Guest guest Posted October 29, 2001 Report Share Posted October 29, 2001 I couldn't agree more with all you said! Nada can't and won't ever make us happy - we do it!! Hugs, Ilene <<<<This kind of mother tries to give you a " mission impossible " . I mean: they like to give you the feeling that if you do a herculian, superhuman effort, they might forgive you for everything you did. Took me years to understand that you don't impose such a thing on a child or someone you love; it's like making someone clean the room with a toothbrush. And don't have any illusion: it will never be enough because it's not you who made nada unhappy; she IS simply unhappy out of herself! My mother often told me as a kid that I had no common sense. I asked her what common sense was and she answered: if you would have common sense, you would no what it is. Speaking of running around in circles... The important thing is to get out of that circle. Happiness, forgiveness, love, tenderness have to be in your life right here, right now. Don't wait for an angry, bitter mother to give it to you. All the best, Hildegard Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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