Is it deliberate?

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> > jenny i think this is what Bill was getting at in his recent posts.

> > Knowing where AS ends and non AS begins, Bill is self aware and

> knows this distinction, i think Anita and anitas husbands are having a

> lot of " a-haaaa " moments and anything that APPEARS to buck thier

> current thinking is met with rejection.

> > to clarify...yes Anita everything about your AS husbands 61 years

> of maladaptive behaviour is " him " , what bill is saying, is, in time,

> the next step of the process is when you differentiate between what

> is AS and what is non AS behaviour then you are getting toward what

> jenny has written about, self limiting behaviour and adaptations to

> AS. or " knowing the difference " knowing when to help your husband to

> adapt, and knowing when he is just being a selfish jerk hiding behind

> an AS label. At the moment he is ALL AS. in time , and what i think

> bill is getting at is, there is AS behaviour and then there is typical

> male behaviour that some with AS can get away with and hide behind the

> " disability " just as you need to help your husband to adapt to what he

> needs help on, you also need to not let him " fall " into just being a

> " jerk "

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> > 36 m diagnosed AS who has learned as much as Bill has

forgotten.

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