Re: organization-schedules-etc needed

July 10, 2003

In a message dated 7/10/03 6:35:15 PM Central Daylight Time,

amy.sosa@... writes:

> Okay, I have come to the harsh reality that I am not a well-

> organized, consistent person...and it's driving my family nuts!!

> ...........................

> I need all of your personal ideas...what works in your home? Thanks

> much!!!

> Nikki-in need of structure!!

>

First, you are not alone. You have plenty of company here. Here are some

tips, realizing that in stressful situations, these things are easer said than

done:

1. Every committment or " extra " in your life that can be eliminated should

be. Note: I recognize the need for " peaceful " moments, so do not consider

those the first to go...but some times making a list can reveal something that

needs to be set aside for now.

2. Keep a daily schedule. Some people can do this in their minds. Most need

a physical calender. There is not shame in a calendar:) It can be your best

friend.

3. Don't keep anything around you don't need...eliminated paper work, what

have you, that may be cluttering your life.

4. Your family that is going " nuts " needs to help you. If disorganization

drives them nuts, maybe they can lend their organizational skills to you:)

Every one needs to have their jobs and do them. You can't do what needs to be

done

on your own.

5. Personal note: Several times over the last years, I've realized I was

suddenly forgetting things, thinking I'd gotten things done or completely

forgetting really odd things. Every time this happened, my wise husband gave me

great advice: Look at your activities and eliminate one. You have too.

I've had to make really hard choices at time and leave things behind for

now...while no elemination releases us from the inevitable time crunches, the

continual review of how we use our time can help. Which reminds me that I " m

suppose to cut back on my computer time so got to go. love to all and I hope

this

helps dear,

Kat

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