Re: so long-dawn please ....

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Dawn

please don't let a few upsetting posts make you leave the group.... if that was the case I would have left a year ago and missed out on sooo much support!! please do not leave us.... do as I do... the minute you start reading it and it is neg delete or ignore it and move on - that is what got me thru a little mess like this we had last year!!!

love

shari

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What good advice, thank you Shari....love you....Lea

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Re: so long-dawn please ....

Dawnplease don't let a few upsetting posts make you leave the group.... if that was the case I would have left a year ago and missed out on sooo much support!! please do not leave us.... do as I do... the minute you start reading it and it is neg delete or ignore it and move on - that is what got me thru a little mess like this we had last year!!!loveshari Opinions expressed are NOT meant to take the place of advice given by licensed health care professionals. Consult your physician or licensed health care professional before commencing any medical treatment. "Do not let either the medical authorities or the politicians mislead you. Find out what the facts are, and make your own decisions about how to live a happy life and how to work for a better world." - Linus ing, two-time Nobel Prize Winner (1954, Chemistry; 1963, Peace)

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Shari, I totally agree. I want to say that I have been on this site

for three years and it has been only a handful of times where this

kind of discord has been on the site. I hope that Dawn decides to

stay and anyone else who might be upset by recent posts. I also

want to point out that I belong to three autoimmune disease sites

and this problem occurs everywhere. Wherever there are people there

are bound to be misunderstandings, discord, and hurt feelings

occasionally. We need to have more patience, understanding and

forgiveness at those times. After all humans are not perfect, which

is why God has given us the command to forgive one another even as

He forgives us.

This support group is full of kind, compassionate, wonderful women

who really only want the best for everyone here. Occasionally,

being human, we do not choose the right words to say, we perhaps

push our opinions, or knock someone else's, or do other things that

are hurtful. I am asking you all to just forgive at those times,

and move on and let it go. There are several moderators on this

group and as such, we try to monitor the posts for those that are

deliberately hurtful or counterproductive. But we do not usually

otherwise interfere because this is all of our group and we should

be able to post and respond freely. So sometimes, posts will

contain things that someone may take hurtfully. (But not very

often). It is these times,I would ask you consider the good of the

group, and just drop it. Or email the other person privately, which

is a much better way to resolve hurt feelings anyway. Almost

always, this works because the people involved never intended to

hurt someone.

Lastly, lets remember that we are unified by our common purpose--to

get well, to help others to get well, to inform those who don't know

that breasts implants can harm us, and to support causes to get

these unsafe implants off the market. This support group works hard

towards all the goals. It is an awesome support group. So lets

talk it up, be positive, and take every opportunity to make it an

even better group!

love, kathy

-- In , halvey70@a... wrote:

> Dawn

>

> please don't let a few upsetting posts make you leave the

group.... if that

> was the case I would have left a year ago and missed out on sooo

much

> support!! please do not leave us.... do as I do... the minute you

start reading it

> and it is neg delete or ignore it and move on - that is what got

me thru a

> little mess like this we had last year!!!

>

> love

> shari

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Amen.

Thanks Kathy.

www.BreastImplantAwareness.org

> > Dawn

> >

> > please don't let a few upsetting posts make you leave the

> group.... if that

> > was the case I would have left a year ago and missed out on sooo

> much

> > support!! please do not leave us.... do as I do... the minute

you

> start reading it

> > and it is neg delete or ignore it and move on - that is what got

> me thru a

> > little mess like this we had last year!!!

> >

> > love

> > shari

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I agree 100%. There are so many helpful women here and a lot of knowledge you won't get any place else. Please stay with us. There is much more positive feelings here than negative. We have too much to fight for and way too far to go.

Toni

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Thank you Kathy,

You say it so well! . . .

This group has worked incredibly well compared to all

the other groups I've known.

We're determined to keep it that way!

Love,

Rogene