Re: how I to met of my husband

April 12, 2003

WOW. Really enjoyed that story. How did you feel when you found out that you

were pregnant. And how did you deal with labor??!!!

Bridget(VA)

how I to met of my husband

this is of funny story. I was to be to go to a church that the

family of me bringed me to much of 12 or so years. the husband of me

also to go there. He was to begin to ask of me to go out to him to

movie , to dinner, to festivals and mnay such places and I to be

feared of him telled him no go away did not want to be with mens at

that point in my life. Wellt eh reason too was I to had fear of red

headed peoples thinking they were of lepprechauns, he was of red

hair so thinked he was up to tricks to me so wanted hims far away

from me. but he was persistent and each week would ask of me to go

somewhere with him. the sister of me to say if you go it will shut

hims up. I to thinked maybe he will be to not want to be ever near

me if he to knowed was so different. Thinking then he would be to

leave of me alone(was always for years told I to be of mentally ill

and mildly retarded so believe this of self. thinking this is why i

to be to different and he would be to know this of me and then never

come near me again. So one day did be to go out to hims and he to

taked me to date of dinner and movie. I to found he was much nice to

me the whole time. He was confusing though like opening dorrs for me

and I to lacked this gesture and he to pulled out my seats and this

too confused of me wondering why he does not just do hims own chair

and such. He did not be to do any tricks to me and yet I to finded

much quick I to liked of hims ways. Did I to love him lack knowing

that as was not to understand that feel or gesture but did marry of

him. Later over time build strong bond of care to hims so I to know

now that the bond is a love for him. we were to be to getted married

5 months after the first date. Will be mairred of 18 year October

18, this year. This is the wedding anniversary of me and the

birthdate of the husband. Last 2 years it is of funny because i to

be to go to speak each year on our anniversary date LOL. He to say

what is up with that. I to say it is to make us stronger LOL because

we to not get to see each other on that date. I to say I to be to be

enjoying my anniversary int he best way I to know how by self LOL he

to joke and say figures you to find away. LOL

but he is of good to me but we like all marriages have of issues.

much related to the autism , much realted to teh childrens of us

with autism issues too. Much is just marriage too. He to get on the

nerves of me at times and I to do this to hims too. there are times

I to get so mad to hims wont be to have any words to him and will

drive off the car for much long hours before to come back home or

will walk much hard and fast for hours too. I to just keep walking

until the anger is done and often find self miles from home because

just walked fast and striaght to where ever it to taked me.

So this is the way I to metted of hims. the only tirck was he to

planned to marry me from first date, but did not be to tell of me.

He to say I to be to have a much honest heart and he to lvoed of

that aobut me, he does not be to see of me as different at all, he

to just sees me as hims wife and mother to hims childrens. the

things he does not understand of me is often autism related and this

is to cause conflict. Like my lack of trying new, or wanting to go

to a social event with people he to knows.

Sondra

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April 12, 2003