Re: KD is no longer a member of ASPIRES

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Best of wishes to you, KD. Thank you for all the hard work you do, and

Helen, to make this group go as it does.

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> Greetings:

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> Once again I apologize for sending a private email to this group. I take

ownership of my behavior and my post alluded to the fact that we were going to

cut a member loose for the good of the group.

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> Online groups are not for everyone. Helen and I and past moderators and I am

sure Lorelei can tell you stories, have always worked behind the scene working

with members. We all have a different time table on how we process information

and sometimes there are " thinking errors. " A thinking error is when you have a

choice, change your behavior or your thinking to rationalized our behavior to

yourself. " I only drink because my husband is an ass! " We all do this at times

in our lives. It is a human trait.

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> The learning curve is different for all of us. KD is not at that point in her

life right now.

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> This has nothing to do with an NS spouse feeling mocked on this list that

started this thread. It was her not being able to let this thread go after being

told multiple times to do so which was a violation of list rules.

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> ASPIRES wishes KD well and hopes she will find a list more suited to her

needs.

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> ASPIRES deals with this every so many years. It is all about keeping this a

safe place to be and post for all of us.

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> Have great day or evening,

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> List owner

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