Guest guest Posted September 15, 2003 Report Share Posted September 15, 2003 Roxanne Przybysz Founding Director Autism Canada Foundation http://www.autismcanada.org/home.htm **************************************************************************** ****** SEPTEMBER 23, 2002 COLIN’S STORY HOW A COMBINATION OF FAITH AND SCIENCE SAVED MY SON FROM AUTISM By R. Young " What Appeared Moribund, will rise again, like the legendary Phoenix. " The journey of my son’s life continues to be inexplicably entwined with mine–his mother. It began one cold January day in the year 2000. The spark of Colin–the beginning of his journey back from the dark perplexing world of autism–began that day inside my heart, as I lay huddled crying hopelessly on my dining room floor. I lay wailing, as only a mother could, realizing that my heart and soul–my beautiful blond haired, brown-eyed 3 _ year old pride and joy–had slipped away from me into a silent puzzling world of his old. That day I learned that, according to the top neurologist and autism expert at town University, my son was a " high-functioning autistic " child, and would probably be that way forever. I kept crying, feeling sorry for myself–a single working Mom in the midst of a divorce–all alone to mourn what I felt was all the hopes and dreams I had of having a little buddy, a typically developing child. I didn’t know where to turn. I felt defeated. I almost gave up and broke down, and accepted Colin’s fate. But then, I heard a voice. The message, whether it was from God or my subconscious, was simple: " Put Colin first. " It was all I needed to hear. I decided at that moment that I was going to fight for my son at all costs. I had faith that if no one else could help him (the medical doctors and their offers to drug both Colin and us to cope with autism; the alternative autistic " expert " doctors and their Gluten/Casein free diet, which had already failed to save Colin ,or their expensive, high-dosage, vitamin supplements which I refused to give my son)...then I would break out on my own. The next morning, I called Colin’s dad. " Pat, " I said, " I’m quitting my job. I’m going to spend all my time, money, and effort on finding out what is wrong with Colin. And when I run out of money, you are going to do the same and support us until we’ve beaten this thing together. " There was silence. " OK, " said Pat. " If anyone can save Colin, it’s you. I’m behind you. " And so it was. Like me, Colin’s dad had faith in our son, and also in me. And our journey with Colin–a journey of recovery–began. Faith and Science: Keys to Saving Colin Often people ask me, " How did you know–autism is suppose to be for life–how did you know that you could save him? " I tell them, it was more than just a mother’s instinct. It was faith and science. I had faith that there was some reason why my son was slipping away. I had watched my son suffer not only with the typical autistic traits (night terrors, head banging, pervasive or obsessive play, eyes that looked away into space, hyperactivity, speech delays). But I had watched my son suffer through years of diarrhea and GI problems that no one could explain, which doctors call, " autistic diarrhea. " Colin had suffered with loose movements and diarrhea on and off since he was 11 months old. No one ever kne w why and our pediatricians had always told us to just " cut back on the fruit. " But when he was diagnosed with Pervasive Developmental Disorder at age 3, I demanded that we see a GI doctor in addition to the bevy of neurologists and therapists who were analyzing my son. Despite Colin’s history of GI symptoms (including a protruding stomach, gas, diarrhea, low weight, night terrors), not one of the GI doctors we visited offered to do the traditional blood tests and colonoscopy that children often get when they have GI troubles. This outraged Colin’s dad and me. " How can our son be expected to develop typically if he isn’t absorbing what he is eating? " I asked Colin’s dad. " And why is it so hard to imagine that Colin may have a true GI disorder in addition to being autistic? " I had faith that there must be a scientific reason why both my ex and I dreaded feeding our child. " He’s just a different person depending on what I feed him. I am almost scared each meal, " said Pat one day to me. By that January 2001, Colin’s dad and I were just beginning to recognize the true power of food. We put our son on the current alternative autism diet of choice, the Gluten Free Casein Free diet, which is promoted to thousands of other parents like us who knew our autistic children had " food issues. " But that January, after being on the GFCF diet for almost 6 months, Colin was still autistic. In fact, even though his night terrors stopped without gluten, his obsessions and head banging got worse. " If diet is the answer, then how come your son is on it (the GFCF) and still autistic? " asked his neurologist that fateful day. " I know food is the answer, " I responded desperately as my son banged his head on the doctor’s stool. " I just haven’t found the right diet yet. I need to understand him better. " I had the faith in food all right, but I was missing something essential in the quest to understand my son’s mind and body: science. The GFCF diet tells you if your child has something leaking in your body (undigested wheat and milk protein), than stop eating those foods and you may be cured. This made no sense to me. If my house has a leak and I stop using the hot water...I still have a leak! I wanted to fix that leak. Thanks to Colin’s leaky gut, he reacted to food as one might to a drug or alcohol! When he ate rice, he ran around the room. When he ate sugary foods, he sometimes bit his hand in pain. And when he ate any cookie–using one of the many " wheat free/gluten free flours " on the market–my son lay down and lined his cars up (pervasive play) and rubbed his belly and then had diarrhea. " Can’t you make a cookie that won’t make your son sick? " my mother asked me once. She was right. I felt like a failure for not knowing how to stop his pain. But instead of guilt, I vowed to not give up until I knew what foods to feed my son without hurting him. And so, I decided not to just have faith and love for my son, but to listen to what his body was telling me and let that lead me to a possible cure. And so I began to document, yes–observe and note–my son’s life. I recorded his food, his GI symptoms, his behavior, and his skin patterns. After three months I analyzed my son’s " data. " I concluded that my son was either allergic to all starches and sugars (everything from rice, potatoes, white sugar, corn syrup, etc.) and most raw vegetables...or there was some scientific explanation for all this. I also concluded that this undigested food, was somehow affecting my son’s behavior, his level of functioning, and in effect " intoxicating him " from within. And then I found, thanks to a friend of mine who was a Celiac (who had also never healed from the gluten free diet), a scientific explanation: The original Celiac diet, a grain free, starch free, and complex sugar-free diet that rebuilds a damaged gut and explains what foods to eat in order to heal. And at age 4, my son began the Selective Carbohydrate Diet (SCD), the original celiac diet. Thanks to this diet, Colin would be re-born into our lives in a way we never dreamed possible. COLIN’S STORY: EMERGENCE FROM AUTISM (Part Two) By R. Young Since following the Specific Carbohydrate Diet, Colin, like a butterfly emerging from a silent cocoon, has spread his wings and shown the beautiful colors of his true personality to his dad, the world, and me. This diet revealed the real Colin, who had been a prisoner of his body and gut, trapped in a world of silence. Just months before the change, I watched my beautiful 3 _ year-old playing. In a moment of weakness, I felt sorry for him and for myself. Colin was " playing " in the way a child on the Autistic Spectrum often does, stuffing bits of paper into his toys by his big bedroom window. " Mom, " I said over the phone, " it has suddenly hit me. I am so busy researching Colin and caring for him, that I have little time for friends. I am all alone here. " Silence on the other end. Without thinking, I reached up to run my fingers gently through my son’s thick hair. He pushed my hand away. I forgot he didn’t like to be touched anymore. " But you have Colin, " my Mom said. " He is your little companion now. Just like you and your sister were with me, " she said. " I know Mom. But even though he is here, he is not really with me. He doesn’ t talk to me unless he needs something ( " Juice. I want up. " ). Sometimes, like now, he won’t even look at me unless I guide his chin. " At a time when most kids were playing games, helping out with chores, and asking a million questions, Colin was laying on the ground next to me--but he seemed a million miles away. That was before the SCD. After the diet, the change in Colin was dramatic. Colin indicated in no-uncertain terms who he was.... his personality and spark that makes him unique, emerged. " Let’s color, Mom, " he said one day after preschool. He took my hand. This time I cried tears of joy. This was a simple request–to play together–that I had longed for. I felt connected. Within hours, we had made a dozen pictures together. In my enthusiasm and pride, I tacked a string across our kitchen, and hung the pictures up for " Colin’s Art Show. " My ex-husband Pat bumped right into the art when he arrived for a visit. " Who did this? " he asked. " Art show, Daddy! " cried Colin. Pat looked at me and without words, we shared one of the proudest moments together in our lives as parents. Our son was back. By the simple act of giving Colin food he could digest, scientifically-correct food that allows him to heal, he gradually came back to us. Besides drawing and art, Colin loves the outdoors, the parks, animals, and pretend play! Most children start doing early forms of pretend play before they can speak. Colin, after starting the SCD, began at age four. One day at the park, Colin cried, " This is mommy’s house, " pointing to the playground. " You’re the baby, I’m the mommy, " he insisted. " Stay where you belong and sleep, dear. I love you. " These were the exact words I say to Colin before bed. He was listening all that time, storing the words in his brain until a day came that he could tell me all he knew. Not only was my son doing pretend play with me, but also he was displaying memory skills that I didn’t know existed. Colin’s gifts emerged tenfold in his first year on the diet. He is kind, intuitive, and extremely sensitive and emotional like his proud mom. Colin is also very spiritual, talking often of God. During the diet, we added special additive-free probiotics (L. Acidophilus only) to his food. The diet requires probiotics (good bacteria that you may see called ‘live active cultures’ on yogurt in the grocery store) or homemade yogurt. The brain-gut connection became more apparent when we added this probiotic to his diet. He began not only talking, but talking about complex subjects such as life, death, and God. " Does God have hair? " he asked me one day last fall. I smiled. Autistic indeed, I thought, thinking back to the neurologist’s words. " Does he live in Fairfax? " Colin persisted. " God lives in the sky and in our hearts, dear, " I explained. " Close your eyes and tell me what you think he looks like. " Colin closed his eyes. " No. No hair! " he said. We laughed, another joy, now that he has a sense of humor in addition to his many gifts. Since that day he often mentions God, and tells him " Good job, God! " when it r ains or when the flowers bloom. Good job indeed. Why this diet works My ex-husband wanted to know why this diet worked. After reading Elaine Gottschall's book three times (see reference below), and checking the biochemistry, I was quickly learning not just about Colin’s gut but in the science behind the diet " We are re-building his intestinal flora. We are also cleaning out the yeast, bacteria, etc. that built up inside him after years of having partially digested sugars and carbs linger in his body, " Gottschall writes. Colin's gut had been leaky. We were fixing the leak, rebuilding his immune system and more. Since the diet Colin has been on all home-cooked food that is " SCD legal. " Although the diet is limited, Colin is now absorbing what he eats. Our proof? Within a year, he has gained almost 9 pounds in weight and 6 inches in height. Today his appetite is voracious! He asks for more and more " Colin food. " And illness is a thing of the past. He has only had one bout of asthma (thanks to exposure to a cat) since this journey began. He rarely gets sick. He is so strong now he even rides his bike! Why this burst in strength and development? Why the transformation? Food and good bacteria. I believe, after years of steroids (for his asthma) antibiotics (for his illnesses) and the standard American diet full of starch and sugar, diarrhea, and a milk and egg allergy, Colin’s gut was a wreck. That combined with the fact, that he may have had celiac disease all these years, led to the ruination of his gut. As for his mind–that too was polluted due to the state of his gut. For every neurotransmitter you have in your brain is replicated in your intestine. To achieve true health, both must be in bal ance, according to Gottschall. How we detoxed Colin Because Colin was addicted to the foods his body could not break down–starches and sugars--we had to remove them from his diet. It was difficult to switch from gluten-free waffles and rice crackers to meat and cooked veggies. I started him on the diet’s intro menu (minus a few items) and gradually began to add one food at a time to ensure that each food was one Colin could digest. " Time for breakfast, Colin " I called out happily. " It’s captain’s soup. " I made homemade chicken soup for breakfast and put it in large captain’s mugs to make it " fun. " Colin ran past the soup and pulled open the fridge. He was looking for gluten-free bread. Next, he pulled over a chair and peered into the freezer. " Waffles! " he cried. " Want waffles. " I had thrown everything away. I had to restrain him and explain to him that we were going to eat special food and " fix his tummy. " I prayed he could understand. He cried, and struggled. I felt horrible, but knew this was for his health, and I would not back down. 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