Guest guest Posted May 9, 2005 Report Share Posted May 9, 2005 Lida wrote: > Thank you for your concern, but don't you worry. I am not annoyed, I just couldn't figure why suddenly you started to pick on me. Because, yes.. that is how it felt. > But hey, I understand that it is just about the urge of correcting words. Glad we got this little understanding cleared up. And thanks for stating how you felt. Not easy to know since it certainly wasn't intended that way. Situations like this is an excellent way for us to learn real empathy. Many NTs seem to expect us to read their mind and figure out what we have done to rub them the wrong way without them having to say it. That way we may never get a clue. But thanks to generous people such as yourself actually giving us the gift of sharing your feelings, we get a unique chance to learn what effect our innocent words may have on another human being, and an opportunity to explain how we really meant them. So, thanks again, Lida. Inger Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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