants. One women told me

that

> after she got her implants her boyfriend tried to bust them by

hitting

> her in the chest area!

>

> I was wondering if any of you women out there had pressure from

this

> type of business or men, in particular, I have had many ugly

remarks

> from men over the years and now I am very self-concuss of my bust

> now. I am a 34 B and not necessarily flat but I have been told

ugly

> things by men were I am almost turn off by all of them now. Can

some

> one help me with some of their stories that they have had?

Thanks!!!

[Guest guest]

I think it is funny how men feel so safe saying stuff about women's breasts, but God FORBID you say anything about their penis size! I say we start a campaign to make men feel the pain!Kenda Skaggs <skaggs@...> wrote:

Hi,Any man who truly is interested in you, won’t care what your chest looks like. In my case, my husband was dead set against my getting implants but I wanted them. I joined this group prior to my implantation date, asking for advice. I was immediately talked out of getting implants and my husband has been pleased ever since. I have since been told that most men don’t actually even like the feel of implanted breasts, they are not natural feeling at all.I did date one guy in my early 20’s who said he wasn’t physically attracted to me because of my small bust size. He offered to buy me implants and I dumped him.Kenda

Hi,I just want to say that I am very glad that many of you ladies have decided to build chat rooms and post it boards for this topic. I have thought many times over the years of getting implants because well.... I had many circustances that made me want to get them. I had been involved in the entertainment industry for a short time and felt that women who had implants got better treatment than women who didn't. This wasn't always the case though some women had men that were terrible to them even after they had implants. One women told me that after she got her implants her boyfriend tried to bust them by hitting her in the chest area! I was wondering if any of you women out there had pressure from this type of business or men, in particular, I have had many ugly remarks from men over the years and now I am very self-concuss of my bust now. I am a 34 B and

not necessarily flat but I have been told ugly things by men were I am almost turn off by all of them now. Can some one help me with some of their stories that they have had? Thanks!!! Opinions expressed are NOT meant to take the place of advice given by licensed health care professionals. Consult your physician or licensed health care professional before commencing any medical treatment. "Do not let either the medical authorities or the politicians mislead you. Find out what the facts are, and make your own decisions about how to live a happy life and how to work for a better world." - Linus ing, two-time Nobel Prize Winner (1954, Chemistry; 1963, Peace)