when is enough enough

[Guest guest]

MAYBE, she knew she was in trouble before she had a break with reality and shut down? Maybe she removed herself before she could hurt U or her kids? Maybe, maybe, maybe? U will never know until she starts to get better.

It is not about U or the girls right now, but all about her and trying to bridge what ever caused this change or break for her.

You? U need to do what ever U have to 2 move FF. Give it some time, seek help, maybe she is giving all she can at the moment. It might not be near enough for U and the kids, but mom is sick and getting help.

If U have to call it a day than do it knowing U did everything to save this marriage.

Take your time before U make the call. Time is on your side.

Her illness is nothing U or the girls did it is just what it is.

See what this week end brings. Except her for what she is now and not what U want her to be and see where it goes? If U have a negative attitude before she hits your home than nothing she will do will make a difference. IF U are at least open, than anything is possible, She is wanting to come home. Maybe not on YOUR terms, but she is ill and reaching out. Baby steps from her or maybe no steps at all. Only U can be the judge.

Just me.

[Guest guest]

Well it was stated since they are blaming me for everything and stating very little about A/S, like and i "The person with Asperger's Syndrome seems to be lacking of insite into the inpact that their behivors,words or neglect are having on the family members and will deny any mistack or wrong doing, and will blame others. " hence i am controlling and the abuser, her court appointed lawyer stated " we are deadly afraid of what the father will do if he gets his son" there for she will remain his mother as long as he has a chance to recieve his son".

Subject: when is enough enoughTo: aspires-relationships Date: Saturday, August 1, 2009, 3:37 PM

but now she has been stopped from flat out giving up her right .

Dave

Hi Dave:

Giving up her parental rights?????? ??