Repost: Trust the NT!

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In light of the maelstrom that occurred right after this post, I decided to repost it.I read it again, and again.I read the impetus for the post, again which was 's post about trusting his girlfriend.I read my response again, to be sure I wasn't being some sort of off the wall NT who had unresolved life "issues."Much has transpired since this post, if anyone reads it again and finds it just horrible, I can't imagine what it would be. I was NOT referring to strangers, acquaintances, coworkers or just anyone ...my point was to trust your wife or husband.Regards,Anita > "me and my GF discussed this yesterday. we were talking about some> filing issues relating to invoices, credit notes etc. anyway, we decided> that there were and are some things i cant do or understand very well.> we both decided that she can make decisions and avoid me having to fight> with the thought process involved in making them if i were to trust her> judgment and allow her to make them. we agreed. if i didn't understand> some things, i defer to her abilities, because i trust her to do well.> prior to this, i had to know every little decision and process, and it> did snag me and i became stuck nothing got done. now i am learning to> adapt, better. she helps, she helps a lot. we actually ended an> conversation with her saying..." your just not gunna get this one, so> let me do it and you dont have to worry about it"> it worked."Anita Responded:"Thank you for this ! Could this, perhaps be the the quintessential root of the AS/NT struggles? Trust the NT! The things usually being asked could never harm AS in a million years!It could start with bathe, brush teeth, see the dentist, wear clean clothes, things of this nature (nothing bad can happen if AS does any of these things).Only GOOD things will happen! NT will start to do the happy dance, AS will be the recipient of compliments and praise! Nothing is a panacea, but this one would go a LONG way!Trust the NT!!!!Regards,Anita 55 NT