Guest guest Posted April 24, 2010 Report Share Posted April 24, 2010 > > > << I never said that this is not a good list, its the best I have found > but I stand by my view that NT spouses get slammed a lot here. >> > > > If I may be so frank, I do think that you have a rather severe blind > spot with respect to the impact of your words on others. > > Best, > ~CJ .................. CJ, Two different view points here and in this case I agree w/. It may be a case if 'I ' may be so frank of your taking her blanket statement too personally. She never named names or pointed a finger. She only shared her experience. It is an observation and experience held by others on this list including myself. Now that it has been brought out into the open we can all share equally in the responsibility to take a little more time with our responses and try being more sensitive. We can work together to correct this deficit. Even if someone is attempting to launch a personal attack we choose how we respond to it. ~ K D ............. 's Words: Be respectful. My experience with an AS spouse might be different from yours, but that does not negate or invalidate my feelings. This is NOT about them vs. us. It is about both sides coming to the table to discus issues important to the poster. This should a friendly place and not a war zone which is a human error as it is how we learn and can practice our skills from both sides. Pushing the boundaries and fighting oppression is how we can fight back. This is why ASPIRES is still standing. Keep pushing the boundaries and challenging the dominate group. YOUR voice counts and can help to effect change. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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