Guest guest Posted August 1, 2009 Report Share Posted August 1, 2009 Scooter: Sometimes all U can do is 1 day at a time. I hope your visit goes well. I am dealing with this with the "munkins," WHY is daddy not coming home and we can only see him some times? Young kids have a hard time with this concept. We and I mean their support network continues to offer them as much stability as possible. All we can do is love them and make them feel safe while keeping a safe and consistent routine. Let us know how it goes? I spoke with her counselor a couple of times the last two days. She is not seeing things improving in fact she suggested we limit stays to hours not days. I asked my wife to not come this weekend on account of the girls and me not being ready to see her. It hurt me to do that. We are going to meeting on Saturday so she can see the girls for a few hours. This was at the suggestion of her counselor. I thank everyone for your words of advice, encouragement and experience. I told my daughters that mommy was not coming but that she was still sick and we would be going to see her. There is a lot of sadness, hurt, even some anger which is not good in any relationship. My daughters understand I hope that mommy loves them and I feel I have to protect them and my wife from further damage. One day at a time!Scooter Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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