RE: nada's imaginary support

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Anon said:

> BPD can be so darn insidious!!! I certainly haven't started

> challenging every statement

> that comes out of nada's mouth (what do you think I have, a

> death wish?). But, I have

> stopped taking her so seriously. This is still difficult for

> me -- as a co-dependent KO.

> It's hard enough to believe in myself when I run counter to

> nada, but when she starts

> lining up the (imaginary?) people that support her, it can

> make things really difficult.

>

> Just some thoughts triggered by reading that sentence!

>

Anon, you triggered thoughts with THAT sentence. I too have stopped taking

nada so seriously (I hope). But it is still so VERY hard for me to remember,

and accept, that my mother is lying to me. Never mind the fact that it's

probably around 75% of the time. Lying to me at all - it's just not in me to

lie.

Yes, she did teach me to ALWAYS lie, cheat, and steal. Guess her training

didn't take.