Re: Re: Just an observation........Ilena..............

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Thanks Ilena. You are a very special person!

colibrimama <colibrimama@...> wrote:

Hi Beth,Thanks for sharing about your personal situation with men ...Working with women in this cause for 10 years now ... I've seen the whole gambit of men ... Some fabulously fantastic like Lea & Patty's s ... I also have had the pleasure of meeting Rogene's wonderful husband Manny ...And I've seen the opposite too.One woman from Palm Springs had NEVER told her husband she had implants ... in fact, she lied about it since he told her on their first date how 'dumb' women were to get them ... he NEVER realized it in 10 years of marriage ...Then ... when she got so sick and had to have them out ... that was the end of their marriage ... {Obviously they had some communication issues before ... }Just wanted to share that I've truly heard from women with men from the best to the worst

....Blessings to you Beth ... and to all the other beautiful spirits in this group ...Love from Ilenawww.BreastImplantAwareness.org> Hi Everyone,> > I've noticed that alot of women on this group have wonderful husbands that stand behind you. Do you have any idea how rare and wonderful that is to have?> > I have been single all my life. I've dated many cads and kissed many frogs. After I became ill I couldn't even get a date! As soon as they heard that I was ill, they would run for the hills! > > Not that I've had much energy to date but there was a time that I lost 30 pounds and was forcing myself to get out even if I had to drink a ton of caffeine. They could see that I was healthy but as soon as you mention fibro or chronic fatigue,

that was it. > > It isn't as though it is something that you can keep to yourself > either. Most men want to know where you work so the conversation almost always will lead to that. I told one guy I had peripheral neuropathy. When he asked what it was and I told him it was nerve damage in my legs, he just about jumped up and ran. He couldn't get to his car fast enough. Although he saw me walking and looking well that was it. > > Since then I have given up. I figure that someday I'll meet someone that will accept me for who I am and what I'm suffering through. I might be 90 but I'll find him.....hopefully.> > So I just wanted to let all of the married ladies out there know how lucky you are to have a husband that stands behind you. It is a very rare thing to find! I envy all of you!> > > >

> > Beth S.> "Dogs are not our whole life, but they make our lives whole." - Caras > > > > > ---------------------------------> Discover > Have fun online with music videos, cool games, IM & more. Check it out!Opinions expressed are NOT meant to take the place of advice given by licensed health care professionals. Consult your physician or licensed health care professional before commencing any medical treatment. "Do not let either the medical authorities or the politicians mislead you. Find out what the facts are, and make your own decisions about how to live a happy life and how to work for a better world." - Linus ing, two-time Nobel Prize Winner (1954, Chemistry; 1963, Peace)