Guest guest Posted February 1, 2008 Report Share Posted February 1, 2008 Kandy, My husband is in construction aslo, he is a commercial plumber. He too has serious problems getting along with people. He has lost jobs because of it. Your killing me... every night you were having sex...In our house 1-2 times a week. Some days the last thing I want before I go to sleep is someone else wanting me to do more....Give more.....It is draining. And that is a struggle for me.....the sex is great when I try to enjoy it. Most times I just do it for him..He'll say "Wanna have sex" thats romantic isn't it? I'll say Alright but I'm just here so get on with it.....He has no inkling even though I've told him hundreds of times that I need intimacy sometimes. Some of the problem is me. My libido has not truly recoverd from having kids... "kandy.wesson" wrote: With all the talk about sex lately, I was just wondering how often couples with AS have sex. You will not be identified when you click on your choice. I'm just wondering where we are on the curve on average. Use to be every night....my AS husband wanted it every night. I was too tired and plus didn't feel the emotional connection so we've cut back a bit because of me. I just want to see what's average for AS couples. Thanks, Kandy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 2, 2008 Report Share Posted February 2, 2008 My libido is gone too. I think kids take it out of you and if you just "happen" to have an intimate moment it's like dogs on a goose chase, they are there!!! I totally just say do what you want and let me sleep. He's ok with that most of the time....it's odd to me, but it pleases him....so whatever can keep the peace Re: New poll question Kandy, My husband is in construction aslo, he is a commercial plumber. He too has serious problems getting along with people. He has lost jobs because of it. Your killing me... every night you were having sex...In our house 1-2 times a week. Some days the last thing I want before I go to sleep is someone else wanting me to do more....Give more.....It is draining. And that is a struggle for me.....the sex is great when I try to enjoy it. Most times I just do it for him..He'll say "Wanna have sex" thats romantic isn't it? I'll say Alright but I'm just here so get on with it.....He has no inkling even though I've told him hundreds of times that I need intimacy sometimes. Some of the problem is me. My libido has not truly recoverd from having kids... "kandy.wesson" <kandy.wesson@ yahoo.com> wrote: With all the talk about sex lately, I was just wondering how often couples with AS have sex. You will not be identified when you click on your choice. I'm just wondering where we are on the curve on average. Use to be every night....my AS husband wanted it every night. I was too tired and plus didn't feel the emotional connection so we've cut back a bit because of me. I just want to see what's average for AS couples. Thanks, Kandy Never miss a thing. Make Yahoo your homepage. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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