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I agree with u on hinduism. And my grandfather used to say exactly that -

Hinduism is not a religion, it is a way of life. In fact he has written a book

on it. I tried to go thru' it when i was in 11th, but it was too philosophical

for me.

For me God is nothing but faith. When all seems to fail, this is the crutch we

lean on. Does He exist? I don't know. But the faith in this Something seems to

work when nothing else does. And that's enough to make me believe in Him.

Anchita (93)  

On Tue, 31 Aug 2004 Ashok Bhaskar wrote :

>Hi Venkat,

>

>This is my 3rd year at Chinmaya Mission. I consider it GOD's blessing that I

started going to the mission. It is not a cult as the person who started has

passed away.

>

>One has to be watchful as it is easy to get carried away when you set on the

path of spirituality and religion. Then places like Rajneesh Ashram and david

Koresh ( Texas) happen. Nonbelievers get even more distanced from spirituality

and religion.

>

>Once one of my friends quoted Karl Marx " Religion is the opiate for the masses

" While I first rejected this opinion as scoffed at the plight of Russia as I

have thought about it I think it is true statement. But I think it is a

necessary opiate fot the well being of any society...can be likened to medical

marijuana.

>

>It seems in the vedic period when science had not yet developed intellectuals

would drift towards forests / mountaions like Himalayas and meditate on the

meaning of life, purpose of our existence etc etc ....i.e., embark on these

spiritual journeys.

>

>It is in that period from where vedas originated. Science was not developed

yet....and hence it took form of mythology.....must have been mere imagination

of our forefathers....this imagination is central to all religions and basic

principles of all religions are the same.

>

>Russia's experiment of a GOD less society has failed miserably. America which

prides as " One nation under GOD " believes in freedom and equality and tries

its best to be a altruistic society has relatively been more successful.

>

>Moral of the story is " Just follow path of truth ( to the best of one's

understanding )...listen to the voice of your conscience...if you think what you

are doing is wrong...don't do it ...don't justify it "

>

>Time and again....history has been testimony that good wins over

evil... " Satyamave jayate "

>

>Why justice is delayed in GOD's court is what I have not understood completely.

But then I have lot of questions. There will always be gaps in our understanding

....that doesn't mean it doesn't exist......just like in science.

>

>Religion doesn't claim to have all the answers....it just attempts to prescribe

a way of life for happy living...which is the ultimate goal of every man.

>

>Nobody ...nobody is in pursuit of " unhappiness " .

>

>Hinduism was coined by the colonial British.....for all their sins they did pay

heavily in World War II.

>

>Our religion is simply " a way of living " ....hence we never have religious

wars where we tried to convert someone forcefully...........the single most

important difference of which I am so proud.

>

>Coming back to what the mission is doing for us.

>

>People like Renuka don't need it as her extended family was what the mission is

to me today. Her maternal grandma who she quotes often was instrumental in her

relatively better understanding than me.

>

>Religion leads to peaceful living at the personal level. If you are

completefully peaceful, have no conflicts and are totally happy and your

happiness is not dependent on material or worldly things then you don't need

religion.

>

>A psychiatrist colleague once funningly remarked in response to my query " Why

in America is their so much consumption of psychiatric services ? (Its nicKnamed

Prozac nation ) "

>

>His answer was " In America the therapist is rented extended family ? "

>

>The educated here are moving farther and farther away from religion as they

want crystal clear evidence like science does for the most part.

>

>What we need to do is contemporarize religion in the light of our current and

changing scientific knowledge ?

>

>I don't believe that at the end of your spiritual journey you become one with

GOD or a godman....you surely become a good man.

>

>We intellectuals from the scientific community who have blessed should make an

effort to reinvent religion for the benefit of the masses rather than shying

away from it or having our own private beliefs about GOD ...each individual

having his own concept of GOD and his own version of right and wrong !!!

>

>Lets try to seperate fact from fiction. Personally at this stage I don't

believe in after birth and reincarnation. I am not sure if soul is different

than the body...I mean if there is something like a soul or is it all our

imagination.... then you might question isn't GOD our imagination too. Now I

have seen evidence for his / her / its existence but I have not seen the same

for the soul. So lets see.

>

>Just like colleges and schools are necessary for education a religious

framework is necessary for us to benefit from our belief in GOD.

>

>Now if you are an atheist and happy you don't need religion. If you are an

atheist and unhappy give religion a chance.

>

>Coming back to the topic of Chinmaya mission....as you can see it is helping to

clear my confusion.

>

>As far as the kids...its giving them effortlessly....something we struggle to

give....our culture...foster religious beliefs....and give them a clear sense of

right and wrong which we all imbibed from our extended family consisting of

wise elders who have see and experienced life. As our kids mature they will

still have to do their sorting out but we would have provided them the best

teaching they can have which we confused adults cannot do at home.

>

>Ashok Bhaskar 1984

>

>Venkat Yerrabolu wrote:

>Ashok,

>

>Thanks for sharing the family news. Satya (4th grade) and Guna (2nd grade)

>started school. Life is cool. Are you going to Chinmaya this year. It's

>tough for us to go every week. We may go to Lemont Temple classes since they

>have classes every alternative week. Talk to you soon. We should meet soon.

>

>- Venkat, Pontiac

>Home:

>

>

> >From: Ashok Bhaskar

> >To: mgims@...

> >CC: Anil Bhaskar-PanHealth , ashutosh & anita

> >, chandrashekhar kulkarni ,

> >jbtdrc_wda , Latha ,

> >Madhavi Yellapragada , Mahesh

> >Makam , mohan krishna

> >, saket sinha , uncle

> >, Venkat Yerrabolu

> >Subject: Special Moments !

> >Date: Mon, 30 Aug 2004 16:09:39 -0700 (PDT)

> >

> >Thought will share with my friends here at the group some special moments !

> >

> >2 weeks ago Renuka started as a consultant / attending pathologist and

> >hematopathologist at Mac neal Hospital....45' drive ....a Chicago suburb

> >east of us.

> >

> >Last week Aishwarya started middle school - 6th grade.

> >

> >Bacche kab bade ho jaate hai patha hi nahi chalta !

> >

> >Thats why we all need to slow down...take time out of our hectic schedules

> >and savour these special moments !

> >

> >This morning I was really excited....Puccho kyon.......Any guesses ?

> >

> >Scroll down....

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >Ditto ( Aaditya ) our little guy became a big boy !!!!!!

> >

> >He started PRESCHOOL _ PRE K :))

> >

> >He looked cho cute with his bag and the look of anticipation mixed with

> >apprehension...

> >I got it all on video and can't wait to get home to hear his report !!

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >Zindagi isi ka naam hi.....may GOD bless us all !

> >

> >Ashok '84

>

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Dear Ashok,

That was a good one. I figure out

from this writeup that you have faith and you are

equally practical.

Best wishes

Keep Smiling

Chetan

--- Ashok Bhaskar wrote:

---------------------------------

Dear Anchita,

I go a little further....

When I see GOD I don't mean literally.

Its those near miss situations and out of nowhere help

we get in some situations is what I see as GOD's

manifestations rather than mere coincidences.

That truth eventually prevails and Good always wins

over evil is not mere coincidence...there has to be a

force that ensures this...

As we get older more and more situations accumulate

where hind sight is 20/20 and you are thankful that a

particular wish didn't come true and that GOD knows

what's best for you !

Der hai Ander nahi comes true again and again.

GOD does not exist in material form as anything that

exists in material form and is living is

corruptible.....

And there are those unanswered questions - that why

bad things are happening to a good person....why a

loved one is taken away prematurely...

Now if everything was so predictable....then we would

be machines / robots...may be on some other planet ;))

I don't believe in rebirth / afterlife ...lifeso I

can't conveniently explain that you are suffering in

this precious life because of past janam karma- this

doesn't make any sense ???

In my scheme of things you are forgiven the moment you

realize your sin and begin repentance....otherwise a

murderer could just not look forward to anything

positive and be anxious all his life even though he

realizes his sin and wants to make ammends and desires

forgiveness.....

If you commit a sin which we all do at some or the

other point in our lives would we be waiting for the

rest of our lives waiting to be punished ??

Destiny / Fate / Life inflicts.....GOD delivers.....

always helps one who is willing to be helped.....there

is NO negativity with GOD !

I do have some theories other than past janam karma to

explain misery and grief inflicted upon good people or

for that matter anybody......but these ideas have to

mature...

If you did get to the bottom of this page thanks for

your interest.

Ashok 1984

" Dr.Bhushan Patil "

wrote:

I agree with u on hinduism. And my grandfather used to

say exactly that - Hinduism is not a religion, it is a

way of life. In fact he has written a book on it. I

tried to go thru' it when i was in 11th, but it was

too philosophical for me.

For me God is nothing but faith. When all seems to

fail, this is the crutch we lean on. Does He exist? I

don't know. But the faith in this Something seems to

work when nothing else does. And that's enough to make

me believe in Him.

Anchita (93)

On Tue, 31 Aug 2004 Ashok Bhaskar wrote :

>Hi Venkat,

>

>This is my 3rd year at Chinmaya Mission. I consider

it GOD's blessing that I started going to the mission.

It is not a cult as the person who started has passed

away.

>

>One has to be watchful as it is easy to get carried

away when you set on the path of spirituality and

religion. Then places like Rajneesh Ashram and david

Koresh ( Texas) happen. Nonbelievers get even more

distanced from spirituality and religion.

>

>Once one of my friends quoted Karl Marx " Religion is

the opiate for the masses " While I first rejected

this opinion as scoffed at the plight of Russia as I

have thought about it I think it is true statement.

But I think it is a necessary opiate fot the well

being of any society...can be likened to medical

marijuana.

>

>It seems in the vedic period when science had not yet

developed intellectuals would drift towards forests /

mountaions like Himalayas and meditate on the meaning

of life, purpose of our existence etc etc ....i.e.,

embark on these spiritual journeys.

>

>It is in that period from where vedas originated.

Science was not developed yet....and hence it took

form of mythology.....must have been mere imagination

of our forefathers....this imagination is central to

all religions and basic principles of all religions

are the same.

>

>Russia's experiment of a GOD less society has failed

miserably. America which prides as " One nation under

GOD " believes in freedom and equality and tries its

best to be a altruistic society has relatively been

more successful.

>

>Moral of the story is " Just follow path of truth (

to the best of one's understanding )...listen to the

voice of your conscience...if you think what you are

doing is wrong...don't do it ...don't justify it "

>

>Time and again....history has been testimony that

good wins over evil... " Satyamave jayate "

>

>Why justice is delayed in GOD's court is what I have

not understood completely. But then I have lot of

questions. There will always be gaps in our

understanding ...that doesn't mean it doesn't

exist......just like in science.

>

>Religion doesn't claim to have all the answers....it

just attempts to prescribe a way of life for happy

living...which is the ultimate goal of every man.

>

>Nobody ...nobody is in pursuit of " unhappiness " .

>

>Hinduism was coined by the colonial British.....for

all their sins they did pay heavily in World War II.

>

>Our religion is simply " a way of living " ....hence

we never have religious wars where we tried to convert

someone forcefully...........the single most important

difference of which I am so proud.

>

>Coming back to what the mission is doing for us.

>

>People like Renuka don't need it as her extended

family was what the mission is to me today. Her

maternal grandma who she quotes often was

instrumental in her relatively better understanding

than me.

>

>Religion leads to peaceful living at the personal

level. If you are completefully peaceful, have no

conflicts and are totally happy and your happiness is

not dependent on material or worldly things then you

don't need religion.

>

>A psychiatrist colleague once funningly remarked in

response to my query " Why in America is their so much

consumption of psychiatric services ? (Its nicKnamed

Prozac nation ) "

>

>His answer was " In America the therapist is rented

extended family ? "

>

>The educated here are moving farther and farther away

from religion as they want crystal clear evidence like

science does for the most part.

>

>What we need to do is contemporarize religion in the

light of our current and changing scientific knowledge

?

>

>I don't believe that at the end of your spiritual

journey you become one with GOD or a godman....you

surely become a good man.

>

>We intellectuals from the scientific community who

have blessed should make an effort to reinvent

religion for the benefit of the masses rather than

shying away from it or having our own private beliefs

about GOD ...each individual having his own concept of

GOD and his own version of right and wrong !!!

>

>Lets try to seperate fact from fiction. Personally at

this stage I don't believe in after birth and

reincarnation. I am not sure if soul is different than

the body...I mean if there is something like a soul or

is it all our imagination.... then you might question

isn't GOD our imagination too. Now I have seen

evidence for his / her / its existence but I have not

seen the same for the soul. So lets see.

>

>Just like colleges and schools are necessary for

education a religious framework is necessary for us to

benefit from our belief in GOD.

>

>Now if you are an atheist and happy you don't need

religion. If you are an atheist and unhappy give

religion a chance.

>

>Coming back to the topic of Chinmaya mission....as

you can see it is helping to clear my confusion.

>

>As far as the kids...its giving them

effortlessly....something we struggle to give....our

culture...foster religious beliefs....and give them a

clear sense of right and wrong which we all imbibed

from our extended family consisting of wise elders

who have see and experienced life. As our kids mature

they will still have to do their sorting out but we

would have provided them the best teaching they can

have which we confused adults cannot do at home.

>

>Ashok Bhaskar 1984

>

>Venkat Yerrabolu wrote:

>Ashok,

>

>Thanks for sharing the family news. Satya (4th grade)

and Guna (2nd grade)

>started school. Life is cool. Are you going to

Chinmaya this year. It's

>tough for us to go every week. We may go to Lemont

Temple classes since they

>have classes every alternative week. Talk to you

soon. We should meet soon.

>

>- Venkat, Pontiac

>Home:

>

>

> >From: Ashok Bhaskar

> >To: mgims@...

> >CC: Anil Bhaskar-PanHealth , ashutosh & anita

> >, chandrashekhar kulkarni ,

> >jbtdrc_wda , Latha ,

> >Madhavi Yellapragada , Mahesh

> >Makam , mohan krishna

> >, saket sinha , uncle

> >, Venkat Yerrabolu

> >Subject: Special Moments !

> >Date: Mon, 30 Aug 2004 16:09:39 -0700 (PDT)

> >

> >Thought will share with my friends here at the

group some special moments !

> >

> >2 weeks ago Renuka started as a consultant /

attending pathologist and

> >hematopathologist at Mac neal Hospital....45' drive

.....a Chicago suburb

> >east of us.

> >

> >Last week Aishwarya started middle school - 6th

grade.

> >

> >Bacche kab bade ho jaate hai patha hi nahi chalta !

> >

> >Thats why we all need to slow down...take time out

of our hectic schedules

> >and savour these special moments !

> >

> >This morning I was really excited....Puccho

kyon.......Any guesses ?

> >

> >Scroll down....

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >Ditto ( Aaditya ) our little guy became a big boy

!!!!!!

> >

> >He started PRESCHOOL _ PRE K :))

> >

> >He looked cho cute with his bag and the look of

anticipation mixed with

> >apprehension...

> >I got it all on video and can't wait to get home to

hear his report !!

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >Zindagi isi ka naam hi.....may GOD bless us all !

> >

> >Ashok '84

>

>_________________________________________________________________

>On the road to retirement? Check out MSN Life Events

for advice on how to

>get there!

http://lifeevents.msn.com/category.aspx?cid=Retirement

>

>

>

>

>

>

>

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Dear Ashok,

That was a good one. I figure out

from this writeup that you have faith and you are

equally practical.

Best wishes

Keep Smiling

Chetan

--- Ashok Bhaskar wrote:

---------------------------------

Dear Anchita,

I go a little further....

When I see GOD I don't mean literally.

Its those near miss situations and out of nowhere help

we get in some situations is what I see as GOD's

manifestations rather than mere coincidences.

That truth eventually prevails and Good always wins

over evil is not mere coincidence...there has to be a

force that ensures this...

As we get older more and more situations accumulate

where hind sight is 20/20 and you are thankful that a

particular wish didn't come true and that GOD knows

what's best for you !

Der hai Ander nahi comes true again and again.

GOD does not exist in material form as anything that

exists in material form and is living is

corruptible.....

And there are those unanswered questions - that why

bad things are happening to a good person....why a

loved one is taken away prematurely...

Now if everything was so predictable....then we would

be machines / robots...may be on some other planet ;))

I don't believe in rebirth / afterlife ...lifeso I

can't conveniently explain that you are suffering in

this precious life because of past janam karma- this

doesn't make any sense ???

In my scheme of things you are forgiven the moment you

realize your sin and begin repentance....otherwise a

murderer could just not look forward to anything

positive and be anxious all his life even though he

realizes his sin and wants to make ammends and desires

forgiveness.....

If you commit a sin which we all do at some or the

other point in our lives would we be waiting for the

rest of our lives waiting to be punished ??

Destiny / Fate / Life inflicts.....GOD delivers.....

always helps one who is willing to be helped.....there

is NO negativity with GOD !

I do have some theories other than past janam karma to

explain misery and grief inflicted upon good people or

for that matter anybody......but these ideas have to

mature...

If you did get to the bottom of this page thanks for

your interest.

Ashok 1984

" Dr.Bhushan Patil "

wrote:

I agree with u on hinduism. And my grandfather used to

say exactly that - Hinduism is not a religion, it is a

way of life. In fact he has written a book on it. I

tried to go thru' it when i was in 11th, but it was

too philosophical for me.

For me God is nothing but faith. When all seems to

fail, this is the crutch we lean on. Does He exist? I

don't know. But the faith in this Something seems to

work when nothing else does. And that's enough to make

me believe in Him.

Anchita (93)

On Tue, 31 Aug 2004 Ashok Bhaskar wrote :

>Hi Venkat,

>

>This is my 3rd year at Chinmaya Mission. I consider

it GOD's blessing that I started going to the mission.

It is not a cult as the person who started has passed

away.

>

>One has to be watchful as it is easy to get carried

away when you set on the path of spirituality and

religion. Then places like Rajneesh Ashram and david

Koresh ( Texas) happen. Nonbelievers get even more

distanced from spirituality and religion.

>

>Once one of my friends quoted Karl Marx " Religion is

the opiate for the masses " While I first rejected

this opinion as scoffed at the plight of Russia as I

have thought about it I think it is true statement.

But I think it is a necessary opiate fot the well

being of any society...can be likened to medical

marijuana.

>

>It seems in the vedic period when science had not yet

developed intellectuals would drift towards forests /

mountaions like Himalayas and meditate on the meaning

of life, purpose of our existence etc etc ....i.e.,

embark on these spiritual journeys.

>

>It is in that period from where vedas originated.

Science was not developed yet....and hence it took

form of mythology.....must have been mere imagination

of our forefathers....this imagination is central to

all religions and basic principles of all religions

are the same.

>

>Russia's experiment of a GOD less society has failed

miserably. America which prides as " One nation under

GOD " believes in freedom and equality and tries its

best to be a altruistic society has relatively been

more successful.

>

>Moral of the story is " Just follow path of truth (

to the best of one's understanding )...listen to the

voice of your conscience...if you think what you are

doing is wrong...don't do it ...don't justify it "

>

>Time and again....history has been testimony that

good wins over evil... " Satyamave jayate "

>

>Why justice is delayed in GOD's court is what I have

not understood completely. But then I have lot of

questions. There will always be gaps in our

understanding ...that doesn't mean it doesn't

exist......just like in science.

>

>Religion doesn't claim to have all the answers....it

just attempts to prescribe a way of life for happy

living...which is the ultimate goal of every man.

>

>Nobody ...nobody is in pursuit of " unhappiness " .

>

>Hinduism was coined by the colonial British.....for

all their sins they did pay heavily in World War II.

>

>Our religion is simply " a way of living " ....hence

we never have religious wars where we tried to convert

someone forcefully...........the single most important

difference of which I am so proud.

>

>Coming back to what the mission is doing for us.

>

>People like Renuka don't need it as her extended

family was what the mission is to me today. Her

maternal grandma who she quotes often was

instrumental in her relatively better understanding

than me.

>

>Religion leads to peaceful living at the personal

level. If you are completefully peaceful, have no

conflicts and are totally happy and your happiness is

not dependent on material or worldly things then you

don't need religion.

>

>A psychiatrist colleague once funningly remarked in

response to my query " Why in America is their so much

consumption of psychiatric services ? (Its nicKnamed

Prozac nation ) "

>

>His answer was " In America the therapist is rented

extended family ? "

>

>The educated here are moving farther and farther away

from religion as they want crystal clear evidence like

science does for the most part.

>

>What we need to do is contemporarize religion in the

light of our current and changing scientific knowledge

?

>

>I don't believe that at the end of your spiritual

journey you become one with GOD or a godman....you

surely become a good man.

>

>We intellectuals from the scientific community who

have blessed should make an effort to reinvent

religion for the benefit of the masses rather than

shying away from it or having our own private beliefs

about GOD ...each individual having his own concept of

GOD and his own version of right and wrong !!!

>

>Lets try to seperate fact from fiction. Personally at

this stage I don't believe in after birth and

reincarnation. I am not sure if soul is different than

the body...I mean if there is something like a soul or

is it all our imagination.... then you might question

isn't GOD our imagination too. Now I have seen

evidence for his / her / its existence but I have not

seen the same for the soul. So lets see.

>

>Just like colleges and schools are necessary for

education a religious framework is necessary for us to

benefit from our belief in GOD.

>

>Now if you are an atheist and happy you don't need

religion. If you are an atheist and unhappy give

religion a chance.

>

>Coming back to the topic of Chinmaya mission....as

you can see it is helping to clear my confusion.

>

>As far as the kids...its giving them

effortlessly....something we struggle to give....our

culture...foster religious beliefs....and give them a

clear sense of right and wrong which we all imbibed

from our extended family consisting of wise elders

who have see and experienced life. As our kids mature

they will still have to do their sorting out but we

would have provided them the best teaching they can

have which we confused adults cannot do at home.

>

>Ashok Bhaskar 1984

>

>Venkat Yerrabolu wrote:

>Ashok,

>

>Thanks for sharing the family news. Satya (4th grade)

and Guna (2nd grade)

>started school. Life is cool. Are you going to

Chinmaya this year. It's

>tough for us to go every week. We may go to Lemont

Temple classes since they

>have classes every alternative week. Talk to you

soon. We should meet soon.

>

>- Venkat, Pontiac

>Home:

>

>

> >From: Ashok Bhaskar

> >To: mgims@...

> >CC: Anil Bhaskar-PanHealth , ashutosh & anita

> >, chandrashekhar kulkarni ,

> >jbtdrc_wda , Latha ,

> >Madhavi Yellapragada , Mahesh

> >Makam , mohan krishna

> >, saket sinha , uncle

> >, Venkat Yerrabolu

> >Subject: Special Moments !

> >Date: Mon, 30 Aug 2004 16:09:39 -0700 (PDT)

> >

> >Thought will share with my friends here at the

group some special moments !

> >

> >2 weeks ago Renuka started as a consultant /

attending pathologist and

> >hematopathologist at Mac neal Hospital....45' drive

.....a Chicago suburb

> >east of us.

> >

> >Last week Aishwarya started middle school - 6th

grade.

> >

> >Bacche kab bade ho jaate hai patha hi nahi chalta !

> >

> >Thats why we all need to slow down...take time out

of our hectic schedules

> >and savour these special moments !

> >

> >This morning I was really excited....Puccho

kyon.......Any guesses ?

> >

> >Scroll down....

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >Ditto ( Aaditya ) our little guy became a big boy

!!!!!!

> >

> >He started PRESCHOOL _ PRE K :))

> >

> >He looked cho cute with his bag and the look of

anticipation mixed with

> >apprehension...

> >I got it all on video and can't wait to get home to

hear his report !!

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >Zindagi isi ka naam hi.....may GOD bless us all !

> >

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Yes i did get to the bottom of the page. talking about hindsight and the

gratitude that " a particular wish did not come true " i always give this example

to everyone and anyone who  is depressed with the way things are turning out. u

see, my husband Bhushan flunked in his final year, which is no big thing in a

professional college, but nevertheless it hurts. and it hurt him , his family

and of course me really badly. but we could do nothing to change it.

Then came the time for PG admissions, and with the 2 years rural service thing,

he wasn't eligible to apply with the regular batch. He belongs to the NT

(nomadic tribes category) and that year we had a Medicine seat reserved for NT.

MEDICINE!!! but he could not apply, and it passed on to the general category. he

felt crushed.

6 months later, hardly any seats degree seats left for mid-term. So he chooses

the only one available, and that is ENT.

Now comes the hindsight. He always wanted a surgical branch, but felt Gen.

surgery had not much scope without super-specialisation. anyway gen.surgery was

not there when he applied. But he was never interested in medicine not as PG

(read as career for a lifetime)[and i'm sorry Kalantri sir, but that is the

truth].And as he read his ENT, he grew to love it. Everyone says his hand at

surgery is beatiful, so much so that Raizada sir has advised him to try for

Plastic surgery! And he turned out to be one of the best PGs the department has

had!

But imagine if he'd cleared his final year in the first attempt .... he would've

done Medicine and probably hated evry minute of it. The memories still hurt, but

you see the logic and say, thank God!

Anchita (93)

On Thu, 02 Sep 2004 Ashok Bhaskar wrote :

>Dear Anchita,

>

>I go a little further....

>

>When I see GOD I don't mean literally.

>

>Its those near miss situations and out of nowhere help we get in some

situations is what I see as GOD's manifestations rather than mere coincidences.

>

>That truth eventually prevails and Good always wins over evil is not mere

coincidence...there has to be a force that ensures this...

>

>As we get older more and more situations accumulate where hind sight is 20/20

and you are thankful that a particular wish didn't come true and that GOD knows

what's best for you !

>

>Der hai Ander nahi comes true again and again.

>

>GOD does not exist in material form as anything that exists in material form

and is living is corruptible.....

>

>And there are those unanswered questions - that why bad things are happening to

a good person....why a loved one is taken away prematurely...

>

>Now if everything was so predictable....then we would be machines /

robots...may be on some other planet ;))

>

>I don't believe in rebirth / afterlife ...lifeso I can't conveniently explain

that you are suffering in this precious life because of past janam karma- this

doesn't make any sense ???

>

>In my scheme of things you are forgiven the moment you realize your sin and

begin repentance....otherwise a murderer could just not look forward to anything

positive and be anxious all his life even though he realizes his sin and wants

to make ammends and desires forgiveness.....

>

>If you commit a sin which we all do at some or the other point in our lives

would we be waiting for the rest of our lives waiting to be punished ??

>

>Destiny / Fate / Life inflicts.....GOD delivers..... always helps one who is

willing to be helped.....there is NO negativity with GOD !

>

>I do have some theories other than past janam karma to explain misery and grief

inflicted upon good people or for that matter anybody......but these ideas have

to mature...

>

>If you did get to the bottom of this page thanks for your interest.

>

>Ashok 1984

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>

>

> " Dr.Bhushan Patil " wrote:

>I agree with u on hinduism. And my grandfather used to say exactly that -

Hinduism is not a religion, it is a way of life. In fact he has written a book

on it. I tried to go thru' it when i was in 11th, but it was too philosophical

for me.

>For me God is nothing but faith. When all seems to fail, this is the crutch we

lean on. Does He exist? I don't know. But the faith in this Something seems to

work when nothing else does. And that's enough to make me believe in Him.

>Anchita (93)

>

>

>On Tue, 31 Aug 2004 Ashok Bhaskar wrote :

> >Hi Venkat,

> >

> >This is my 3rd year at Chinmaya Mission. I consider it GOD's blessing that I

started going to the mission. It is not a cult as the person who started has

passed away.

> >

> >One has to be watchful as it is easy to get carried away when you set on the

path of spirituality and religion. Then places like Rajneesh Ashram and david

Koresh ( Texas) happen. Nonbelievers get even more distanced from spirituality

and religion.

> >

> >Once one of my friends quoted Karl Marx " Religion is the opiate for the

masses " While I first rejected this opinion as scoffed at the plight of Russia

as I have thought about it I think it is true statement. But I think it is a

necessary opiate fot the well being of any society...can be likened to medical

marijuana.

> >

> >It seems in the vedic period when science had not yet developed intellectuals

would drift towards forests / mountaions like Himalayas and meditate on the

meaning of life, purpose of our existence etc etc ....i.e., embark on these

spiritual journeys.

> >

> >It is in that period from where vedas originated. Science was not developed

yet....and hence it took form of mythology.....must have been mere imagination

of our forefathers....this imagination is central to all religions and basic

principles of all religions are the same.

> >

> >Russia's experiment of a GOD less society has failed miserably. America which

prides as " One nation under GOD " believes in freedom and equality and tries

its best to be a altruistic society has relatively been more successful.

> >

> >Moral of the story is " Just follow path of truth ( to the best of one's

understanding )...listen to the voice of your conscience...if you think what you

are doing is wrong...don't do it ...don't justify it "

> >

> >Time and again....history has been testimony that good wins over

evil... " Satyamave jayate "

> >

> >Why justice is delayed in GOD's court is what I have not understood

completely. But then I have lot of questions. There will always be gaps in our

understanding ...that doesn't mean it doesn't exist......just like in science.

> >

> >Religion doesn't claim to have all the answers....it just attempts to

prescribe a way of life for happy living...which is the ultimate goal of every

man.

> >

> >Nobody ...nobody is in pursuit of " unhappiness " .

> >

> >Hinduism was coined by the colonial British.....for all their sins they did

pay heavily in World War II.

> >

> >Our religion is simply " a way of living " ....hence we never have religious

wars where we tried to convert someone forcefully...........the single most

important difference of which I am so proud.

> >

> >Coming back to what the mission is doing for us.

> >

> >People like Renuka don't need it as her extended family was what the mission

is to me today. Her maternal grandma who she quotes often was instrumental in

her relatively better understanding than me.

> >

> >Religion leads to peaceful living at the personal level. If you are

completefully peaceful, have no conflicts and are totally happy and your

happiness is not dependent on material or worldly things then you don't need

religion.

> >

> >A psychiatrist colleague once funningly remarked in response to my query "

Why in America is their so much consumption of psychiatric services ? (Its

nicKnamed Prozac nation ) "

> >

> >His answer was " In America the therapist is rented extended family ? "

> >

> >The educated here are moving farther and farther away from religion as they

want crystal clear evidence like science does for the most part.

> >

> >What we need to do is contemporarize religion in the light of our current and

changing scientific knowledge ?

> >

> >I don't believe that at the end of your spiritual journey you become one with

GOD or a godman....you surely become a good man.

> >

> >We intellectuals from the scientific community who have blessed should make

an effort to reinvent religion for the benefit of the masses rather than shying

away from it or having our own private beliefs about GOD ...each individual

having his own concept of GOD and his own version of right and wrong !!!

> >

> >Lets try to seperate fact from fiction. Personally at this stage I don't

believe in after birth and reincarnation. I am not sure if soul is different

than the body...I mean if there is something like a soul or is it all our

imagination.... then you might question isn't GOD our imagination too. Now I

have seen evidence for his / her / its existence but I have not seen the same

for the soul. So lets see.

> >

> >Just like colleges and schools are necessary for education a religious

framework is necessary for us to benefit from our belief in GOD.

> >

> >Now if you are an atheist and happy you don't need religion. If you are an

atheist and unhappy give religion a chance.

> >

> >Coming back to the topic of Chinmaya mission....as you can see it is helping

to clear my confusion.

> >

> >As far as the kids...its giving them effortlessly....something we struggle to

give....our culture...foster religious beliefs....and give them a clear sense of

right and wrong which we all imbibed from our extended family consisting of

wise elders who have see and experienced life. As our kids mature they will

still have to do their sorting out but we would have provided them the best

teaching they can have which we confused adults cannot do at home.

> >

> >Ashok Bhaskar 1984

> >

> >Venkat Yerrabolu wrote:

> >Ashok,

> >

> >Thanks for sharing the family news. Satya (4th grade) and Guna (2nd grade)

> >started school. Life is cool. Are you going to Chinmaya this year. It's

> >tough for us to go every week. We may go to Lemont Temple classes since they

> >have classes every alternative week. Talk to you soon. We should meet soon.

> >

> >- Venkat, Pontiac

> >Home:

> >

> >

> > >From: Ashok Bhaskar

> > >To: mgims@...

> > >CC: Anil Bhaskar-PanHealth , ashutosh & anita

> > >, chandrashekhar kulkarni ,

> > >jbtdrc_wda , Latha ,

> > >Madhavi Yellapragada , Mahesh

> > >Makam , mohan krishna

> > >, saket sinha , uncle

> > >, Venkat Yerrabolu

> > >Subject: Special Moments !

> > >Date: Mon, 30 Aug 2004 16:09:39 -0700 (PDT)

> > >

> > >Thought will share with my friends here at the group some special moments !

> > >

> > >2 weeks ago Renuka started as a consultant / attending pathologist and

> > >hematopathologist at Mac neal Hospital....45' drive ....a Chicago suburb

> > >east of us.

> > >

> > >Last week Aishwarya started middle school - 6th grade.

> > >

> > >Bacche kab bade ho jaate hai patha hi nahi chalta !

> > >

> > >Thats why we all need to slow down...take time out of our hectic schedules

> > >and savour these special moments !

> > >

> > >This morning I was really excited....Puccho kyon.......Any guesses ?

> > >

> > >Scroll down....

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> > >Ditto ( Aaditya ) our little guy became a big boy !!!!!!

> > >

> > >He started PRESCHOOL _ PRE K :))

> > >

> > >He looked cho cute with his bag and the look of anticipation mixed with

> > >apprehension...

> > >I got it all on video and can't wait to get home to hear his report !!

> > >

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> > >Zindagi isi ka naam hi.....may GOD bless us all !

> > >

> > >Ashok '84

> >

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