Guest guest Posted March 26, 2001 Report Share Posted March 26, 2001 asked: <<your Nadas react when you cut them loose? I am afraid mine is going to try to hurt herself to make me feel guilty or the abuse that I experienced as a child could not compared to what she has in store for me now that I have turned my back to her. Help I am scared of what the next steps will bring!>>>> You sound like me several months ago - still living for " her " instead of for me. It doesn't matter what they do, that's not something that you can control or change. All that you can do is to take care of you. My nada really started sending hate mail and saying things like " I don't know what I ever did to make you act like this. I'll always love you. " She also planned her funeral and tried to hoover me back in with this and her " new, improved " will. ly, I'm enjoying life better now that I don't have to pretend to care each week when I call or feel guilty for not visiting more often. I feel grown up and on my own and my children don't miss the critical, nasty comments. You may wind up, not even able to be in the same area with her, and that hurts even more, but it's better than abuse!! Remember, she has abused you!!! Making you fell guilty is ABUSE!! Hugs, Ilene in TX Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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