Guest guest Posted March 30, 2006 Report Share Posted March 30, 2006 " It's as if we were holding one end of a rope and the BPD grabbed the other end and started to tug. Most of us would react automatically. We would tug back. It never occurs to us that we dont have to play.If we knew we had options we might choose to drop the rope. There is no tug-of-war unless both players hang on to their end. " Jacky ……………..This is a great visual !! Thank you for posting this; this phrase will certainly go in my " toolbox " . mg Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Recommended Posts
Join the conversation
You are posting as a guest. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account.
Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible.