Guest guest Posted December 31, 2003 Report Share Posted December 31, 2003 Subject: Re: Re: drugs/answer to <<I made it to ton. I'll be here visiting my father and his wife through the weekend. Unfortunately I find no emotional support here. I want it to be here so badly! But my Dad never has been one with the nack for saying the right thing or not saying the wrong thing. Focusing on travel helped me get through today. But now I am here and all the emotional pain has caught up with me. ****...so glad you made it! And, I have to say that you have just expressed PERFECTLY what I used to feel when visiting my family. Your words reminded me and brought it back. I hated visiting them for just the reasons you describe. Many times, I got in my car and left for an afternoon or just left for good when things got too much. But, you DO need to visit them. If I had not, I would never have worked through those feelings about my family and I would be bitter and angry at them today. You are doing the right thing (imho!). I am glad you live a distance from them and can just visit. I made a mistake one time of moving to the same city where they were and that was TOO MUCH. I ended up moving away again VERY fast. Now, I do enjoy visiting them and have learned not to expect anything from them. When little things come your way, it makes you appreciate them. But...this took a VERY LONG TIME for me as I am VERY stubborn (bg!) Let us know how you are doing!!! and...IT IS THE DRUG!!! Terry Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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