Re: ~Dianna & Vicki~

[Guest guest]

Thanks for the Advice JJ. I will try to let things settle some. However some we have in the group are going to have to be deleted because they are causing hard bounces. They have probably blocked the site in their mail. Any help you can give I would appreciate. I am very sick and not able to always be here and answer every post. In fact I am even giving some thought to seeing if anyone wants to take this site and me only be a member or the VP. Just a thought at the moment but if anyone would like to take over ownership of the group let me know and I will see how things go.

Love & God Bless! /Wolf~President I'm diagonally parked in a parallel universe. "Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing."

1 Thessalonians 5:11

Now as I always say this at the end of my e-mails: IF GOD BRINGS YOU TO IT. HE WILL BRING YOU THROUGH IT. This has became my philosophy.

[Guest guest]

a word of advice from a Owner of Fibro groups myself. There is always Lurkers, nothing you can do about it. There back there learning and listening. I tried to shake up the lurkers and threaten them and I damn near Lost my whole group. Your group right now is very un stable I would just give it time to blow over let things settle. You can't be all things to all people.

Where you have a big group your going to have many personalities. When I get a hot topic I put in a warning and then from there I go to screening the mail if it gets worse. Only did that once, they got the drift.

Hope this helps.

JJ

~Dianna & Vicki~

Dianna & Vicki,

I wanted to say Hi & THANK YOU BOTH for standing up strong. There is going to be many changes here until we get back to where we were. The main fights have been over religion. That is totally ridiculous. There is going to be a stop put on that. I have always told you ALL that all denominations was welcome here. And that we respect all. This last blow up was when a member joined and best I can remember her first post was yelling and screaming about religion. If I had not been sick and away from the computer. I would have seen it and I would have tried to talk to that person, If that did not work then I would have nicely asked them to leave the group. If they did not as bad as I would hate it I would have hit that ban button.

If it continues I will figure out a way to put a stop to it even if I have to turn this one into a Moderated Christian Group & another Group For Pagans! I did not want to turn this group into a Moderated Group because I wanted ALL to feel welcome. However it looks like we are not going to be able to keeps it as we wanted it. I will give it a little time and see how it works out.

The next thing I am going to do is Do a Special notice and send it out. I am going to ask all who are not participating in the group to please un-sub. about 43 of that 243 were actually participating. The main bull started when we decided we needed many more moderators because of the size of the group. We were doing just fine the way it was. I believe it is just Vicki and I now. I am sure we will need at least 1 to help us! If you want it speak up.

I was very upset to see Tammi go. I did not find out until the night before. I had begged Tammi to stay several times in the past and she stayed however this time I knew she wouldn't change her mind. Until the last few days it was only the Mods who left but I am seeing several members leaving now too. I hate to see it. I love Tammi very much she was one of the first here with me. However Tammi won't even talk to me right now. All we can hope is that someday she will come back to us!

My computer is giving me the DEVIL so I had better send this before everything freezes and I can't do anything. Every time I sign on the computer gives me a runtime error. Then one illegal Op after another. So will go for now gonna see if I can do something to stop it. Love you all and hope I can be back and taking care of the site as I should! AND YOU GO GIRLS keep em straight! ALSO HELLO to all the new members, hope you can feel welcome here and that you can stick with us as we clean this site up!

Love & God Bless! /Wolf~President I'm diagonally parked in a parallel universe. "Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing."

1 Thessalonians 5:11

Now as I always say this at the end of my e-mails: IF GOD BRINGS YOU TO IT. HE WILL BRING YOU THROUGH IT. This has became my philosophy.

[Guest guest]

If you need help let me know. For the hard bounces just adjust there mail to no mail setting they may have just went on vacation for the Holidays and are not aware of the bouncing E Mail Problem.

I'm Here All the Time.

JJ

Re: ~Dianna & Vicki~

Thanks for the Advice JJ. I will try to let things settle some. However some we have in the group are going to have to be deleted because they are causing hard bounces. They have probably blocked the site in their mail. Any help you can give I would appreciate. I am very sick and not able to always be here and answer every post. In fact I am even giving some thought to seeing if anyone wants to take this site and me only be a member or the VP. Just a thought at the moment but if anyone would like to take over ownership of the group let me know and I will see how things go.

Love & God Bless! /Wolf~President I'm diagonally parked in a parallel universe. "Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing."

1 Thessalonians 5:11

Now as I always say this at the end of my e-mails: IF GOD BRINGS YOU TO IT. HE WILL BRING YOU THROUGH IT. This has became my philosophy.

[Guest guest]

get a virus check quick, i, had two on my computer last weekmfrom somewhere, and they kept turning my computeroff and stuff. it took me a while of trying this and that to figure it out. microsoft updates page, can direct you to a good triasl one. if you have one it might not be working wright.

Wmerry meet, merrypart,and merry meet agin, blessed be

[Guest guest]

, it seems that out of all members, only a small number of

people were arguing. Not the whole group, not all 243 members, but

from what I observed, just a few. These things always blow over, but

there is always someone willing to feed the flame.

I'm not going anywhere, as I am here to learn, gain support, meet

others who suffer the same symptoms, and if people get off on

arguing, they are the ones who need to leave.

It is a shame so many are leaving, but I trust they might be back.

Melody

> Dianna & Vicki,

>

> I wanted to say Hi & THANK YOU BOTH for standing up strong.

There is going to be many changes here until we get back to where we

were. The main fights have been over religion. That is totally

ridiculous. There is going to be a stop put on that. I have always

told you ALL that all denominations was welcome here. And that we

respect all. This last blow up was when a member joined and best I

can remember her first post was yelling and screaming about religion.

If I had not been sick and away from the computer. I would have seen

it and I would have tried to talk to that person, If that did not

work then I would have nicely asked them to leave the group. If they

did not as bad as I would hate it I would have hit that ban button.

> If it continues I will figure out a way to put a stop to it

even if I have to turn this one into a Moderated Christian Group &

another Group For Pagans! I did not want to turn this group into a

Moderated Group because I wanted ALL to feel welcome. However it

looks like we are not going to be able to keeps it as we wanted it. I

will give it a little time and see how it works out.

> The next thing I am going to do is Do a Special notice and

send it out. I am going to ask all who are not participating in the

group to please un-sub. about 43 of that 243 were actually

participating. The main bull started when we decided we needed many

more moderators because of the size of the group. We were doing just

fine the way it was. I believe it is just Vicki and I now. I am sure

we will need at least 1 to help us! If you want it speak up.

> I was very upset to see Tammi go. I did not find out until the

night before. I had begged Tammi to stay several times in the past

and she stayed however this time I knew she wouldn't change her mind.

Until the last few days it was only the Mods who left but I am seeing

several members leaving now too. I hate to see it. I love Tammi very

much she was one of the first here with me. However Tammi won't even

talk to me right now. All we can hope is that someday she will come

back to us!

> My computer is giving me the DEVIL so I had better send this

before everything freezes and I can't do anything. Every time I sign

on the computer gives me a runtime error. Then one illegal Op after

another. So will go for now gonna see if I can do something to stop

it. Love you all and hope I can be back and taking care of the site

as I should! AND YOU GO GIRLS keep em straight! ALSO HELLO to all the

new members, hope you can feel welcome here and that you can stick

with us as we clean this site up!

>

>

> Love & God Bless!

>

> /Wolf~President

>

> I'm diagonally parked in a parallel universe.

>

> " Therefore encourage one another and build each other up,

> just as in fact you are doing. "

>

> 1 Thessalonians 5:11

>

> Now as I always say this at the end of my e-mails:

>

> IF GOD BRINGS YOU TO IT.

>

> HE WILL BRING YOU THROUGH IT.

>

> This has became my philosophy.e