Re: Fears melt away

[Guest guest]

I used to be fearful of failing, now I'm fearful of success, I used to like

being around new people, now I don't trust them not to run from me. This just

started happening about 13 years ago. I used to be more out going than I am,

now. I discovered that I liked Men that year, I had just turned 40 at the time.

Now I don't know what to feel about these stramge creatures, & I MEAN STRANGE, I

have to be careful what I say though in here I never know who is spying on me in

these groups. I don't need any awful emails sent, because I expressed my

feelings about a person, which is why I can't ask for very much help with my

life situations.. I go outside of yahoo for help, now. I don't really like the

way I'm doing it, but I don't have any choice. I am even fearful to post very

much on the other sites, but I have to get it out some way.

> Fears melt away

> Most of the things you fear will quickly start to melt away as soon as you

> turn and face them. Move toward your fears and you'll be amazed to see that

> they grow smaller with each determined step you take.

> If you run from your fears, you only give more power to them. If you hide

> from your fears, you make them even stronger. It is only by facing those

> fears that you will finally be rid of them. Learn what your fears have to

> teach you, and they will no longer be able to control you or to hold you

> back.

> What is it that you fear the most? Admit it to yourself, then turn and face

> that fear.

> Facing your fears is never easy. Yet it is very much worth the effort. The

> fears you face will vanish as a result. And the strength you gain will be

> with you always.

> -- Ralph Marston

[Guest guest]

Kathleen,

It's just as Ralph Marston states,

If you run from your fears, you only give more power to them. If you hide

> from your fears, you make them even stronger. It is only by facing those

> fears that you will finally be rid of them.

I have found this to be so true. I know its hard, it all is but if you

follow this and really work on it, your life will be much better. Don't let

it control YOU. YOU control it. Hugs...Nola

-- Re: Fears melt away

I used to be fearful of failing, now I'm fearful of success, I used to like

being around new people, now I don't trust them not to run from me. This

just started happening about 13 years ago. I used to be more out going than

I am, now. I discovered that I liked Men that year, I had just turned 40 at

the time. Now I don't know what to feel about these stramge creatures, & I

MEAN STRANGE, I have to be careful what I say though in here I never know

who is spying on me in these groups. I don't need any awful emails sent,

because I expressed my feelings about a person, which is why I can't ask for

very much help with my life situations.. I go outside of yahoo for help,

now. I don't really like the way I'm doing it, but I don't have any choice.

I am even fearful to post very much on the other sites, but I have to get

it out some way.

> Fears melt away

> Most of the things you fear will quickly start to melt away as soon as you

> turn and face them. Move toward your fears and you'll be amazed to see

that

> they grow smaller with each determined step you take.

> If you run from your fears, you only give more power to them. If you hide

> from your fears, you make them even stronger. It is only by facing those

> fears that you will finally be rid of them. Learn what your fears have to

> teach you, and they will no longer be able to control you or to hold you

> back.

> What is it that you fear the most? Admit it to yourself, then turn and

face

> that fear.

> Facing your fears is never easy. Yet it is very much worth the effort. The

> fears you face will vanish as a result. And the strength you gain will be

> with you always.

> -- Ralph Marston