Jump to content
RemedySpot.com

Re: Rude people!

Rate this topic


Guest guest

Recommended Posts

Guest guest

Sam is 11 and wears the Goodnights most of the time.. She does now however go to

the potty more often than she used to but she Fights when it comes to putting on

panties..

Oh yeah my son who will be 10 wants to know what day in June..

Jenn B In SWMO

Mom 2 age 11 Developmental delays (mental & physical 1-4 years),

BiPolar, & Siezure Disorder, possible autism (undiagnosed)

& Tiny aka ADHD Age 9 Typically Good kid, Just likes to drive me batty.

Aunt to 16 Girls and Boys

Re: Rude people!

Jen,

JUST turned 5 in May

Crystal

Crystal B

St. Clair Shores

http://crystalbreger.blogspot.com/

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Guest guest

Sam is 11 and wears the Goodnights most of the time.. She does now however go to

the potty more often than she used to but she Fights when it comes to putting on

panties..

Oh yeah my son who will be 10 wants to know what day in June..

Jenn B In SWMO

Mom 2 age 11 Developmental delays (mental & physical 1-4 years),

BiPolar, & Siezure Disorder, possible autism (undiagnosed)

& Tiny aka ADHD Age 9 Typically Good kid, Just likes to drive me batty.

Aunt to 16 Girls and Boys

Re: Rude people!

Jen,

JUST turned 5 in May

Crystal

Crystal B

St. Clair Shores

http://crystalbreger.blogspot.com/

Link to comment
Share on other sites

  • 2 weeks later...
Guest guest

Hi Aimee. I am new to this forum. My daughter is 26 months old an dhas

PDD-NOS. She is non-verbal and can now sign more, all done, help, ball, open,

and

sometimes go. We have had to change all of these signs a little bit (except

for more) because she has some issues using both hands and crossing midline

too. We just started Methyl B12 injections every 3 days. I have heard more

babbling with different sounds coming out. It has been really exciting to see

her

progress. here is the website

http://www.drneubrander.com/page1.html

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Guest guest

Hi Aimee. I am new to this forum. My daughter is 26 months old an dhas

PDD-NOS. She is non-verbal and can now sign more, all done, help, ball, open,

and

sometimes go. We have had to change all of these signs a little bit (except

for more) because she has some issues using both hands and crossing midline

too. We just started Methyl B12 injections every 3 days. I have heard more

babbling with different sounds coming out. It has been really exciting to see

her

progress. here is the website

http://www.drneubrander.com/page1.html

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Guest guest

Aimee, we worked hard to teach Alyssa to speak, and she's quite verbal

at 6, but still not real interactive and certainly not

conversational. Using other means of communication teach

COMMUNICATION, and now that we're using RDI, we're seeing some of that

emerging, finally. (ABA did everything BUT encourage this interactive

communication. All ABA taught her was to request, demand, comment,

but not to interact. And Amnesty, we had great consultants and super

therapists; it was, in my opinion, ABA done well, and it still failed

in that one respect.)

Looking into some sort of FC is not a cop-out, in my opinion, if it

teaches interaction with communication, because without that, these

kids are really hurting as adults...really on the 'outside'. It's a

core deficit, and what keeps these kids dependent as adults.

> Amnesty,

> I have my concerns abou teaching ella other means of communication,

because what I really want is for her to speek.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Guest guest

Aimee, we worked hard to teach Alyssa to speak, and she's quite verbal

at 6, but still not real interactive and certainly not

conversational. Using other means of communication teach

COMMUNICATION, and now that we're using RDI, we're seeing some of that

emerging, finally. (ABA did everything BUT encourage this interactive

communication. All ABA taught her was to request, demand, comment,

but not to interact. And Amnesty, we had great consultants and super

therapists; it was, in my opinion, ABA done well, and it still failed

in that one respect.)

Looking into some sort of FC is not a cop-out, in my opinion, if it

teaches interaction with communication, because without that, these

kids are really hurting as adults...really on the 'outside'. It's a

core deficit, and what keeps these kids dependent as adults.

> Amnesty,

> I have my concerns abou teaching ella other means of communication,

because what I really want is for her to speek.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Guest guest

Aimee, we worked hard to teach Alyssa to speak, and she's quite verbal

at 6, but still not real interactive and certainly not

conversational. Using other means of communication teach

COMMUNICATION, and now that we're using RDI, we're seeing some of that

emerging, finally. (ABA did everything BUT encourage this interactive

communication. All ABA taught her was to request, demand, comment,

but not to interact. And Amnesty, we had great consultants and super

therapists; it was, in my opinion, ABA done well, and it still failed

in that one respect.)

Looking into some sort of FC is not a cop-out, in my opinion, if it

teaches interaction with communication, because without that, these

kids are really hurting as adults...really on the 'outside'. It's a

core deficit, and what keeps these kids dependent as adults.

> Amnesty,

> I have my concerns abou teaching ella other means of communication,

because what I really want is for her to speek.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Guest guest

Aimee, glad to help. With Allie, she would say a word once in a great

while, like every 2-3 mos. She'd say it one time with eye contact and

everything, like a switch had come on. Then in a blink it was like she

was gone again. When we put her on gfcf she began to speak without

losing it. I feel very blessed because i know many people do not find

benefit from gfcf, so in no way saying it will do the same for

everyone, just for our situation. If she utters a word here and there,

it's my op that it's just God's promise of the future. Temple Grandin

says if a child can hear a word and repeat it, that is proof that all

the parts of the brain are properly functioning to learn language. I

thought that was very hopeful. Keep trying to have patience, she is

still so young, it will come.

Your little one is showing awesome potential by being able to sign.

Allie never could, her proprioceptive delay was too great a challenge.

Temple Grandin's book, Thinking in Pictures, really helped me

understand the importance of PECS. I was like you, I felt Allie could

be verbal and didn't want a therapist to settle for something less.

Temple's book explained that she could not make verbal language

without the pictures, so it is significant for many people with

autism. Some people with autism state they don't get that much from

pictures, but get a lot from written words. Most PECS has both. I

still use lots of PECS for Allie, she learns so much faster how to

speak with PECS than without.

HTH,

Debi

> Debi,

> I love this group...its my rock!

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Guest guest

Aimee, glad to help. With Allie, she would say a word once in a great

while, like every 2-3 mos. She'd say it one time with eye contact and

everything, like a switch had come on. Then in a blink it was like she

was gone again. When we put her on gfcf she began to speak without

losing it. I feel very blessed because i know many people do not find

benefit from gfcf, so in no way saying it will do the same for

everyone, just for our situation. If she utters a word here and there,

it's my op that it's just God's promise of the future. Temple Grandin

says if a child can hear a word and repeat it, that is proof that all

the parts of the brain are properly functioning to learn language. I

thought that was very hopeful. Keep trying to have patience, she is

still so young, it will come.

Your little one is showing awesome potential by being able to sign.

Allie never could, her proprioceptive delay was too great a challenge.

Temple Grandin's book, Thinking in Pictures, really helped me

understand the importance of PECS. I was like you, I felt Allie could

be verbal and didn't want a therapist to settle for something less.

Temple's book explained that she could not make verbal language

without the pictures, so it is significant for many people with

autism. Some people with autism state they don't get that much from

pictures, but get a lot from written words. Most PECS has both. I

still use lots of PECS for Allie, she learns so much faster how to

speak with PECS than without.

HTH,

Debi

> Debi,

> I love this group...its my rock!

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Guest guest

Aimee, glad to help. With Allie, she would say a word once in a great

while, like every 2-3 mos. She'd say it one time with eye contact and

everything, like a switch had come on. Then in a blink it was like she

was gone again. When we put her on gfcf she began to speak without

losing it. I feel very blessed because i know many people do not find

benefit from gfcf, so in no way saying it will do the same for

everyone, just for our situation. If she utters a word here and there,

it's my op that it's just God's promise of the future. Temple Grandin

says if a child can hear a word and repeat it, that is proof that all

the parts of the brain are properly functioning to learn language. I

thought that was very hopeful. Keep trying to have patience, she is

still so young, it will come.

Your little one is showing awesome potential by being able to sign.

Allie never could, her proprioceptive delay was too great a challenge.

Temple Grandin's book, Thinking in Pictures, really helped me

understand the importance of PECS. I was like you, I felt Allie could

be verbal and didn't want a therapist to settle for something less.

Temple's book explained that she could not make verbal language

without the pictures, so it is significant for many people with

autism. Some people with autism state they don't get that much from

pictures, but get a lot from written words. Most PECS has both. I

still use lots of PECS for Allie, she learns so much faster how to

speak with PECS than without.

HTH,

Debi

> Debi,

> I love this group...its my rock!

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Guest guest

First, I want to address your concerns about PECS. Really, PECS is

the easiest way to teach functional communication b/c it doesn't

require ANY pre-requiesit skills. Also, often you will see a HUGE

reduction in frustration behaviors, almost immediately. The other

thing it does is teach the concept of communication, basically lets

her know that there is a reason she wants to communicate with you,

to get what she wants quickly. Teaching PECS does NOT prevent or

delay the acquisiton of spoken communication, in fact, it usually

does exactly the opposite. I have seen kids 4 or 5 yrs old who have

never had any verbal language start talking after PECS was

introduced. Signing is a little trickier to use b/c of the fine

motor skills and imitation skills it requires, same for vocalizing,

she first needs imitation and oral motor, etc.

As far as the self stims, they could increase if she's feeling

frustrated, or trying to escape, etc. Are they occurring more

specificly when you place demands on her, or just in general? It may

just be a way for her to calm/relax herself. Try teaching other

relaxation techniques (asking for a massage, or swinging, rocking,

listening to music or watching a favorite video) and make sure you

are giving her unstructured breaks every hour.

HTH,

Amnesty

> > > Has always been verbal?

> > > Ella is 21 months and still completely nonverbal although she

> > babbles all day sometimes.

> > >

> > > Aimee

> > >

> > >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> > Autism_in_Girls-subscribe

> > ------------------------

> > Autism_in_Girls-unsubscribe

> >

> >

> >

> > ---------------------------------

> >

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Guest guest

First, I want to address your concerns about PECS. Really, PECS is

the easiest way to teach functional communication b/c it doesn't

require ANY pre-requiesit skills. Also, often you will see a HUGE

reduction in frustration behaviors, almost immediately. The other

thing it does is teach the concept of communication, basically lets

her know that there is a reason she wants to communicate with you,

to get what she wants quickly. Teaching PECS does NOT prevent or

delay the acquisiton of spoken communication, in fact, it usually

does exactly the opposite. I have seen kids 4 or 5 yrs old who have

never had any verbal language start talking after PECS was

introduced. Signing is a little trickier to use b/c of the fine

motor skills and imitation skills it requires, same for vocalizing,

she first needs imitation and oral motor, etc.

As far as the self stims, they could increase if she's feeling

frustrated, or trying to escape, etc. Are they occurring more

specificly when you place demands on her, or just in general? It may

just be a way for her to calm/relax herself. Try teaching other

relaxation techniques (asking for a massage, or swinging, rocking,

listening to music or watching a favorite video) and make sure you

are giving her unstructured breaks every hour.

HTH,

Amnesty

> > > Has always been verbal?

> > > Ella is 21 months and still completely nonverbal although she

> > babbles all day sometimes.

> > >

> > > Aimee

> > >

> > >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> > Autism_in_Girls-subscribe

> > ------------------------

> > Autism_in_Girls-unsubscribe

> >

> >

> >

> > ---------------------------------

> >

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Guest guest

First, I want to address your concerns about PECS. Really, PECS is

the easiest way to teach functional communication b/c it doesn't

require ANY pre-requiesit skills. Also, often you will see a HUGE

reduction in frustration behaviors, almost immediately. The other

thing it does is teach the concept of communication, basically lets

her know that there is a reason she wants to communicate with you,

to get what she wants quickly. Teaching PECS does NOT prevent or

delay the acquisiton of spoken communication, in fact, it usually

does exactly the opposite. I have seen kids 4 or 5 yrs old who have

never had any verbal language start talking after PECS was

introduced. Signing is a little trickier to use b/c of the fine

motor skills and imitation skills it requires, same for vocalizing,

she first needs imitation and oral motor, etc.

As far as the self stims, they could increase if she's feeling

frustrated, or trying to escape, etc. Are they occurring more

specificly when you place demands on her, or just in general? It may

just be a way for her to calm/relax herself. Try teaching other

relaxation techniques (asking for a massage, or swinging, rocking,

listening to music or watching a favorite video) and make sure you

are giving her unstructured breaks every hour.

HTH,

Amnesty

> > > Has always been verbal?

> > > Ella is 21 months and still completely nonverbal although she

> > babbles all day sometimes.

> > >

> > > Aimee

> > >

> > >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> > Autism_in_Girls-subscribe

> > ------------------------

> > Autism_in_Girls-unsubscribe

> >

> >

> >

> > ---------------------------------

> >

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Guest guest

I had consultants and therapists trained in VB, too. The big emphasis

was on manding, not on interaction. We did as much incidental and

natural teaching and as little table time as possible. I mean, we did

everything right...and no one addressed the stuff RDI is addressing

now.

> I think it just depends on the company/individuals you have doing

> the ABA. The company I am with now for example, our number one focus

> is verbal behavior and functional communication. ABA is just the

> reasoning behind the teaching techniques we use. I think a lot of

> places (and I know b/c I have worked for good and less good

> organizations) confuse discrete trail teaching with ABA, when in

> fact they are two totally seperate things. DTT is the how, ABA is

> the WHY...

> Hope that makes sense!

> Amnesty

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Guest guest

I didn't see her on Oprah :-(

My advice to anyone considering gfcf is to start with a list of what

she will eat. From that you can begin looking for replacements. Once

you have your replacements you can start working on trying to offer

new foods. There are lots of good pretzels and such. gfcfrecipes is a

yahoo group full of info. There's also something in the files section

called " debis...) It's a collection of recipes I made while doing

gfcf. I tried to categorize them to make it easier to go through.

You said peanut butter in an earlier post. Good news, Jif is gfcf! (or

at least is was last I knew) You can also get all-natural pb that will

eliminate the excess sugar. Really, the only thing left for that food

is the bread. I think kinnikinnick's is the closest to descent.

honestly I never ate any gfcf that was anything to rave about.

I'm the same way with autism message boards, this is my therapy.

Debi

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Guest guest

Any good web sites about RDI?

Aimee

Debi wrote:

When I started learning about RDI techniques I realized there was a

speech path and Allie's 3 yr old teacher who used many RDI principles

during ABA-type activities. The speech path said she thinks a good

speech path will use many of the techniques. That said of course, the

earliest RDI stuff has to be done by the parents because they are

teaching the child to look to their parents for those skills infancts

would have learned. It's so subtle in so many ways.

Debi

Autism_in_Girls-subscribe

------------------------

Autism_in_Girls-unsubscribe

---------------------------------

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Guest guest

What is VB?

Aimee

penelope_fam wrote:

I had consultants and therapists trained in VB, too. The big emphasis

was on manding, not on interaction. We did as much incidental and

natural teaching and as little table time as possible. I mean, we did

everything right...and no one addressed the stuff RDI is addressing

now.

> I think it just depends on the company/individuals you have doing

> the ABA. The company I am with now for example, our number one focus

> is verbal behavior and functional communication. ABA is just the

> reasoning behind the teaching techniques we use. I think a lot of

> places (and I know b/c I have worked for good and less good

> organizations) confuse discrete trail teaching with ABA, when in

> fact they are two totally seperate things. DTT is the how, ABA is

> the WHY...

> Hope that makes sense!

> Amnesty

Autism_in_Girls-subscribe

------------------------

Autism_in_Girls-unsubscribe

---------------------------------

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Guest guest

What is VB?

Aimee

penelope_fam wrote:

I had consultants and therapists trained in VB, too. The big emphasis

was on manding, not on interaction. We did as much incidental and

natural teaching and as little table time as possible. I mean, we did

everything right...and no one addressed the stuff RDI is addressing

now.

> I think it just depends on the company/individuals you have doing

> the ABA. The company I am with now for example, our number one focus

> is verbal behavior and functional communication. ABA is just the

> reasoning behind the teaching techniques we use. I think a lot of

> places (and I know b/c I have worked for good and less good

> organizations) confuse discrete trail teaching with ABA, when in

> fact they are two totally seperate things. DTT is the how, ABA is

> the WHY...

> Hope that makes sense!

> Amnesty

Autism_in_Girls-subscribe

------------------------

Autism_in_Girls-unsubscribe

---------------------------------

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Guest guest

What is VB?

Aimee

penelope_fam wrote:

I had consultants and therapists trained in VB, too. The big emphasis

was on manding, not on interaction. We did as much incidental and

natural teaching and as little table time as possible. I mean, we did

everything right...and no one addressed the stuff RDI is addressing

now.

> I think it just depends on the company/individuals you have doing

> the ABA. The company I am with now for example, our number one focus

> is verbal behavior and functional communication. ABA is just the

> reasoning behind the teaching techniques we use. I think a lot of

> places (and I know b/c I have worked for good and less good

> organizations) confuse discrete trail teaching with ABA, when in

> fact they are two totally seperate things. DTT is the how, ABA is

> the WHY...

> Hope that makes sense!

> Amnesty

Autism_in_Girls-subscribe

------------------------

Autism_in_Girls-unsubscribe

---------------------------------

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Guest guest

Debi,

Silly question what does HTH mean?

Aimee

Debi wrote:

Honestly I find it difficult to decipher any info from the

rdiconnect.com site. It's like they are under some marketing guise of

" pay us more and we'll tell you more " . Maybe someone else here knows

of some good sites that really explains it. There's also some good RDI

message boards if you do a search.

HTH,

Debi

> Any good web sites about RDI?

>

> Aimee

Autism_in_Girls-subscribe

------------------------

Autism_in_Girls-unsubscribe

---------------------------------

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Guest guest

Debi,

Silly question what does HTH mean?

Aimee

Debi wrote:

Honestly I find it difficult to decipher any info from the

rdiconnect.com site. It's like they are under some marketing guise of

" pay us more and we'll tell you more " . Maybe someone else here knows

of some good sites that really explains it. There's also some good RDI

message boards if you do a search.

HTH,

Debi

> Any good web sites about RDI?

>

> Aimee

Autism_in_Girls-subscribe

------------------------

Autism_in_Girls-unsubscribe

---------------------------------

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Guest guest

My favorite is the Yahoo group called RDI Mid Atlantic. They keep

files jam packed with ideas for each stage, and there are a bunch of

really creative parents on that list.

RDI North Carolina is good, but hasn't been as active as the Mid

Atlantic list lately.

the michigan list is new, and small, and we are all in the learning

stages.

> > Any good web sites about RDI?

> >

> > Aimee

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Join the conversation

You are posting as a guest. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account.
Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible.

Guest
Reply to this topic...

×   Pasted as rich text.   Paste as plain text instead

  Only 75 emoji are allowed.

×   Your link has been automatically embedded.   Display as a link instead

×   Your previous content has been restored.   Clear editor

×   You cannot paste images directly. Upload or insert images from URL.

Loading...
×
×
  • Create New...