Guest guest Posted May 6, 2004 Report Share Posted May 6, 2004 > but yes, I like not having to worry about being rejected by others is that true? dont you feel happy when somebody says you are intelligent? you are the great one in the world. infact we seek kind attention,approval and even appreciation from others.it happpens unconsciously.I think thats how we have conditioned.thats why we get hurt when somebody reject us,say something what is called bad about us.infact if you dont seek others attention,approval and appreciation you are on the way to land of happiness and you are very near to it.most of our probelms seems to be only on this. I am already on the way to break though this prison! > if someone really cares about me why do talk about someone really cares about you? infact nobody will care about you.I am sure you also dont care about anybody.I have discussed this things with wanda already though she was not agreeing with me! Many Greetings, Senthil Kumar.S. > Kind of...I can put myself first for once. It's not so much rejecting > others as putting me up on my priority list, but yes, I like not > having to worry about being rejected by others. Not being told I'm > not good enough or up to their approval standards. Much better that > way because if someone really cares about me, I should be good enough > the way I am. > > Angie > > > > Hi Angie! > > > > >That's why I'm happy alone. Can go where ever I want. Do what ever > I > > >want. Don't have to ask for permission. My house is decorated the > way > > >that I want it, and if I don't feel like cleaning, I don't have > to. > > >If I just want mac and cheese for dinner...no big deal. It's very > > >nice and freeing after being controlled for so long. > > > > Immmmmmmm,I can understand that.I translate this into the bottom > > level,you have got freedom,no body is there to force you by > > using power or by emotionally blockmailing.I have been experienced > > arrogance and forcing by now more three years.I certainly understand > > this.perhaps,others forces you to do something since they feel > > rejection,rejection means everything I know most of the parents > > get angry when their children is not listening to them,thats > > infact due feeling of rejection right! > > > > > and if I don't feel like cleaning > > > > I translated this line as you dont have the fear of rejection. > > you dont need to clean,you dont need to be the top all the time > > to hang with somebody isnt it? > > > > so,by being alone you can > > > > 1) you have got freedom - you can prefer others over you, > > I mean you can reject others > > > > 2) you dont be rejected by others > > > > thats why it feels great I think anyway ENJOY! > > > > Many Greetings, > > Senthil Kumar.S. > > > > ps - no sex,no women and men matters! > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 6, 2004 Report Share Posted May 6, 2004 > but yes, I like not having to worry about being rejected by others is that true? dont you feel happy when somebody says you are intelligent? you are the great one in the world. infact we seek kind attention,approval and even appreciation from others.it happpens unconsciously.I think thats how we have conditioned.thats why we get hurt when somebody reject us,say something what is called bad about us.infact if you dont seek others attention,approval and appreciation you are on the way to land of happiness and you are very near to it.most of our probelms seems to be only on this. I am already on the way to break though this prison! > if someone really cares about me why do talk about someone really cares about you? infact nobody will care about you.I am sure you also dont care about anybody.I have discussed this things with wanda already though she was not agreeing with me! Many Greetings, Senthil Kumar.S. > Kind of...I can put myself first for once. It's not so much rejecting > others as putting me up on my priority list, but yes, I like not > having to worry about being rejected by others. Not being told I'm > not good enough or up to their approval standards. Much better that > way because if someone really cares about me, I should be good enough > the way I am. > > Angie > > > > Hi Angie! > > > > >That's why I'm happy alone. Can go where ever I want. Do what ever > I > > >want. Don't have to ask for permission. My house is decorated the > way > > >that I want it, and if I don't feel like cleaning, I don't have > to. > > >If I just want mac and cheese for dinner...no big deal. It's very > > >nice and freeing after being controlled for so long. > > > > Immmmmmmm,I can understand that.I translate this into the bottom > > level,you have got freedom,no body is there to force you by > > using power or by emotionally blockmailing.I have been experienced > > arrogance and forcing by now more three years.I certainly understand > > this.perhaps,others forces you to do something since they feel > > rejection,rejection means everything I know most of the parents > > get angry when their children is not listening to them,thats > > infact due feeling of rejection right! > > > > > and if I don't feel like cleaning > > > > I translated this line as you dont have the fear of rejection. > > you dont need to clean,you dont need to be the top all the time > > to hang with somebody isnt it? > > > > so,by being alone you can > > > > 1) you have got freedom - you can prefer others over you, > > I mean you can reject others > > > > 2) you dont be rejected by others > > > > thats why it feels great I think anyway ENJOY! > > > > Many Greetings, > > Senthil Kumar.S. > > > > ps - no sex,no women and men matters! > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 10, 2004 Report Share Posted May 10, 2004 Well, I'm not going to agree with you on the not caring about anybody either Senthil. If anything, I've been told that I'm a very sensitive person and very sympathetic to others. I've also been told I care too much about others. How I have to stop taking on others problems like they were my own. How I need to detach. Especially now, where emotions can affect my asthma somewhat. It's a hard task...learning how to care without taking on someone's problems, but I'm definitely trying to learn. I have a good heart and I think to have that you have to care. Maybe you don't care...but then don't complain about women treating you badly or using you 'cause it sounds like you were just using them in return since you are incapable of caring for another human being. At least, that's the way I see it. Angie > > > Hi Angie! > > > > > > >That's why I'm happy alone. Can go where ever I want. Do what ever > > I > > > >want. Don't have to ask for permission. My house is decorated the > > way > > > >that I want it, and if I don't feel like cleaning, I don't have > > to. > > > >If I just want mac and cheese for dinner...no big deal. It's very > > > >nice and freeing after being controlled for so long. > > > > > > Immmmmmmm,I can understand that.I translate this into the bottom > > > level,you have got freedom,no body is there to force you by > > > using power or by emotionally blockmailing.I have been experienced > > > arrogance and forcing by now more three years.I certainly understand > > > this.perhaps,others forces you to do something since they feel > > > rejection,rejection means everything I know most of the parents > > > get angry when their children is not listening to them,thats > > > infact due feeling of rejection right! > > > > > > > and if I don't feel like cleaning > > > > > > I translated this line as you dont have the fear of rejection. > > > you dont need to clean,you dont need to be the top all the time > > > to hang with somebody isnt it? > > > > > > so,by being alone you can > > > > > > 1) you have got freedom - you can prefer others over you, > > > I mean you can reject others > > > > > > 2) you dont be rejected by others > > > > > > thats why it feels great I think anyway ENJOY! > > > > > > Many Greetings, > > > Senthil Kumar.S. > > > > > > ps - no sex,no women and men matters! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 10, 2004 Report Share Posted May 10, 2004 Well, I'm not going to agree with you on the not caring about anybody either Senthil. If anything, I've been told that I'm a very sensitive person and very sympathetic to others. I've also been told I care too much about others. How I have to stop taking on others problems like they were my own. How I need to detach. Especially now, where emotions can affect my asthma somewhat. It's a hard task...learning how to care without taking on someone's problems, but I'm definitely trying to learn. I have a good heart and I think to have that you have to care. Maybe you don't care...but then don't complain about women treating you badly or using you 'cause it sounds like you were just using them in return since you are incapable of caring for another human being. At least, that's the way I see it. Angie > > > Hi Angie! > > > > > > >That's why I'm happy alone. Can go where ever I want. Do what ever > > I > > > >want. Don't have to ask for permission. My house is decorated the > > way > > > >that I want it, and if I don't feel like cleaning, I don't have > > to. > > > >If I just want mac and cheese for dinner...no big deal. It's very > > > >nice and freeing after being controlled for so long. > > > > > > Immmmmmmm,I can understand that.I translate this into the bottom > > > level,you have got freedom,no body is there to force you by > > > using power or by emotionally blockmailing.I have been experienced > > > arrogance and forcing by now more three years.I certainly understand > > > this.perhaps,others forces you to do something since they feel > > > rejection,rejection means everything I know most of the parents > > > get angry when their children is not listening to them,thats > > > infact due feeling of rejection right! > > > > > > > and if I don't feel like cleaning > > > > > > I translated this line as you dont have the fear of rejection. > > > you dont need to clean,you dont need to be the top all the time > > > to hang with somebody isnt it? > > > > > > so,by being alone you can > > > > > > 1) you have got freedom - you can prefer others over you, > > > I mean you can reject others > > > > > > 2) you dont be rejected by others > > > > > > thats why it feels great I think anyway ENJOY! > > > > > > Many Greetings, > > > Senthil Kumar.S. > > > > > > ps - no sex,no women and men matters! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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