: I still have questions...

[Guest guest]

Dear -

A dear member once stated that...

" We are only responsible for the effort, not the

result " . It sure helped me to evaluate my cares

for my dad. I loved my dad and did all that I could

to make his life here the best I could. What happened with those situations

were out of my hands, there is a bigger picture than we are aware

of. It is very evident how much you loved and still

love your dear mumsie. The way you wrote about

her, the fun you had, and the love you gave went

above and beyond life itself. The surgery for your

mom was done to help her, not to hurt her. I am

confident it wouldn't have happened had you any

thought it would bring her harm. , you have

been such an insipiration for all, please let the guilt

go. Continue to grieve, heal, and find comfort and

strength in the love you gave your mom. I know she

felt your love. We sure did and still do.

Many hugs to you-

Sandie

Des Moines, IA