I'm not going to be around for a few days...=RESPONSE

[Guest guest]

,

Have a wonderful, wonderful holiday and hopefully a

break and rest too.

Thank you for telling us about TJ. He will definitely

be in " my " prayers. I will also pray for this mother and

that she gets connected to the many articles that are

finally appearing " everywhere " about several SSRI's

being banned, never having been approved for children,

all the side-effects, how they literally alter someone's

mind. Maybe, just maybe she will have a " light-bulb "

moment and realize her son is having one drug reaction

after another and his body is shouting with " known "

side-effects. He isn't misbehaving because he wants to!!!!

His body is shouting about the poisonous stuff that's

inside...........

She absolutley must realize that she has been duped

by a system we were taught to trust in. Maybe if she

sees articles about the SSRI's being banned in the UK

then the USA then Canada, and the hearing that will

take place this February about the FDA and all those

kinds of articles --- she will get triggered to realizing

the truth.

She's probably exhausted from putting up with all the

behaviors he is exhibiting " because of " the drugs and

just can't believe that the " FDA approved " drugs would

cause those behaviors. In addition, she not only is

exhausted, she just can't stand the challenges anymore

and feels absolutely helpless ....... to the point she is

soooo deperate it seems easier to just give him up.

That's called sheer " Mom exhaustion " !!!!!!!!!!! I have

walked those shoes, and believe me, you really get sooooo

exhausted and desperate trying to " fix and heal " your

child with pills, that you just want to throw in the towel,

because they are NOT meant to fix or heal and she just

doesn't know that -- YET. How many of US thought they

were supposed to fix and/or heal???!!!!, but they don't

heal the cause/reason that got him on the drugs in the

first place !!!!!!!!!!!!!! She needs to be told and see it in

black and white.......................

the SSRI-Crusaders web site has tons

of articles about the bannings, the FDA, the Pharma Co's

--- that whole triangulation thing .... that would benefit

her and more importantly her son!!!!!!!!

You may not like that I mentioned that site here, but honestly

I'm speaking from experience. I was soooooo

duped and manipulated (like many of us adults on your site

were). that it took every article I could see in black and white

to rid me of guilt. I honestly had the best Doctor's and

couldn't understand how in the world these drugs could do

so much harm if they were approved .... until I started seeing

what they really do ... in black and white!!!!!

I'm confident you will reach her. Keep up your persistence

for TJ's sake !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! This woman needs a strong advocate

so SHE can justify getting her son off these drugs so she can

stand up to the Doctor's who are guilting her.................

I know what that feels like !!!!!!!!!! plus they focus on parenting.

That's the real killer, right there. That's why she wants to give

him up........... she feels like a total failure !!!!!!!!!!!!! and she

doesn't

even realize what's causing her son to act like this -- YET !!!!

Sooooo ask her if she feels she has the best Doctor's and

still is confused why her son isn't getting better. Then ask her

if she feels like a parent/mom failure because she has probably

tried so many things, listened to so many " professionals " and

nothing seems to work. If she says yes .... then you now have

her attention !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Now start introducing her to articles

about the bans, the FDA, the Class Action Lawsuits, the

violent and aggressive behaviors and crimes committed by

people on these SSRI's, etc. etc. Come right out and tell her

that it isn't about parenting. Stress that so you GET AND KEEP

her attention !!!!!!!!! Now show her proven side-effects. She

more than likely will see " many " that her son displays. She

will become even more of a listener now...................

Have a restful trip............ you will be missed.

Sincerely and respectfully..... Jan

Encourage One Another

================================================

..

On Mon, 22 Dec 2003 03:25:03 -0500 " C Creel "

writes:

> Dear List Members,

>

> I'm going to be away for a few days (leaving Mon. 10 am Eastern

> time). I

> don't know how often I will have access to a computer. may be

> around,

> and I know Kim will be around. She'll do her best to respond to

> everyone.

> If anything is of crisis proportions just let Kim know. She can

> phone me.

> Kim will not be available on Mon. until quite a bit later in the

> evening,

> Tues, after 6 pm, she'll be around Wed. and Thurs. all day, and Fri

> after

> 6pm.

>

>

> I want to ask something I've never asked before. Over the next

> several

> days I need all the help I can get convincing a mom that the

> psychotropic

> drugs her 6 yo has been on for two years are killing him. I've

> tried to

> have this conversation with the mom before. It didn't go well.

> The young

> boy is getting more ill. They are actually talking about

> institutionalizing him. I have known this child since he was 2.

> The drugs

> are the problem. He is on an antopsychotic, a benzo, and an

> antidepressant.

>

>

> What I'm asking for is to include T.J. in your thoughts,

> meditations,

> prayers, or whatever it is you may do. I'm going to give it my best

> shot

> again and frankly, I think it a miracle is called for here. Thank

> you all

> in advance.

>

>

> Best wishes to all for this holiday season.

>

> Regards,

>

>

==============

==============

..

..