Guest guest Posted December 17, 2005 Report Share Posted December 17, 2005 Well its rarely spread by regular sex unless you have rough sex and there is an exchange of blood ( like during your period).. but even then, it has to be blood to blood. I have heard differing opinions regarding condoms, one says yes it will protect but then another says no cuz the virus is so small that it can move through the condom so I dont really know which is the truth. Janet.... being a nurse, can you answer this one? darker_goddess wrote: Ok I really need advice. I have been dating my boyfriend (Dated him before on and off) Anyways we have been together 8 months. And we are ready to have sex. I have showed him alot of information about Hep C and if we use protection we will be ok. The things, I have only had sex once before. And it was forced on me. He is shy and so am I. I dont know how to you know get there. We both want to, but it is his first time.Another thing, I need to know how I can do this. I am scared of giving him hep C even tho it is rare to pass it threw sex. I love him, but Im not sure what to do. I dont want to cause him any pain, and I dont want to give him hep C.Please I need advice! Jackie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 17, 2005 Report Share Posted December 17, 2005 Well its rarely spread by regular sex unless you have rough sex and there is an exchange of blood ( like during your period).. but even then, it has to be blood to blood. I have heard differing opinions regarding condoms, one says yes it will protect but then another says no cuz the virus is so small that it can move through the condom so I dont really know which is the truth. Janet.... being a nurse, can you answer this one? darker_goddess wrote: Ok I really need advice. I have been dating my boyfriend (Dated him before on and off) Anyways we have been together 8 months. And we are ready to have sex. I have showed him alot of information about Hep C and if we use protection we will be ok. The things, I have only had sex once before. And it was forced on me. He is shy and so am I. I dont know how to you know get there. We both want to, but it is his first time.Another thing, I need to know how I can do this. I am scared of giving him hep C even tho it is rare to pass it threw sex. I love him, but Im not sure what to do. I dont want to cause him any pain, and I dont want to give him hep C.Please I need advice! Jackie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 17, 2005 Report Share Posted December 17, 2005 Well its rarely spread by regular sex unless you have rough sex and there is an exchange of blood ( like during your period).. but even then, it has to be blood to blood. I have heard differing opinions regarding condoms, one says yes it will protect but then another says no cuz the virus is so small that it can move through the condom so I dont really know which is the truth. Janet.... being a nurse, can you answer this one? darker_goddess wrote: Ok I really need advice. I have been dating my boyfriend (Dated him before on and off) Anyways we have been together 8 months. And we are ready to have sex. I have showed him alot of information about Hep C and if we use protection we will be ok. The things, I have only had sex once before. And it was forced on me. He is shy and so am I. I dont know how to you know get there. We both want to, but it is his first time.Another thing, I need to know how I can do this. I am scared of giving him hep C even tho it is rare to pass it threw sex. I love him, but Im not sure what to do. I dont want to cause him any pain, and I dont want to give him hep C.Please I need advice! Jackie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 17, 2005 Report Share Posted December 17, 2005 Using condoms may make you feel less scared and it is really great that you have been open with him. Protect yourself as well b/c you can get things as well and this can make having hep c worse- so condoms aren't just for him they are for you! The first time is always awkward but only you can know if you are ready so that is something you really have to ask yourself. it's great that you are so open and honest and this will help you in having a healthy, open and honest relationship. good for you- dylan :-) --- darker_goddess wrote: > Ok I really need advice. I have been dating my > boyfriend (Dated him > before on and off) Anyways we have been together 8 > months. And we are > ready to have sex. I have showed him alot of > information about Hep C > and if we use protection we will be ok. > The things, I have only had sex once before. And it > was forced on me. > He is shy and so am I. I dont know how to you know > get there. We both > want to, but it is his first time. > Another thing, I need to know how I can do this. I > am scared of giving > him hep C even tho it is rare to pass it threw sex. > I love him, but Im > not sure what to do. I dont want to cause him any > pain, and I dont > want to give him hep C. > > Please I need advice! > > > > > > > __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 17, 2005 Report Share Posted December 17, 2005 Using condoms may make you feel less scared and it is really great that you have been open with him. Protect yourself as well b/c you can get things as well and this can make having hep c worse- so condoms aren't just for him they are for you! The first time is always awkward but only you can know if you are ready so that is something you really have to ask yourself. it's great that you are so open and honest and this will help you in having a healthy, open and honest relationship. good for you- dylan :-) --- darker_goddess wrote: > Ok I really need advice. I have been dating my > boyfriend (Dated him > before on and off) Anyways we have been together 8 > months. And we are > ready to have sex. I have showed him alot of > information about Hep C > and if we use protection we will be ok. > The things, I have only had sex once before. And it > was forced on me. > He is shy and so am I. I dont know how to you know > get there. We both > want to, but it is his first time. > Another thing, I need to know how I can do this. I > am scared of giving > him hep C even tho it is rare to pass it threw sex. > I love him, but Im > not sure what to do. I dont want to cause him any > pain, and I dont > want to give him hep C. > > Please I need advice! > > > > > > > __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 17, 2005 Report Share Posted December 17, 2005 And you can always have a " condom date " where you both practice putting the condoms on cucumbers or zucchini. It can help break the ice and give you both a bit more skill in your own handling of the matter " at hand " . Sally <just a thought> Re: Need personal advice Using condoms may make you feel less scared and it is really great that you have been open with him. Protect yourself as well b/c you can get things as well and this can make having hep c worse- so condoms aren't just for him they are for you! The first time is always awkward but only you can know if you are ready so that is something you really have to ask yourself. it's great that you are so open and honest and this will help you in having a healthy, open and honest relationship. good for you- dylan :-) --- darker_goddess wrote: > Ok I really need advice. I have been dating my > boyfriend (Dated him > before on and off) Anyways we have been together 8 > months. And we are > ready to have sex. I have showed him alot of > information about Hep C > and if we use protection we will be ok. > The things, I have only had sex once before. And it > was forced on me. > He is shy and so am I. I dont know how to you know > get there. We both > want to, but it is his first time. > Another thing, I need to know how I can do this. I > am scared of giving > him hep C even tho it is rare to pass it threw sex. > I love him, but Im > not sure what to do. I dont want to cause him any > pain, and I dont > want to give him hep C. > > Please I need advice! > > > > > > > __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 17, 2005 Report Share Posted December 17, 2005 And you can always have a " condom date " where you both practice putting the condoms on cucumbers or zucchini. It can help break the ice and give you both a bit more skill in your own handling of the matter " at hand " . Sally <just a thought> Re: Need personal advice Using condoms may make you feel less scared and it is really great that you have been open with him. Protect yourself as well b/c you can get things as well and this can make having hep c worse- so condoms aren't just for him they are for you! The first time is always awkward but only you can know if you are ready so that is something you really have to ask yourself. it's great that you are so open and honest and this will help you in having a healthy, open and honest relationship. good for you- dylan :-) --- darker_goddess wrote: > Ok I really need advice. I have been dating my > boyfriend (Dated him > before on and off) Anyways we have been together 8 > months. And we are > ready to have sex. I have showed him alot of > information about Hep C > and if we use protection we will be ok. > The things, I have only had sex once before. And it > was forced on me. > He is shy and so am I. I dont know how to you know > get there. We both > want to, but it is his first time. > Another thing, I need to know how I can do this. I > am scared of giving > him hep C even tho it is rare to pass it threw sex. > I love him, but Im > not sure what to do. I dont want to cause him any > pain, and I dont > want to give him hep C. > > Please I need advice! > > > > > > > __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 17, 2005 Report Share Posted December 17, 2005 And you can always have a " condom date " where you both practice putting the condoms on cucumbers or zucchini. It can help break the ice and give you both a bit more skill in your own handling of the matter " at hand " . Sally <just a thought> Re: Need personal advice Using condoms may make you feel less scared and it is really great that you have been open with him. Protect yourself as well b/c you can get things as well and this can make having hep c worse- so condoms aren't just for him they are for you! The first time is always awkward but only you can know if you are ready so that is something you really have to ask yourself. it's great that you are so open and honest and this will help you in having a healthy, open and honest relationship. good for you- dylan :-) --- darker_goddess wrote: > Ok I really need advice. I have been dating my > boyfriend (Dated him > before on and off) Anyways we have been together 8 > months. And we are > ready to have sex. I have showed him alot of > information about Hep C > and if we use protection we will be ok. > The things, I have only had sex once before. And it > was forced on me. > He is shy and so am I. I dont know how to you know > get there. We both > want to, but it is his first time. > Another thing, I need to know how I can do this. I > am scared of giving > him hep C even tho it is rare to pass it threw sex. > I love him, but Im > not sure what to do. I dont want to cause him any > pain, and I dont > want to give him hep C. > > Please I need advice! > > > > > > > __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 17, 2005 Report Share Posted December 17, 2005 Sally, THATS a great idea!!!Sally Hines wrote: And you can always have a "condom date" where you both practice putting thecondoms on cucumbers or zucchini. It can help break the ice and give youboth a bit more skill in your own handling of the matter "at hand".Sally <just a thought>-----Original Message-----From: Hepatitis_C_Central [mailto:Hepatitis_C_Central ] On Behalf Of RathSent: Saturday, December 17, 2005 7:58 PMTo: Hepatitis_C_Central Subject: Re: Need personal adviceUsing condoms may make you feel less scared and it isreally great that you have been open with him. Protectyourself as well b/c you can get things as well andthis can make having hep c worse- so condoms aren'tjust for him they are for you! The first time isalways awkward but only you can know if you are readyso that is something you really have to ask yourself.it's great that you are so open and honest and thiswill help you in having a healthy, open and honest relationship. good foryou- dylan :-)--- darker_goddess wrote:> Ok I really need advice. I have been dating my> boyfriend (Dated him> before on and off) Anyways we have been together 8> months. And we are > ready to have sex. I have showed him alot of> information about Hep C > and if we use protection we will be ok. > The things, I have only had sex once before. And it> was forced on me. > He is shy and so am I. I dont know how to you know> get there. We both > want to, but it is his first time.> Another thing, I need to know how I can do this. I> am scared of giving > him hep C even tho it is rare to pass it threw sex.> I love him, but Im > not sure what to do. I dont want to cause him any> pain, and I dont > want to give him hep C.> > Please I need advice!> > > > > > > __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 17, 2005 Report Share Posted December 17, 2005 Sally, THATS a great idea!!!Sally Hines wrote: And you can always have a "condom date" where you both practice putting thecondoms on cucumbers or zucchini. It can help break the ice and give youboth a bit more skill in your own handling of the matter "at hand".Sally <just a thought>-----Original Message-----From: Hepatitis_C_Central [mailto:Hepatitis_C_Central ] On Behalf Of RathSent: Saturday, December 17, 2005 7:58 PMTo: Hepatitis_C_Central Subject: Re: Need personal adviceUsing condoms may make you feel less scared and it isreally great that you have been open with him. Protectyourself as well b/c you can get things as well andthis can make having hep c worse- so condoms aren'tjust for him they are for you! The first time isalways awkward but only you can know if you are readyso that is something you really have to ask yourself.it's great that you are so open and honest and thiswill help you in having a healthy, open and honest relationship. good foryou- dylan :-)--- darker_goddess wrote:> Ok I really need advice. I have been dating my> boyfriend (Dated him> before on and off) Anyways we have been together 8> months. And we are > ready to have sex. I have showed him alot of> information about Hep C > and if we use protection we will be ok. > The things, I have only had sex once before. And it> was forced on me. > He is shy and so am I. I dont know how to you know> get there. We both > want to, but it is his first time.> Another thing, I need to know how I can do this. I> am scared of giving > him hep C even tho it is rare to pass it threw sex.> I love him, but Im > not sure what to do. I dont want to cause him any> pain, and I dont > want to give him hep C.> > Please I need advice!> > > > > > > __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 17, 2005 Report Share Posted December 17, 2005 Sally, THATS a great idea!!!Sally Hines wrote: And you can always have a "condom date" where you both practice putting thecondoms on cucumbers or zucchini. It can help break the ice and give youboth a bit more skill in your own handling of the matter "at hand".Sally <just a thought>-----Original Message-----From: Hepatitis_C_Central [mailto:Hepatitis_C_Central ] On Behalf Of RathSent: Saturday, December 17, 2005 7:58 PMTo: Hepatitis_C_Central Subject: Re: Need personal adviceUsing condoms may make you feel less scared and it isreally great that you have been open with him. Protectyourself as well b/c you can get things as well andthis can make having hep c worse- so condoms aren'tjust for him they are for you! The first time isalways awkward but only you can know if you are readyso that is something you really have to ask yourself.it's great that you are so open and honest and thiswill help you in having a healthy, open and honest relationship. good foryou- dylan :-)--- darker_goddess wrote:> Ok I really need advice. I have been dating my> boyfriend (Dated him> before on and off) Anyways we have been together 8> months. And we are > ready to have sex. I have showed him alot of> information about Hep C > and if we use protection we will be ok. > The things, I have only had sex once before. And it> was forced on me. > He is shy and so am I. I dont know how to you know> get there. We both > want to, but it is his first time.> Another thing, I need to know how I can do this. I> am scared of giving > him hep C even tho it is rare to pass it threw sex.> I love him, but Im > not sure what to do. I dont want to cause him any> pain, and I dont > want to give him hep C.> > Please I need advice!> > > > > > > __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 17, 2005 Report Share Posted December 17, 2005 *blushes* Maybe start off with carrots? so as not to intimidate the young man?? Hee Hee cause I have seen some rather large cucumbers!! Oh my I am bad. Love Janet Afterwards make a tasty salad!! Jackie on wrote: Sally, THATS a great idea!!!Sally Hines wrote: And you can always have a "condom date" where you both practice putting thecondoms on cucumbers or zucchini. It can help break the ice and give youboth a bit more skill in your own handling of the matter "at hand".Sally <just a thought>-----Original Message-----From: Hepatitis_C_Central [mailto:Hepatitis_C_Central ] On Behalf Of RathSent: Saturday, December 17, 2005 7:58 PMTo: Hepatitis_C_Central Subject: Re: Need personal adviceUsing condoms may make you feel less scared and it isreally great that you have been open with him. Protectyourself as well b/c you can get things as well andthis can make having hep c worse- so condoms aren'tjust for him they are for you! The first time isalways awkward but only you can know if you are readyso that is something you really have to ask yourself.it's great that you are so open and honest and thiswill help you in having a healthy, open and honest relationship. good foryou- dylan :-)--- darker_goddess wrote:> Ok I really need advice. I have been dating my> boyfriend (Dated him> before on and off) Anyways we have been together 8> months. And we are > ready to have sex. I have showed him alot of> information about Hep C > and if we use protection we will be ok. > The things, I have only had sex once before. And it> was forced on me. > He is shy and so am I. I dont know how to you know> get there. We both > want to, but it is his first time.> Another thing, I need to know how I can do this. I> am scared of giving > him hep C even tho it is rare to pass it threw sex.> I love him, but Im > not sure what to do. I dont want to cause him any> pain, and I dont > want to give him hep C.> > Please I need advice!> > > > > > > __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 18, 2005 Report Share Posted December 18, 2005 I've seen some really small ones, too. Sally Re: Need personal advice Using condoms may make you feel less scared and it is really great that you have been open with him. Protect yourself as well b/c you can get things as well and this can make having hep c worse- so condoms aren't just for him they are for you! The first time is always awkward but only you can know if you are ready so that is something you really have to ask yourself. it's great that you are so open and honest and this will help you in having a healthy, open and honest relationship. good for you- dylan :-) --- darker_goddess wrote: > Ok I really need advice. I have been dating my > boyfriend (Dated him > before on and off) Anyways we have been together 8 > months. And we are > ready to have sex. I have showed him alot of > information about Hep C > and if we use protection we will be ok. > The things, I have only had sex once before. And it > was forced on me. > He is shy and so am I. I dont know how to you know > get there. We both > want to, but it is his first time. > Another thing, I need to know how I can do this. I > am scared of giving > him hep C even tho it is rare to pass it threw sex. > I love him, but Im > not sure what to do. I dont want to cause him any > pain, and I dont > want to give him hep C. > > Please I need advice! > > > > > > > __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 18, 2005 Report Share Posted December 18, 2005 I've seen some really small ones, too. Sally Re: Need personal advice Using condoms may make you feel less scared and it is really great that you have been open with him. Protect yourself as well b/c you can get things as well and this can make having hep c worse- so condoms aren't just for him they are for you! The first time is always awkward but only you can know if you are ready so that is something you really have to ask yourself. it's great that you are so open and honest and this will help you in having a healthy, open and honest relationship. good for you- dylan :-) --- darker_goddess wrote: > Ok I really need advice. I have been dating my > boyfriend (Dated him > before on and off) Anyways we have been together 8 > months. And we are > ready to have sex. I have showed him alot of > information about Hep C > and if we use protection we will be ok. > The things, I have only had sex once before. And it > was forced on me. > He is shy and so am I. I dont know how to you know > get there. We both > want to, but it is his first time. > Another thing, I need to know how I can do this. I > am scared of giving > him hep C even tho it is rare to pass it threw sex. > I love him, but Im > not sure what to do. I dont want to cause him any > pain, and I dont > want to give him hep C. > > Please I need advice! > > > > > > > __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 18, 2005 Report Share Posted December 18, 2005 There is no 100% chance but its way up there there that a condom will pprotect against spreading anything and getting pregnant.. and having Take your time it will happen ..I am 44 and I still have problems..I was molested at a young age > > Ok I really need advice. I have been dating my boyfriend (Dated him > before on and off) Anyways we have been together 8 months. And we are > ready to have sex. I have showed him alot of information about Hep C > and if we use protection we will be ok. > The things, I have only had sex once before. And it was forced on me. > He is shy and so am I. I dont know how to you know get there. We both > want to, but it is his first time. > Another thing, I need to know how I can do this. I am scared of giving > him hep C even tho it is rare to pass it threw sex. I love him, but Im > not sure what to do. I dont want to cause him any pain, and I dont > want to give him hep C. > > Please I need advice! > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 18, 2005 Report Share Posted December 18, 2005 There is no 100% chance but its way up there there that a condom will pprotect against spreading anything and getting pregnant.. and having Take your time it will happen ..I am 44 and I still have problems..I was molested at a young age > > Ok I really need advice. I have been dating my boyfriend (Dated him > before on and off) Anyways we have been together 8 months. And we are > ready to have sex. I have showed him alot of information about Hep C > and if we use protection we will be ok. > The things, I have only had sex once before. And it was forced on me. > He is shy and so am I. I dont know how to you know get there. We both > want to, but it is his first time. > Another thing, I need to know how I can do this. I am scared of giving > him hep C even tho it is rare to pass it threw sex. I love him, but Im > not sure what to do. I dont want to cause him any pain, and I dont > want to give him hep C. > > Please I need advice! > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 18, 2005 Report Share Posted December 18, 2005 lol,, janet ,, you crack me up girl!!! janet wrote: *blushes* Maybe start off with carrots? so as not to intimidate the young man?? Hee Hee cause I have seen some rather large cucumbers!! Oh my I am bad. Love Janet Afterwards make a tasty salad!! Jackie on wrote: Sally, THATS a great idea!!!Sally Hines wrote: And you can always have a "condom date" where you both practice putting thecondoms on cucumbers or zucchini. It can help break the ice and give youboth a bit more skill in your own handling of the matter "at hand".Sally <just a thought>-----Original Message-----From: Hepatitis_C_Central [mailto:Hepatitis_C_Central ] On Behalf Of RathSent: Saturday, December 17, 2005 7:58 PMTo: Hepatitis_C_Central Subject: Re: Need personal adviceUsing condoms may make you feel less scared and it isreally great that you have been open with him. Protectyourself as well b/c you can get things as well andthis can make having hep c worse- so condoms aren'tjust for him they are for you! The first time isalways awkward but only you can know if you are readyso that is something you really have to ask yourself.it's great that you are so open and honest and thiswill help you in having a healthy, open and honest relationship. good foryou- dylan :-)--- darker_goddess wrote:> Ok I really need advice. I have been dating my> boyfriend (Dated him> before on and off) Anyways we have been together 8> months. And we are > ready to have sex. I have showed him alot of> information about Hep C > and if we use protection we will be ok. > The things, I have only had sex once before. And it> was forced on me. > He is shy and so am I. I dont know how to you know> get there. We both > want to, but it is his first time.> Another thing, I need to know how I can do this. I> am scared of giving > him hep C even tho it is rare to pass it threw sex.> I love him, but Im > not sure what to do. I dont want to cause him any> pain, and I dont > want to give him hep C.> > Please I need advice!> > > > > > > __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 18, 2005 Report Share Posted December 18, 2005 A salad afterward would be a good idea.Jackie on wrote: lol,, janet ,, you crack me up girl!!! janet wrote: *blushes* Maybe start off with carrots? so as not to intimidate the young man?? Hee Hee cause I have seen some rather large cucumbers!! Oh my I am bad. Love Janet Afterwards make a tasty salad!! Jackie on wrote: Sally, THATS a great idea!!!Sally Hines wrote: And you can always have a "condom date" where you both practice putting thecondoms on cucumbers or zucchini. It can help break the ice and give youboth a bit more skill in your own handling of the matter "at hand".Sally <just a thought>-----Original Message-----From: Hepatitis_C_Central [mailto:Hepatitis_C_Central ] On Behalf Of RathSent: Saturday, December 17, 2005 7:58 PMTo: Hepatitis_C_Central Subject: Re: Need personal adviceUsing condoms may make you feel less scared and it isreally great that you have been open with him. Protectyourself as well b/c you can get things as well andthis can make having hep c worse- so condoms aren'tjust for him they are for you! The first time isalways awkward but only you can know if you are readyso that is something you really have to ask yourself.it's great that you are so open and honest and thiswill help you in having a healthy, open and honest relationship. good foryou- dylan :-)--- darker_goddess wrote:> Ok I really need advice. I have been dating my> boyfriend (Dated him> before on and off) Anyways we have been together 8> months. And we are > ready to have sex. I have showed him alot of> information about Hep C > and if we use protection we will be ok. > The things, I have only had sex once before. And it> was forced on me. > He is shy and so am I. I dont know how to you know> get there. We both > want to, but it is his first time.> Another thing, I need to know how I can do this. I> am scared of giving > him hep C even tho it is rare to pass it threw sex.> I love him, but Im > not sure what to do. I dont want to cause him any> pain, and I dont > want to give him hep C.> > Please I need advice!> > > > > > > __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 18, 2005 Report Share Posted December 18, 2005 A salad afterward would be a good idea.Jackie on wrote: lol,, janet ,, you crack me up girl!!! janet wrote: *blushes* Maybe start off with carrots? so as not to intimidate the young man?? Hee Hee cause I have seen some rather large cucumbers!! Oh my I am bad. Love Janet Afterwards make a tasty salad!! Jackie on wrote: Sally, THATS a great idea!!!Sally Hines wrote: And you can always have a "condom date" where you both practice putting thecondoms on cucumbers or zucchini. It can help break the ice and give youboth a bit more skill in your own handling of the matter "at hand".Sally <just a thought>-----Original Message-----From: Hepatitis_C_Central [mailto:Hepatitis_C_Central ] On Behalf Of RathSent: Saturday, December 17, 2005 7:58 PMTo: Hepatitis_C_Central Subject: Re: Need personal adviceUsing condoms may make you feel less scared and it isreally great that you have been open with him. Protectyourself as well b/c you can get things as well andthis can make having hep c worse- so condoms aren'tjust for him they are for you! The first time isalways awkward but only you can know if you are readyso that is something you really have to ask yourself.it's great that you are so open and honest and thiswill help you in having a healthy, open and honest relationship. good foryou- dylan :-)--- darker_goddess wrote:> Ok I really need advice. I have been dating my> boyfriend (Dated him> before on and off) Anyways we have been together 8> months. And we are > ready to have sex. I have showed him alot of> information about Hep C > and if we use protection we will be ok. > The things, I have only had sex once before. And it> was forced on me. > He is shy and so am I. I dont know how to you know> get there. We both > want to, but it is his first time.> Another thing, I need to know how I can do this. I> am scared of giving > him hep C even tho it is rare to pass it threw sex.> I love him, but Im > not sure what to do. I dont want to cause him any> pain, and I dont > want to give him hep C.> > Please I need advice!> > > > > > > __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 18, 2005 Report Share Posted December 18, 2005 A salad afterward would be a good idea.Jackie on wrote: lol,, janet ,, you crack me up girl!!! janet wrote: *blushes* Maybe start off with carrots? so as not to intimidate the young man?? Hee Hee cause I have seen some rather large cucumbers!! Oh my I am bad. Love Janet Afterwards make a tasty salad!! Jackie on wrote: Sally, THATS a great idea!!!Sally Hines wrote: And you can always have a "condom date" where you both practice putting thecondoms on cucumbers or zucchini. It can help break the ice and give youboth a bit more skill in your own handling of the matter "at hand".Sally <just a thought>-----Original Message-----From: Hepatitis_C_Central [mailto:Hepatitis_C_Central ] On Behalf Of RathSent: Saturday, December 17, 2005 7:58 PMTo: Hepatitis_C_Central Subject: Re: Need personal adviceUsing condoms may make you feel less scared and it isreally great that you have been open with him. Protectyourself as well b/c you can get things as well andthis can make having hep c worse- so condoms aren'tjust for him they are for you! The first time isalways awkward but only you can know if you are readyso that is something you really have to ask yourself.it's great that you are so open and honest and thiswill help you in having a healthy, open and honest relationship. good foryou- dylan :-)--- darker_goddess wrote:> Ok I really need advice. I have been dating my> boyfriend (Dated him> before on and off) Anyways we have been together 8> months. And we are > ready to have sex. I have showed him alot of> information about Hep C > and if we use protection we will be ok. > The things, I have only had sex once before. And it> was forced on me. > He is shy and so am I. I dont know how to you know> get there. We both > want to, but it is his first time.> Another thing, I need to know how I can do this. I> am scared of giving > him hep C even tho it is rare to pass it threw sex.> I love him, but Im > not sure what to do. I dont want to cause him any> pain, and I dont > want to give him hep C.> > Please I need advice!> > > > > > > __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 18, 2005 Report Share Posted December 18, 2005 LOL I dont think I could eat a carrot or cucumber after doing that lol I think I would laugh everytime I took a bite. --- Frederick King wrote: > A salad afterward would be a good idea. > > Jackie on wrote: lol,, > janet ,, you crack me up girl!!! > > janet wrote: *blushes* > Maybe start off with carrots? so as not to > intimidate the young man?? Hee Hee > cause I have seen some rather large cucumbers!! > Oh my I am bad. > > Love > Janet > Afterwards make a tasty salad!! > > > Jackie on wrote: > Sally, THATS a great idea!!! > > Sally Hines wrote: And you > can always have a " condom date " where you both > practice putting the > condoms on cucumbers or zucchini. It can help break > the ice and give you > both a bit more skill in your own handling of the > matter " at hand " . > > Sally <just a thought> > > > Re: Need personal > advice > > > Using condoms may make you feel less scared and it > is > really great that you have been open with him. > Protect > yourself as well b/c you can get things as well and > this can make having hep c worse- so condoms aren't > just for him they are for you! The first time is > always awkward but only you can know if you are > ready > so that is something you really have to ask > yourself. > it's great that you are so open and honest and this > will help you in having a healthy, open and honest > relationship. good for > you- dylan :-) > > --- darker_goddess wrote: > > > Ok I really need advice. I have been dating my > > boyfriend (Dated him > > before on and off) Anyways we have been together 8 > > months. And we are > > ready to have sex. I have showed him alot of > > information about Hep C > > and if we use protection we will be ok. > > The things, I have only had sex once before. And > it > > was forced on me. > > He is shy and so am I. I dont know how to you know > > get there. We both > > want to, but it is his first time. > > Another thing, I need to know how I can do this. I > > am scared of giving > > him hep C even tho it is rare to pass it threw > sex. > > I love him, but Im > > not sure what to do. I dont want to cause him any > > pain, and I dont > > want to give him hep C. > > > > Please I need advice! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > __________________________________________________ > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 18, 2005 Report Share Posted December 18, 2005 LOL I dont think I could eat a carrot or cucumber after doing that lol I think I would laugh everytime I took a bite. --- Frederick King wrote: > A salad afterward would be a good idea. > > Jackie on wrote: lol,, > janet ,, you crack me up girl!!! > > janet wrote: *blushes* > Maybe start off with carrots? so as not to > intimidate the young man?? Hee Hee > cause I have seen some rather large cucumbers!! > Oh my I am bad. > > Love > Janet > Afterwards make a tasty salad!! > > > Jackie on wrote: > Sally, THATS a great idea!!! > > Sally Hines wrote: And you > can always have a " condom date " where you both > practice putting the > condoms on cucumbers or zucchini. It can help break > the ice and give you > both a bit more skill in your own handling of the > matter " at hand " . > > Sally <just a thought> > > > Re: Need personal > advice > > > Using condoms may make you feel less scared and it > is > really great that you have been open with him. > Protect > yourself as well b/c you can get things as well and > this can make having hep c worse- so condoms aren't > just for him they are for you! The first time is > always awkward but only you can know if you are > ready > so that is something you really have to ask > yourself. > it's great that you are so open and honest and this > will help you in having a healthy, open and honest > relationship. good for > you- dylan :-) > > --- darker_goddess wrote: > > > Ok I really need advice. I have been dating my > > boyfriend (Dated him > > before on and off) Anyways we have been together 8 > > months. And we are > > ready to have sex. I have showed him alot of > > information about Hep C > > and if we use protection we will be ok. > > The things, I have only had sex once before. And > it > > was forced on me. > > He is shy and so am I. I dont know how to you know > > get there. We both > > want to, but it is his first time. > > Another thing, I need to know how I can do this. I > > am scared of giving > > him hep C even tho it is rare to pass it threw > sex. > > I love him, but Im > > not sure what to do. I dont want to cause him any > > pain, and I dont > > want to give him hep C. > > > > Please I need advice! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > __________________________________________________ > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 18, 2005 Report Share Posted December 18, 2005 I hope the person asking for advice feels that they got the support that they needed. Did you? I know you are out there and if you are still feeling the need to get advice or have someone care let us know- being sexually abused is difficult and many of us have gone through it- including myself- so I can feel your pain when it comes to the fear of sex and what it may mean if it isn't forced etc.- I hope you are okay out there and if you want to talk about it still-in a serious way let me know :-) dylan --- g wrote: > LOL I dont think I could eat a carrot or cucumber > after doing that lol I think I would laugh everytime > I > took a bite. > > --- Frederick King wrote: > > > A salad afterward would be a good idea. > > > > Jackie on wrote: > lol,, > > janet ,, you crack me up girl!!! > > > > janet wrote: *blushes* > > Maybe start off with carrots? so as not to > > intimidate the young man?? Hee Hee > > cause I have seen some rather large cucumbers!! > > Oh my I am bad. > > > > Love > > Janet > > Afterwards make a tasty salad!! > > > > > > Jackie on wrote: > > Sally, THATS a great idea!!! > > > > Sally Hines wrote: And you > > can always have a " condom date " where you both > > practice putting the > > condoms on cucumbers or zucchini. It can help > break > > the ice and give you > > both a bit more skill in your own handling of the > > matter " at hand " . > > > > Sally <just a thought> > > > > > > Re: Need personal > > advice > > > > > > Using condoms may make you feel less scared and it > > is > > really great that you have been open with him. > > Protect > > yourself as well b/c you can get things as well > and > > this can make having hep c worse- so condoms > aren't > > just for him they are for you! The first time is > > always awkward but only you can know if you are > > ready > > so that is something you really have to ask > > yourself. > > it's great that you are so open and honest and > this > > will help you in having a healthy, open and honest > > relationship. good for > > you- dylan :-) > > > > --- darker_goddess > wrote: > > > > > Ok I really need advice. I have been dating my > > > boyfriend (Dated him > > > before on and off) Anyways we have been together > 8 > > > months. And we are > > > ready to have sex. I have showed him alot of > > > information about Hep C > > > and if we use protection we will be ok. > > > The things, I have only had sex once before. And > > it > > > was forced on me. > > > He is shy and so am I. I dont know how to you > know > > > get there. We both > > > want to, but it is his first time. > > > Another thing, I need to know how I can do this. > I > > > am scared of giving > > > him hep C even tho it is rare to pass it threw > > sex. > > > I love him, but Im > > > not sure what to do. I dont want to cause him > any > > > pain, and I dont > > > want to give him hep C. > > > > > > Please I need advice! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > __________________________________________________ > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 18, 2005 Report Share Posted December 18, 2005 I hope the person asking for advice feels that they got the support that they needed. Did you? I know you are out there and if you are still feeling the need to get advice or have someone care let us know- being sexually abused is difficult and many of us have gone through it- including myself- so I can feel your pain when it comes to the fear of sex and what it may mean if it isn't forced etc.- I hope you are okay out there and if you want to talk about it still-in a serious way let me know :-) dylan --- g wrote: > LOL I dont think I could eat a carrot or cucumber > after doing that lol I think I would laugh everytime > I > took a bite. > > --- Frederick King wrote: > > > A salad afterward would be a good idea. > > > > Jackie on wrote: > lol,, > > janet ,, you crack me up girl!!! > > > > janet wrote: *blushes* > > Maybe start off with carrots? so as not to > > intimidate the young man?? Hee Hee > > cause I have seen some rather large cucumbers!! > > Oh my I am bad. > > > > Love > > Janet > > Afterwards make a tasty salad!! > > > > > > Jackie on wrote: > > Sally, THATS a great idea!!! > > > > Sally Hines wrote: And you > > can always have a " condom date " where you both > > practice putting the > > condoms on cucumbers or zucchini. It can help > break > > the ice and give you > > both a bit more skill in your own handling of the > > matter " at hand " . > > > > Sally <just a thought> > > > > > > Re: Need personal > > advice > > > > > > Using condoms may make you feel less scared and it > > is > > really great that you have been open with him. > > Protect > > yourself as well b/c you can get things as well > and > > this can make having hep c worse- so condoms > aren't > > just for him they are for you! The first time is > > always awkward but only you can know if you are > > ready > > so that is something you really have to ask > > yourself. > > it's great that you are so open and honest and > this > > will help you in having a healthy, open and honest > > relationship. good for > > you- dylan :-) > > > > --- darker_goddess > wrote: > > > > > Ok I really need advice. I have been dating my > > > boyfriend (Dated him > > > before on and off) Anyways we have been together > 8 > > > months. And we are > > > ready to have sex. I have showed him alot of > > > information about Hep C > > > and if we use protection we will be ok. > > > The things, I have only had sex once before. And > > it > > > was forced on me. > > > He is shy and so am I. I dont know how to you > know > > > get there. We both > > > want to, but it is his first time. > > > Another thing, I need to know how I can do this. > I > > > am scared of giving > > > him hep C even tho it is rare to pass it threw > > sex. > > > I love him, but Im > > > not sure what to do. I dont want to cause him > any > > > pain, and I dont > > > want to give him hep C. > > > > > > Please I need advice! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > __________________________________________________ > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 19, 2005 Report Share Posted December 19, 2005 Dylan, Thank you very much for caring. Yes it is hard dealing with that. Its hard for me to get close to someone, and I tense up when my boyfriends touches me, even if its a casual touch. Its nothing agaisnt him, its just i guess im afraid of getting hurt. --- Rath wrote: > I hope the person asking for advice feels that they > got the support that they needed. Did you? I know > you > are out there and if you are still feeling the need > to > get advice or have someone care let us know- being > sexually abused is difficult and many of us have > gone > through it- including myself- so I can feel your > pain > when it comes to the fear of sex and what it may > mean > if it isn't forced etc.- I hope you are okay out > there > and if you want to talk about it still-in a serious > way let me know :-) dylan > > --- g wrote: > > > LOL I dont think I could eat a carrot or cucumber > > after doing that lol I think I would laugh > everytime > > I > > took a bite. > > > > --- Frederick King wrote: > > > > > A salad afterward would be a good idea. > > > > > > Jackie on wrote: > > lol,, > > > janet ,, you crack me up girl!!! > > > > > > janet wrote: *blushes* > > > Maybe start off with carrots? so as not to > > > intimidate the young man?? Hee Hee > > > cause I have seen some rather large > cucumbers!! > > > Oh my I am bad. > > > > > > Love > > > Janet > > > Afterwards make a tasty salad!! > > > > > > > > > Jackie on wrote: > > > Sally, THATS a great idea!!! > > > > > > Sally Hines wrote: And > you > > > can always have a " condom date " where you both > > > practice putting the > > > condoms on cucumbers or zucchini. It can help > > break > > > the ice and give you > > > both a bit more skill in your own handling of > the > > > matter " at hand " . > > > > > > Sally <just a thought> > > > > > > > > > Re: Need personal > > > advice > > > > > > > > > Using condoms may make you feel less scared and > it > > > is > > > really great that you have been open with him. > > > Protect > > > yourself as well b/c you can get things as well > > and > > > this can make having hep c worse- so condoms > > aren't > > > just for him they are for you! The first time is > > > always awkward but only you can know if you are > > > ready > > > so that is something you really have to ask > > > yourself. > > > it's great that you are so open and honest and > > this > > > will help you in having a healthy, open and > honest > > > relationship. good for > > > you- dylan :-) > > > > > > --- darker_goddess > > wrote: > > > > > > > Ok I really need advice. I have been dating my > > > > boyfriend (Dated him > > > > before on and off) Anyways we have been > together > > 8 > > > > months. And we are > > > > ready to have sex. I have showed him alot of > > > > information about Hep C > > > > and if we use protection we will be ok. > > > > The things, I have only had sex once before. > And > > > it > > > > was forced on me. > > > > He is shy and so am I. I dont know how to you > > know > > > > get there. We both > > > > want to, but it is his first time. > > > > Another thing, I need to know how I can do > this. > > I > > > > am scared of giving > > > > him hep C even tho it is rare to pass it threw > > > sex. > > > > I love him, but Im > > > > not sure what to do. I dont want to cause him > > any > > > > pain, and I dont > > > > want to give him hep C. > > > > > > > > Please I need advice! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > __________________________________________________ > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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