Re: Just an observation...Sue...................

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Hi Sue,

I grew up with a Father like the husband you described. I think that is also why I got the poison bags too. I always felt ugly and that nobody would want me. I was engaged twice but both had 'their issues' and I wasn't going to get caught up in all the stuff I put up with growing up.

You are a very sweet woman and I hope you are right that someone will come my way. However, I'm 44 and still waiting. Where the hell is he????? :)gibbense@... wrote:

Dear Beth,

I had only been with my then partner a very short time before I got ill and I agree I was really really lucky, he married me not really understanding the whole silicone issue, but he has ALWAYS believed me.

My life hasn't always been so good though I was married before to someone who abused me both physically and mentally for seven years before I had the courage to leave with four young children, he was the reason I got those rotten poison bags in the first place I was under the illusion that if I was more attractive he would treat me better, was I wrong!!.

Anyway Beth I suppose what I am trying to say is you never know when love will come your way, I was a single parent of four kids when I met he loved me for me baggage as well.

You will meet someone oneday when you least expect it I can promise you that, not all men are shallow. I don't know you personally but you sound so nice caring and intelligent, when you meet that special someone he will be one lucky man.

Love Sue. Opinions expressed are NOT meant to take the place of advice given by licensed health care professionals. Consult your physician or licensed health care professional before commencing any medical treatment. "Do not let either the medical authorities or the politicians mislead you. Find out what the facts are, and make your own decisions about how to live a happy life and how to work for a better world." - Linus ing, two-time Nobel Prize Winner (1954, Chemistry; 1963, Peace)