Guest guest Posted June 29, 2003 Report Share Posted June 29, 2003 ine, I used to feel like that sometimes too. Well, I really had no family to speak of so I guess I can't say too much about that but I had aunts and uncles that lived way out. They would have a family reunion and call me the next day to tell me how wonderful it turned out. They are the ones missing out, that's how I figured it. The world isn't all that bad, now come on... people care, it's just not as slow of a life as it was back in the 40s and 50s you know? People are rushing to and from work, trying to get two days pushed into one and if you don't let yourself be heard, sometimes you are not. I have always found that you get more bees with honey then vinegar, least that's what I have been taught. I think if your more of a positive person with positive thoughts you will get further that way. Everyone has problems however many DO want to help but they don't know how or don't have the resources too. Now as far as the churches, well do you belong to a church? I don't and I know they won't help you, not up here anyways, if you are not a member. But I think it all goes back to the ole glass half full and half empty saying. Don't you think its all in how you look at things? It certainly makes a big difference in my life. I would be way too depressed if I always looked at things as the glass is half empty. How about you?? Hugs...Nola Oh and as far as that suicide petition, well I have never heard of such a thing. I would steer clear of that one for sure. Who knows what your putting your name down on. -- Petition-suicide Just to review-there is a petition going around to stop groups who talk suicide and help with questions on how to do it. When I first came up upon this subject I ran across a petition that was trying to stop groups from explaining how to kill themselves or encouraging it. But then I started to investigate the groups. I have come across about 4 and getting emails to see what is going on. I realized the other side of the deal. First there is freedom of speech. There are movies, music that are alot worse and they aren t stopped because of freedom of speech. Then I started to read the emails then I read an email of a women that really touched me and I will share it Why don't those upset live an exemplatory life and reach out and truly help those that ask for it (like a JOB, childcare, education, fostering children, etc....). Go to the egroups and listen. Make contact, send a card, help financially. These people on the egroups often just want to talk, express their pain, their fantasies. If you tallk to your therapist or other groups they panic. I've seen them talk people out of taking pills. I felt like takeing my pills last week and didn't because I asked if it would work and and they told me know and why. This world is a very-into me world. People are alone-even churches don't care. If you are sick or too depressed to leave house no one will come to you. My family doesn't care. They make me feel like a pain. Thanks for listening. ine Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 29, 2003 Report Share Posted June 29, 2003 ine, I used to feel like that sometimes too. Well, I really had no family to speak of so I guess I can't say too much about that but I had aunts and uncles that lived way out. They would have a family reunion and call me the next day to tell me how wonderful it turned out. They are the ones missing out, that's how I figured it. The world isn't all that bad, now come on... people care, it's just not as slow of a life as it was back in the 40s and 50s you know? People are rushing to and from work, trying to get two days pushed into one and if you don't let yourself be heard, sometimes you are not. I have always found that you get more bees with honey then vinegar, least that's what I have been taught. I think if your more of a positive person with positive thoughts you will get further that way. Everyone has problems however many DO want to help but they don't know how or don't have the resources too. Now as far as the churches, well do you belong to a church? I don't and I know they won't help you, not up here anyways, if you are not a member. But I think it all goes back to the ole glass half full and half empty saying. Don't you think its all in how you look at things? It certainly makes a big difference in my life. I would be way too depressed if I always looked at things as the glass is half empty. How about you?? Hugs...Nola Oh and as far as that suicide petition, well I have never heard of such a thing. I would steer clear of that one for sure. Who knows what your putting your name down on. -- Petition-suicide Just to review-there is a petition going around to stop groups who talk suicide and help with questions on how to do it. When I first came up upon this subject I ran across a petition that was trying to stop groups from explaining how to kill themselves or encouraging it. But then I started to investigate the groups. I have come across about 4 and getting emails to see what is going on. I realized the other side of the deal. First there is freedom of speech. There are movies, music that are alot worse and they aren t stopped because of freedom of speech. Then I started to read the emails then I read an email of a women that really touched me and I will share it Why don't those upset live an exemplatory life and reach out and truly help those that ask for it (like a JOB, childcare, education, fostering children, etc....). Go to the egroups and listen. Make contact, send a card, help financially. These people on the egroups often just want to talk, express their pain, their fantasies. If you tallk to your therapist or other groups they panic. I've seen them talk people out of taking pills. I felt like takeing my pills last week and didn't because I asked if it would work and and they told me know and why. This world is a very-into me world. People are alone-even churches don't care. If you are sick or too depressed to leave house no one will come to you. My family doesn't care. They make me feel like a pain. Thanks for listening. ine Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 29, 2003 Report Share Posted June 29, 2003 ine, I used to feel like that sometimes too. Well, I really had no family to speak of so I guess I can't say too much about that but I had aunts and uncles that lived way out. They would have a family reunion and call me the next day to tell me how wonderful it turned out. They are the ones missing out, that's how I figured it. The world isn't all that bad, now come on... people care, it's just not as slow of a life as it was back in the 40s and 50s you know? People are rushing to and from work, trying to get two days pushed into one and if you don't let yourself be heard, sometimes you are not. I have always found that you get more bees with honey then vinegar, least that's what I have been taught. I think if your more of a positive person with positive thoughts you will get further that way. Everyone has problems however many DO want to help but they don't know how or don't have the resources too. Now as far as the churches, well do you belong to a church? I don't and I know they won't help you, not up here anyways, if you are not a member. But I think it all goes back to the ole glass half full and half empty saying. Don't you think its all in how you look at things? It certainly makes a big difference in my life. I would be way too depressed if I always looked at things as the glass is half empty. How about you?? Hugs...Nola Oh and as far as that suicide petition, well I have never heard of such a thing. I would steer clear of that one for sure. Who knows what your putting your name down on. -- Petition-suicide Just to review-there is a petition going around to stop groups who talk suicide and help with questions on how to do it. When I first came up upon this subject I ran across a petition that was trying to stop groups from explaining how to kill themselves or encouraging it. But then I started to investigate the groups. I have come across about 4 and getting emails to see what is going on. I realized the other side of the deal. First there is freedom of speech. There are movies, music that are alot worse and they aren t stopped because of freedom of speech. Then I started to read the emails then I read an email of a women that really touched me and I will share it Why don't those upset live an exemplatory life and reach out and truly help those that ask for it (like a JOB, childcare, education, fostering children, etc....). Go to the egroups and listen. Make contact, send a card, help financially. These people on the egroups often just want to talk, express their pain, their fantasies. If you tallk to your therapist or other groups they panic. I've seen them talk people out of taking pills. I felt like takeing my pills last week and didn't because I asked if it would work and and they told me know and why. This world is a very-into me world. People are alone-even churches don't care. If you are sick or too depressed to leave house no one will come to you. My family doesn't care. They make me feel like a pain. Thanks for listening. ine Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 30, 2003 Report Share Posted June 30, 2003 Thanks but in the next life we would never know any different. Actually I don't know what I believe. I think you die and that is it. ine Dale wrote:Dear ine, Yes, I too have discussed the topic of suicide with many people, some medically trained and teaching university courses and others being just regular folk. Opinions run the gamut, as you can appreciate, but one comment that really stuck in my mind and has had a bearing on my current thought processes when I feel really beaten by life (yes, it happens--hate to admit it)...anyhow this comment was from someone I really respected and not religious in the traditional sense of the word: " What happens if the struggle you are having continues on the 'other side'? What makes you think you can escape existing through a physical death? How will you feel on the other side. You might wish you were still here to make some changes while you can. " It left me with enough questions to accept that life is some kind of learning/loving process. As one other member posted, " Learn to love in spite of all. " Have you ever read any of Kubler Ross' writings; eg, " Death and Dying " , etc.? Well, she is now a quadriplegic and still believes one is mandated to live out one's life in order to grow and progress spiritually. I truly hope you find enough love and acceptance to keep your light burning. You can be a tremendous support to others going through the same tunnel and you do have lots of light and love to share. It is probably too late for you to read this tonight. I hope you have a good day tomorrow. {{{Hugs}}} Dale > Just to review-there is a petition going around to stop groups who talk suicide and help with questions on how to do it. When I first came up upon this subject I ran across a petition that was trying to stop groups from explaining how to kill themselves or encouraging it. But then I started to investigate the groups. I have come across about 4 and getting emails to see what is going on. I realized the other side of the deal. First there is freedom of speech. There are movies, music that are alot worse and they aren't stopped because of freedom of speech. Then I started to read the emails.then I read an email of a women that really touched me and I will share it.Why don't those upset live an > exemplatory life and reach out and truly help those that ask for it > (like a JOB, childcare, education, fostering children, etc....). Go to the egroups and listen. Make contact, send a card, help financially. These people on the egroups often just want to talk, express their pain, their fantasies. If you tallk to your therapist or other groups they panic. I've seen them talk people out of taking pills. I felt like takeing my pills last week and didn't because I asked if it would work and and they told me know and why. This world is a very-into me world. People are alone-even churches don't care. If you are sick or too depressed to leave house no one will come to you. My family doesn't care. They make me feel like a pain. Thanks for listening. ine > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 30, 2003 Report Share Posted June 30, 2003 Thanks but in the next life we would never know any different. Actually I don't know what I believe. I think you die and that is it. ine Dale wrote:Dear ine, Yes, I too have discussed the topic of suicide with many people, some medically trained and teaching university courses and others being just regular folk. Opinions run the gamut, as you can appreciate, but one comment that really stuck in my mind and has had a bearing on my current thought processes when I feel really beaten by life (yes, it happens--hate to admit it)...anyhow this comment was from someone I really respected and not religious in the traditional sense of the word: " What happens if the struggle you are having continues on the 'other side'? What makes you think you can escape existing through a physical death? How will you feel on the other side. You might wish you were still here to make some changes while you can. " It left me with enough questions to accept that life is some kind of learning/loving process. As one other member posted, " Learn to love in spite of all. " Have you ever read any of Kubler Ross' writings; eg, " Death and Dying " , etc.? Well, she is now a quadriplegic and still believes one is mandated to live out one's life in order to grow and progress spiritually. I truly hope you find enough love and acceptance to keep your light burning. You can be a tremendous support to others going through the same tunnel and you do have lots of light and love to share. It is probably too late for you to read this tonight. I hope you have a good day tomorrow. {{{Hugs}}} Dale > Just to review-there is a petition going around to stop groups who talk suicide and help with questions on how to do it. When I first came up upon this subject I ran across a petition that was trying to stop groups from explaining how to kill themselves or encouraging it. But then I started to investigate the groups. I have come across about 4 and getting emails to see what is going on. I realized the other side of the deal. First there is freedom of speech. There are movies, music that are alot worse and they aren't stopped because of freedom of speech. Then I started to read the emails.then I read an email of a women that really touched me and I will share it.Why don't those upset live an > exemplatory life and reach out and truly help those that ask for it > (like a JOB, childcare, education, fostering children, etc....). Go to the egroups and listen. Make contact, send a card, help financially. These people on the egroups often just want to talk, express their pain, their fantasies. If you tallk to your therapist or other groups they panic. I've seen them talk people out of taking pills. I felt like takeing my pills last week and didn't because I asked if it would work and and they told me know and why. This world is a very-into me world. People are alone-even churches don't care. If you are sick or too depressed to leave house no one will come to you. My family doesn't care. They make me feel like a pain. Thanks for listening. ine > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 30, 2003 Report Share Posted June 30, 2003 ine, I'm an eternal being. It gives me great joy to know that I will always be and that you are one with me ) Susie Thanks but in the next life we would never know any different. Actually I don't know what I believe. I think you die and that is it. ine Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 30, 2003 Report Share Posted June 30, 2003 ine, I'm an eternal being. It gives me great joy to know that I will always be and that you are one with me ) Susie Thanks but in the next life we would never know any different. Actually I don't know what I believe. I think you die and that is it. ine Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 1, 2003 Report Share Posted July 1, 2003 Did you even read my email? I belonged to Jewish synagogues and none would help. I have not been able to belong to any churches because I have been sick for 3 months. I have not gotten out except to walk to the store across the store. I am friendly to all when I leave my building. I am alone. Have no one to rely on but me. Weak, ackey, can't breath. I am seeing a new doctor tomarrow. And yesterday because I carried too much I pulled my back out. So thanks for your response. ine N wrote:ine, I used to feel like that sometimes too. Well, I really had no family to speak of so I guess I can't say too much about that but I had aunts and uncles that lived way out. They would have a family reunion and call me the next day to tell me how wonderful it turned out. They are the ones missing out, that's how I figured it. The world isn't all that bad, now come on... people care, it's just not as slow of a life as it was back in the 40s and 50s you know? People are rushing to and from work, trying to get two days pushed into one and if you don't let yourself be heard, sometimes you are not. I have always found that you get more bees with honey then vinegar, least that's what I have been taught. I think if your more of a positive person with positive thoughts you will get further that way. Everyone has problems however many DO want to help but they don't know how or don't have the resources too. Now as far as the churches, well do you belong to a church? I don't and I know they won't help you, not up here anyways, if you are not a member. But I think it all goes back to the ole glass half full and half empty saying. Don't you think its all in how you look at things? It certainly makes a big difference in my life. I would be way too depressed if I always looked at things as the glass is half empty. How about you?? Hugs...Nola Oh and as far as that suicide petition, well I have never heard of such a thing. I would steer clear of that one for sure. Who knows what your putting your name down on. -- Petition-suicide Just to review-there is a petition going around to stop groups who talk suicide and help with questions on how to do it. When I first came up upon this subject I ran across a petition that was trying to stop groups from explaining how to kill themselves or encouraging it. But then I started to investigate the groups. I have come across about 4 and getting emails to see what is going on. I realized the other side of the deal. First there is freedom of speech. There are movies, music that are alot worse and they aren t stopped because of freedom of speech. Then I started to read the emails then I read an email of a women that really touched me and I will share it Why don't those upset live an exemplatory life and reach out and truly help those that ask for it (like a JOB, childcare, education, fostering children, etc....). Go to the egroups and listen. Make contact, send a card, help financially. These people on the egroups often just want to talk, express their pain, their fantasies. If you tallk to your therapist or other groups they panic. I've seen them talk people out of taking pills. I felt like takeing my pills last week and didn't because I asked if it would work and and they told me know and why. This world is a very-into me world. People are alone-even churches don't care. If you are sick or too depressed to leave house no one will come to you. My family doesn't care. They make me feel like a pain. Thanks for listening. ine Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 1, 2003 Report Share Posted July 1, 2003 Did you even read my email? I belonged to Jewish synagogues and none would help. I have not been able to belong to any churches because I have been sick for 3 months. I have not gotten out except to walk to the store across the store. I am friendly to all when I leave my building. I am alone. Have no one to rely on but me. Weak, ackey, can't breath. I am seeing a new doctor tomarrow. And yesterday because I carried too much I pulled my back out. So thanks for your response. ine N wrote:ine, I used to feel like that sometimes too. Well, I really had no family to speak of so I guess I can't say too much about that but I had aunts and uncles that lived way out. They would have a family reunion and call me the next day to tell me how wonderful it turned out. They are the ones missing out, that's how I figured it. The world isn't all that bad, now come on... people care, it's just not as slow of a life as it was back in the 40s and 50s you know? People are rushing to and from work, trying to get two days pushed into one and if you don't let yourself be heard, sometimes you are not. I have always found that you get more bees with honey then vinegar, least that's what I have been taught. I think if your more of a positive person with positive thoughts you will get further that way. Everyone has problems however many DO want to help but they don't know how or don't have the resources too. Now as far as the churches, well do you belong to a church? I don't and I know they won't help you, not up here anyways, if you are not a member. But I think it all goes back to the ole glass half full and half empty saying. Don't you think its all in how you look at things? It certainly makes a big difference in my life. I would be way too depressed if I always looked at things as the glass is half empty. How about you?? Hugs...Nola Oh and as far as that suicide petition, well I have never heard of such a thing. I would steer clear of that one for sure. Who knows what your putting your name down on. -- Petition-suicide Just to review-there is a petition going around to stop groups who talk suicide and help with questions on how to do it. When I first came up upon this subject I ran across a petition that was trying to stop groups from explaining how to kill themselves or encouraging it. But then I started to investigate the groups. I have come across about 4 and getting emails to see what is going on. I realized the other side of the deal. First there is freedom of speech. There are movies, music that are alot worse and they aren t stopped because of freedom of speech. Then I started to read the emails then I read an email of a women that really touched me and I will share it Why don't those upset live an exemplatory life and reach out and truly help those that ask for it (like a JOB, childcare, education, fostering children, etc....). Go to the egroups and listen. Make contact, send a card, help financially. These people on the egroups often just want to talk, express their pain, their fantasies. If you tallk to your therapist or other groups they panic. I've seen them talk people out of taking pills. I felt like takeing my pills last week and didn't because I asked if it would work and and they told me know and why. This world is a very-into me world. People are alone-even churches don't care. If you are sick or too depressed to leave house no one will come to you. My family doesn't care. They make me feel like a pain. Thanks for listening. ine Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 1, 2003 Report Share Posted July 1, 2003 Did you even read my email? I belonged to Jewish synagogues and none would help. I have not been able to belong to any churches because I have been sick for 3 months. I have not gotten out except to walk to the store across the store. I am friendly to all when I leave my building. I am alone. Have no one to rely on but me. Weak, ackey, can't breath. I am seeing a new doctor tomarrow. And yesterday because I carried too much I pulled my back out. So thanks for your response. ine N wrote:ine, I used to feel like that sometimes too. Well, I really had no family to speak of so I guess I can't say too much about that but I had aunts and uncles that lived way out. They would have a family reunion and call me the next day to tell me how wonderful it turned out. They are the ones missing out, that's how I figured it. The world isn't all that bad, now come on... people care, it's just not as slow of a life as it was back in the 40s and 50s you know? People are rushing to and from work, trying to get two days pushed into one and if you don't let yourself be heard, sometimes you are not. I have always found that you get more bees with honey then vinegar, least that's what I have been taught. I think if your more of a positive person with positive thoughts you will get further that way. Everyone has problems however many DO want to help but they don't know how or don't have the resources too. Now as far as the churches, well do you belong to a church? I don't and I know they won't help you, not up here anyways, if you are not a member. But I think it all goes back to the ole glass half full and half empty saying. Don't you think its all in how you look at things? It certainly makes a big difference in my life. I would be way too depressed if I always looked at things as the glass is half empty. How about you?? Hugs...Nola Oh and as far as that suicide petition, well I have never heard of such a thing. I would steer clear of that one for sure. Who knows what your putting your name down on. -- Petition-suicide Just to review-there is a petition going around to stop groups who talk suicide and help with questions on how to do it. When I first came up upon this subject I ran across a petition that was trying to stop groups from explaining how to kill themselves or encouraging it. But then I started to investigate the groups. I have come across about 4 and getting emails to see what is going on. I realized the other side of the deal. First there is freedom of speech. There are movies, music that are alot worse and they aren t stopped because of freedom of speech. Then I started to read the emails then I read an email of a women that really touched me and I will share it Why don't those upset live an exemplatory life and reach out and truly help those that ask for it (like a JOB, childcare, education, fostering children, etc....). Go to the egroups and listen. Make contact, send a card, help financially. These people on the egroups often just want to talk, express their pain, their fantasies. If you tallk to your therapist or other groups they panic. I've seen them talk people out of taking pills. I felt like takeing my pills last week and didn't because I asked if it would work and and they told me know and why. This world is a very-into me world. People are alone-even churches don't care. If you are sick or too depressed to leave house no one will come to you. My family doesn't care. They make me feel like a pain. Thanks for listening. ine Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 1, 2003 Report Share Posted July 1, 2003 ine, I am happy to hear that you are going to a new doctor tomorrow, I really hope he can help you out of this illness you are continually having. Maybe they need to run more tests and dig deeper. I am sympathetic with you, however do you utilize all your resources that are available to you? Go online and do some searches for the county you live in and find the help you need besides a doctor too. They have many places you can utilize if you need help. I have exhausted all mine within the last year, however if you are that bad off, use these places to get you some help girl. I know about the churches and all that stuff. If you remember, I was just there myself. I know you have been ill for a long time, well as long as I have been here and its hard to help someone over the internet but we try. So yes, I did read your e-mail and I apologize if I didn't answer your question properly however I was also trying to cheer you up and at least let you know that you are not alone. If I offended you doing so , I am truly sorry. Nola -- Re: Petition-suicide Did you even read my email? I belonged to Jewish synagogues and none would help. I have not been able to belong to any churches because I have been sick for 3 months. I have not gotten out except to walk to the store across the store. I am friendly to all when I leave my building. I am alone. Have no one to rely on but me. Weak, ackey, can't breath. I am seeing a new doctor tomarrow. And yesterday because I carried too much I pulled my back out. So thanks for your response. ine Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 1, 2003 Report Share Posted July 1, 2003 ine, I am happy to hear that you are going to a new doctor tomorrow, I really hope he can help you out of this illness you are continually having. Maybe they need to run more tests and dig deeper. I am sympathetic with you, however do you utilize all your resources that are available to you? Go online and do some searches for the county you live in and find the help you need besides a doctor too. They have many places you can utilize if you need help. I have exhausted all mine within the last year, however if you are that bad off, use these places to get you some help girl. I know about the churches and all that stuff. If you remember, I was just there myself. I know you have been ill for a long time, well as long as I have been here and its hard to help someone over the internet but we try. So yes, I did read your e-mail and I apologize if I didn't answer your question properly however I was also trying to cheer you up and at least let you know that you are not alone. If I offended you doing so , I am truly sorry. Nola -- Re: Petition-suicide Did you even read my email? I belonged to Jewish synagogues and none would help. I have not been able to belong to any churches because I have been sick for 3 months. I have not gotten out except to walk to the store across the store. I am friendly to all when I leave my building. I am alone. Have no one to rely on but me. Weak, ackey, can't breath. I am seeing a new doctor tomarrow. And yesterday because I carried too much I pulled my back out. So thanks for your response. ine Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 1, 2003 Report Share Posted July 1, 2003 ine, I am happy to hear that you are going to a new doctor tomorrow, I really hope he can help you out of this illness you are continually having. Maybe they need to run more tests and dig deeper. I am sympathetic with you, however do you utilize all your resources that are available to you? Go online and do some searches for the county you live in and find the help you need besides a doctor too. They have many places you can utilize if you need help. I have exhausted all mine within the last year, however if you are that bad off, use these places to get you some help girl. I know about the churches and all that stuff. If you remember, I was just there myself. I know you have been ill for a long time, well as long as I have been here and its hard to help someone over the internet but we try. So yes, I did read your e-mail and I apologize if I didn't answer your question properly however I was also trying to cheer you up and at least let you know that you are not alone. If I offended you doing so , I am truly sorry. Nola -- Re: Petition-suicide Did you even read my email? I belonged to Jewish synagogues and none would help. I have not been able to belong to any churches because I have been sick for 3 months. I have not gotten out except to walk to the store across the store. I am friendly to all when I leave my building. I am alone. Have no one to rely on but me. Weak, ackey, can't breath. I am seeing a new doctor tomarrow. And yesterday because I carried too much I pulled my back out. So thanks for your response. ine Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 2, 2003 Report Share Posted July 2, 2003 I am going to the library tomarrow to get Louise Hay-Healing. The doctor is trying allergy pills. But he thinks I either have tuberculosis or a problem with my heart. I have several tests ahead but both have both symptoms. After I left the doctor I had a good cry. Feel afraid and alone. Am trying to go to the group for affirmations but some of them make me feel worse. Like I should be in a better position than I am and them I feel less of a person. This has been the worse day I have had. Sometimes I wonder why do we as a society push ourselves to keep achieving and achieving. Money, Money, Money. I think all this causes more dissatisfaction in the world. Sometimes, life doesn't allow it. Sometimes mental illness doesn't allow it. I don't understand the world and it's expectations. Why are so many people unhappy. Years ago we didn't expect so much and were just greatful for what we had because everyone was in the same place. Now everyone wants more, more, more..........Where does it stop? ine N wrote: ine, I am happy to hear that you are going to a new doctor tomorrow, I really hope he can help you out of this illness you are continually having. Maybe they need to run more tests and dig deeper. I am sympathetic with you, however do you utilize all your resources that are available to you? Go online and do some searches for the county you live in and find the help you need besides a doctor too. They have many places you can utilize if you need help. I have exhausted all mine within the last year, however if you are that bad off, use these places to get you some help girl. I know about the churches and all that stuff. If you remember, I was just there myself. I know you have been ill for a long time, well as long as I have been here and its hard to help someone over the internet but we try. So yes, I did read your e-mail and I apologize if I didn't answer your question properly however I was also trying to cheer you up and at least let you know that you are not alone. If I offended you doing so , I am truly sorry. Nola -- Re: Petition-suicide Did you even read my email? I belonged to Jewish synagogues and none would help. I have not been able to belong to any churches because I have been sick for 3 months. I have not gotten out except to walk to the store across the store. I am friendly to all when I leave my building. I am alone. Have no one to rely on but me. Weak, ackey, can't breath. I am seeing a new doctor tomarrow. And yesterday because I carried too much I pulled my back out. So thanks for your response. ine Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 2, 2003 Report Share Posted July 2, 2003 I am going to the library tomarrow to get Louise Hay-Healing. The doctor is trying allergy pills. But he thinks I either have tuberculosis or a problem with my heart. I have several tests ahead but both have both symptoms. After I left the doctor I had a good cry. Feel afraid and alone. Am trying to go to the group for affirmations but some of them make me feel worse. Like I should be in a better position than I am and them I feel less of a person. This has been the worse day I have had. Sometimes I wonder why do we as a society push ourselves to keep achieving and achieving. Money, Money, Money. I think all this causes more dissatisfaction in the world. Sometimes, life doesn't allow it. Sometimes mental illness doesn't allow it. I don't understand the world and it's expectations. Why are so many people unhappy. Years ago we didn't expect so much and were just greatful for what we had because everyone was in the same place. Now everyone wants more, more, more..........Where does it stop? ine N wrote: ine, I am happy to hear that you are going to a new doctor tomorrow, I really hope he can help you out of this illness you are continually having. Maybe they need to run more tests and dig deeper. I am sympathetic with you, however do you utilize all your resources that are available to you? Go online and do some searches for the county you live in and find the help you need besides a doctor too. They have many places you can utilize if you need help. I have exhausted all mine within the last year, however if you are that bad off, use these places to get you some help girl. I know about the churches and all that stuff. If you remember, I was just there myself. I know you have been ill for a long time, well as long as I have been here and its hard to help someone over the internet but we try. So yes, I did read your e-mail and I apologize if I didn't answer your question properly however I was also trying to cheer you up and at least let you know that you are not alone. If I offended you doing so , I am truly sorry. Nola -- Re: Petition-suicide Did you even read my email? I belonged to Jewish synagogues and none would help. I have not been able to belong to any churches because I have been sick for 3 months. I have not gotten out except to walk to the store across the store. I am friendly to all when I leave my building. I am alone. Have no one to rely on but me. Weak, ackey, can't breath. I am seeing a new doctor tomarrow. And yesterday because I carried too much I pulled my back out. So thanks for your response. ine Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 2, 2003 Report Share Posted July 2, 2003 ine, I am so sorry to hear about your illness. I will surely have you in my thoughts and hopefully it will turn out to be something of a lesser illness. I really think that happiness is an individual thing. If you are happy with yourself and your life, then I see no reason to push yourself at all. However, if you are unhappy, wouldn't you rather work on it maybe a little bit harder to achieve your dreams. Even if you are satisfied with small goals and dreams you should still try your hardest to make it happen so you can live a happy and more prosperous lifestyle. You don't have to please anyone else ine, just you. YOU are the most important person in your life and if you are unhappy with things, attempt to make some changes that will help you feel more free inside. If you read something on the group or any place for that matter that makes you feel sad, ask yourself why? Is it maybe a self-esteem issue? or some other issue that causes you to feel like this? I think if you look at it maybe in a different way, you may just find the happiness you are looking for without having to work so hard at it. It could be possible your looking in the wrong areas and only you will be able to certify that. I sometimes take a look from the opposite side of me. I try to put myself in the other persons shoes to see what they actually see. If there is something I don't much care for, I change it. However, I only do it to make myself happy, no one else. Never let someone else's expectations get in your path. You matter and you must be happy with yourself. If you love yourself and your happy with your life, anything that you read or that someone says should bounce off of you because everything is ok in your world. Work on your health and get yourself better. Many good things are ahead for you and you need to get your health back. I know that lonely or alone feeling only too well. Feels like the world is on your shoulders and sometimes as if no one loves you. But if you take a real good look at it all, there is someone out there that really loves you and you mean the world to them. Remember to always love yourself first and change what ine wants to change, not what you think everyone else wants. I will be thinking about you......take care of yourself and stay strong, it s a hard time for everyone, so we're all in the same boat just using a different paddles LOL Lots of Hugs ((((((HUGS)))))) Nola Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 2, 2003 Report Share Posted July 2, 2003 ine, I am so sorry to hear about your illness. I will surely have you in my thoughts and hopefully it will turn out to be something of a lesser illness. I really think that happiness is an individual thing. If you are happy with yourself and your life, then I see no reason to push yourself at all. However, if you are unhappy, wouldn't you rather work on it maybe a little bit harder to achieve your dreams. Even if you are satisfied with small goals and dreams you should still try your hardest to make it happen so you can live a happy and more prosperous lifestyle. You don't have to please anyone else ine, just you. YOU are the most important person in your life and if you are unhappy with things, attempt to make some changes that will help you feel more free inside. If you read something on the group or any place for that matter that makes you feel sad, ask yourself why? Is it maybe a self-esteem issue? or some other issue that causes you to feel like this? I think if you look at it maybe in a different way, you may just find the happiness you are looking for without having to work so hard at it. It could be possible your looking in the wrong areas and only you will be able to certify that. I sometimes take a look from the opposite side of me. I try to put myself in the other persons shoes to see what they actually see. If there is something I don't much care for, I change it. However, I only do it to make myself happy, no one else. Never let someone else's expectations get in your path. You matter and you must be happy with yourself. If you love yourself and your happy with your life, anything that you read or that someone says should bounce off of you because everything is ok in your world. Work on your health and get yourself better. Many good things are ahead for you and you need to get your health back. I know that lonely or alone feeling only too well. Feels like the world is on your shoulders and sometimes as if no one loves you. But if you take a real good look at it all, there is someone out there that really loves you and you mean the world to them. Remember to always love yourself first and change what ine wants to change, not what you think everyone else wants. I will be thinking about you......take care of yourself and stay strong, it s a hard time for everyone, so we're all in the same boat just using a different paddles LOL Lots of Hugs ((((((HUGS)))))) Nola Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 2, 2003 Report Share Posted July 2, 2003 ine, I am so sorry to hear about your illness. I will surely have you in my thoughts and hopefully it will turn out to be something of a lesser illness. I really think that happiness is an individual thing. If you are happy with yourself and your life, then I see no reason to push yourself at all. However, if you are unhappy, wouldn't you rather work on it maybe a little bit harder to achieve your dreams. Even if you are satisfied with small goals and dreams you should still try your hardest to make it happen so you can live a happy and more prosperous lifestyle. You don't have to please anyone else ine, just you. YOU are the most important person in your life and if you are unhappy with things, attempt to make some changes that will help you feel more free inside. If you read something on the group or any place for that matter that makes you feel sad, ask yourself why? Is it maybe a self-esteem issue? or some other issue that causes you to feel like this? I think if you look at it maybe in a different way, you may just find the happiness you are looking for without having to work so hard at it. It could be possible your looking in the wrong areas and only you will be able to certify that. I sometimes take a look from the opposite side of me. I try to put myself in the other persons shoes to see what they actually see. If there is something I don't much care for, I change it. However, I only do it to make myself happy, no one else. Never let someone else's expectations get in your path. You matter and you must be happy with yourself. If you love yourself and your happy with your life, anything that you read or that someone says should bounce off of you because everything is ok in your world. Work on your health and get yourself better. Many good things are ahead for you and you need to get your health back. I know that lonely or alone feeling only too well. Feels like the world is on your shoulders and sometimes as if no one loves you. But if you take a real good look at it all, there is someone out there that really loves you and you mean the world to them. Remember to always love yourself first and change what ine wants to change, not what you think everyone else wants. I will be thinking about you......take care of yourself and stay strong, it s a hard time for everyone, so we're all in the same boat just using a different paddles LOL Lots of Hugs ((((((HUGS)))))) Nola Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 2, 2003 Report Share Posted July 2, 2003 Thanks, I will read and read your email. ine N wrote:ine, I am so sorry to hear about your illness. I will surely have you in my thoughts and hopefully it will turn out to be something of a lesser illness. I really think that happiness is an individual thing. If you are happy with yourself and your life, then I see no reason to push yourself at all. However, if you are unhappy, wouldn't you rather work on it maybe a little bit harder to achieve your dreams. Even if you are satisfied with small goals and dreams you should still try your hardest to make it happen so you can live a happy and more prosperous lifestyle. You don't have to please anyone else ine, just you. YOU are the most important person in your life and if you are unhappy with things, attempt to make some changes that will help you feel more free inside. If you read something on the group or any place for that matter that makes you feel sad, ask yourself why? Is it maybe a self-esteem issue? or some other issue that causes you to feel like this? I think if you look at it maybe in a different way, you may just find the happiness you are looking for without having to work so hard at it. It could be possible your looking in the wrong areas and only you will be able to certify that. I sometimes take a look from the opposite side of me. I try to put myself in the other persons shoes to see what they actually see. If there is something I don't much care for, I change it. However, I only do it to make myself happy, no one else. Never let someone else's expectations get in your path. You matter and you must be happy with yourself. If you love yourself and your happy with your life, anything that you read or that someone says should bounce off of you because everything is ok in your world. Work on your health and get yourself better. Many good things are ahead for you and you need to get your health back. I know that lonely or alone feeling only too well. Feels like the world is on your shoulders and sometimes as if no one loves you. But if you take a real good look at it all, there is someone out there that really loves you and you mean the world to them. Remember to always love yourself first and change what ine wants to change, not what you think everyone else wants. I will be thinking about you......take care of yourself and stay strong, it s a hard time for everyone, so we're all in the same boat just using a different paddles LOL Lots of Hugs ((((((HUGS)))))) Nola Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 4, 2003 Report Share Posted July 4, 2003 ine, I'm sorry to be long in getting back to you. But, I very much understand what you are saying!! My husband and I think that Americans work too hard and are pushed too much by their employers, by our government, etc. In fact, many times the reason I work is to pay all of the taxes on my husband's salary, and the taxes on the house & property, etc. Now that doesn't seem right. I for one, wish all companies and all Americans would go to a four day work week, maybe 9 or 10 hours a day (if necessary). But, give all of us a 3 day weekend -- one day to play, one day to do chores around the house, and one day for the Lord (or your higher power). I very much agree with you that things seemed much more simplified in years past. Things are complicated now, and are driven by money and greed much of the time. So many companies are now down-sizing and trying to get half of the employees to do twice as much work!! I'm not sure that I have any answers, but I believe that if we don't unite as a country -- all of us -- and demand some of these changes, then things will continue to go as they are. ine, you have my sympathy, and I care. I also know that you are afraid about your health. That is understandable. Just keep hanging in there, and know that you have many people here who care about you, who pray for you regularly, and who are sending you healing thoughts. It will be okay. Love, PJ ine Tague wrote: I am going to the library tomarrow to get Louise Hay-Healing. The doctor is trying allergy pills. But he thinks I either have tuberculosis or a problem with my heart. I have several tests ahead but both have both symptoms. After I left the doctor I had a good cry. Feel afraid and alone. Am trying to go to the group for affirmations but some of them make me feel worse. Like I should be in a better position than I am and them I feel less of a person. This has been the worse day I have had. Sometimes I wonder why do we as a society push ourselves to keep achieving and achieving. Money, Money, Money. I think all this causes more dissatisfaction in the world. Sometimes, life doesn't allow it. Sometimes mental illness doesn't allow it. I don't understand the world and it's expectations. Why are so many people unhappy. Years ago we didn't expect so much and were just greatful for what we had because everyone was in the same place. Now everyone wants more, more, more..........Where does it stop? ine N wrote: ine, I am happy to hear that you are going to a new doctor tomorrow, I really hope he can help you out of this illness you are continually having. Maybe they need to run more tests and dig deeper. I am sympathetic with you, however do you utilize all your resources that are available to you? Go online and do some searches for the county you live in and find the help you need besides a doctor too. They have many places you can utilize if you need help. I have exhausted all mine within the last year, however if you are that bad off, use these places to get you some help girl. I know about the churches and all that stuff. If you remember, I was just there myself. I know you have been ill for a long time, well as long as I have been here and its hard to help someone over the internet but we try. So yes, I did read your e-mail and I apologize if I didn't answer your question properly however I was also trying to cheer you up and at least let you know that you are not alone. If I offended you doing so , I am truly sorry. Nola -- Re: Petition-suicide Did you even read my email? I belonged to Jewish synagogues and none would help. I have not been able to belong to any churches because I have been sick for 3 months. I have not gotten out except to walk to the store across the store. I am friendly to all when I leave my building. I am alone. Have no one to rely on but me. Weak, ackey, can't breath. I am seeing a new doctor tomarrow. And yesterday because I carried too much I pulled my back out. So thanks for your response. ine Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 4, 2003 Report Share Posted July 4, 2003 ine, I'm sorry to be long in getting back to you. But, I very much understand what you are saying!! My husband and I think that Americans work too hard and are pushed too much by their employers, by our government, etc. In fact, many times the reason I work is to pay all of the taxes on my husband's salary, and the taxes on the house & property, etc. Now that doesn't seem right. I for one, wish all companies and all Americans would go to a four day work week, maybe 9 or 10 hours a day (if necessary). But, give all of us a 3 day weekend -- one day to play, one day to do chores around the house, and one day for the Lord (or your higher power). I very much agree with you that things seemed much more simplified in years past. Things are complicated now, and are driven by money and greed much of the time. So many companies are now down-sizing and trying to get half of the employees to do twice as much work!! I'm not sure that I have any answers, but I believe that if we don't unite as a country -- all of us -- and demand some of these changes, then things will continue to go as they are. ine, you have my sympathy, and I care. I also know that you are afraid about your health. That is understandable. Just keep hanging in there, and know that you have many people here who care about you, who pray for you regularly, and who are sending you healing thoughts. It will be okay. Love, PJ ine Tague wrote: I am going to the library tomarrow to get Louise Hay-Healing. The doctor is trying allergy pills. But he thinks I either have tuberculosis or a problem with my heart. I have several tests ahead but both have both symptoms. After I left the doctor I had a good cry. Feel afraid and alone. Am trying to go to the group for affirmations but some of them make me feel worse. Like I should be in a better position than I am and them I feel less of a person. This has been the worse day I have had. Sometimes I wonder why do we as a society push ourselves to keep achieving and achieving. Money, Money, Money. I think all this causes more dissatisfaction in the world. Sometimes, life doesn't allow it. Sometimes mental illness doesn't allow it. I don't understand the world and it's expectations. Why are so many people unhappy. Years ago we didn't expect so much and were just greatful for what we had because everyone was in the same place. Now everyone wants more, more, more..........Where does it stop? ine N wrote: ine, I am happy to hear that you are going to a new doctor tomorrow, I really hope he can help you out of this illness you are continually having. Maybe they need to run more tests and dig deeper. I am sympathetic with you, however do you utilize all your resources that are available to you? Go online and do some searches for the county you live in and find the help you need besides a doctor too. They have many places you can utilize if you need help. I have exhausted all mine within the last year, however if you are that bad off, use these places to get you some help girl. I know about the churches and all that stuff. If you remember, I was just there myself. I know you have been ill for a long time, well as long as I have been here and its hard to help someone over the internet but we try. So yes, I did read your e-mail and I apologize if I didn't answer your question properly however I was also trying to cheer you up and at least let you know that you are not alone. If I offended you doing so , I am truly sorry. Nola -- Re: Petition-suicide Did you even read my email? I belonged to Jewish synagogues and none would help. I have not been able to belong to any churches because I have been sick for 3 months. I have not gotten out except to walk to the store across the store. I am friendly to all when I leave my building. I am alone. Have no one to rely on but me. Weak, ackey, can't breath. I am seeing a new doctor tomarrow. And yesterday because I carried too much I pulled my back out. So thanks for your response. ine Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 4, 2003 Report Share Posted July 4, 2003 Thanks for your thoughts and prayers. My doctor is checking with tests to see if I may have a heart problem. In reference to your email. I wonder if people who are motivated to make more, more money would just downsize that housing, beautiful new car and not be giving so much to their children and spend more quality time then there wouldn't be such much pressure to work work work. We do an injustice to our children to want so much because the same needs and beginner onces only get handed down to their children. ine PJ wrote:ine, I'm sorry to be long in getting back to you. But, I very much understand what you are saying!! My husband and I think that Americans work too hard and are pushed too much by their employers, by our government, etc. In fact, many times the reason I work is to pay all of the taxes on my husband's salary, and the taxes on the house & property, etc. Now that doesn't seem right. I for one, wish all companies and all Americans would go to a four day work week, maybe 9 or 10 hours a day (if necessary). But, give all of us a 3 day weekend -- one day to play, one day to do chores around the house, and one day for the Lord (or your higher power). I very much agree with you that things seemed much more simplified in years past. Things are complicated now, and are driven by money and greed much of the time. So many companies are now down-sizing and trying to get half of the employees to do twice as much work!! I'm not sure that I have any answers, but I believe that if we don't unite as a country -- all of us -- and demand some of these changes, then things will continue to go as they are. ine, you have my sympathy, and I care. I also know that you are afraid about your health. That is understandable. Just keep hanging in there, and know that you have many people here who care about you, who pray for you regularly, and who are sending you healing thoughts. It will be okay. Love, PJ ine Tague wrote: I am going to the library tomarrow to get Louise Hay-Healing. The doctor is trying allergy pills. But he thinks I either have tuberculosis or a problem with my heart. I have several tests ahead but both have both symptoms. After I left the doctor I had a good cry. Feel afraid and alone. Am trying to go to the group for affirmations but some of them make me feel worse. Like I should be in a better position than I am and them I feel less of a person. This has been the worse day I have had. Sometimes I wonder why do we as a society push ourselves to keep achieving and achieving. Money, Money, Money. I think all this causes more dissatisfaction in the world. Sometimes, life doesn't allow it. Sometimes mental illness doesn't allow it. I don't understand the world and it's expectations. Why are so many people unhappy. Years ago we didn't expect so much and were just greatful for what we had because everyone was in the same place. Now everyone wants more, more, more..........Where does it stop? ine N wrote: ine, I am happy to hear that you are going to a new doctor tomorrow, I really hope he can help you out of this illness you are continually having. Maybe they need to run more tests and dig deeper. I am sympathetic with you, however do you utilize all your resources that are available to you? Go online and do some searches for the county you live in and find the help you need besides a doctor too. They have many places you can utilize if you need help. I have exhausted all mine within the last year, however if you are that bad off, use these places to get you some help girl. I know about the churches and all that stuff. If you remember, I was just there myself. I know you have been ill for a long time, well as long as I have been here and its hard to help someone over the internet but we try. So yes, I did read your e-mail and I apologize if I didn't answer your question properly however I was also trying to cheer you up and at least let you know that you are not alone. If I offended you doing so , I am truly sorry. Nola -- Re: Petition-suicide Did you even read my email? I belonged to Jewish synagogues and none would help. I have not been able to belong to any churches because I have been sick for 3 months. I have not gotten out except to walk to the store across the store. I am friendly to all when I leave my building. I am alone. Have no one to rely on but me. Weak, ackey, can't breath. I am seeing a new doctor tomarrow. And yesterday because I carried too much I pulled my back out. So thanks for your response. ine Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 4, 2003 Report Share Posted July 4, 2003 Thanks for your thoughts and prayers. My doctor is checking with tests to see if I may have a heart problem. In reference to your email. I wonder if people who are motivated to make more, more money would just downsize that housing, beautiful new car and not be giving so much to their children and spend more quality time then there wouldn't be such much pressure to work work work. We do an injustice to our children to want so much because the same needs and beginner onces only get handed down to their children. ine PJ wrote:ine, I'm sorry to be long in getting back to you. But, I very much understand what you are saying!! My husband and I think that Americans work too hard and are pushed too much by their employers, by our government, etc. In fact, many times the reason I work is to pay all of the taxes on my husband's salary, and the taxes on the house & property, etc. Now that doesn't seem right. I for one, wish all companies and all Americans would go to a four day work week, maybe 9 or 10 hours a day (if necessary). But, give all of us a 3 day weekend -- one day to play, one day to do chores around the house, and one day for the Lord (or your higher power). I very much agree with you that things seemed much more simplified in years past. Things are complicated now, and are driven by money and greed much of the time. So many companies are now down-sizing and trying to get half of the employees to do twice as much work!! I'm not sure that I have any answers, but I believe that if we don't unite as a country -- all of us -- and demand some of these changes, then things will continue to go as they are. ine, you have my sympathy, and I care. I also know that you are afraid about your health. That is understandable. Just keep hanging in there, and know that you have many people here who care about you, who pray for you regularly, and who are sending you healing thoughts. It will be okay. Love, PJ ine Tague wrote: I am going to the library tomarrow to get Louise Hay-Healing. The doctor is trying allergy pills. But he thinks I either have tuberculosis or a problem with my heart. I have several tests ahead but both have both symptoms. After I left the doctor I had a good cry. Feel afraid and alone. Am trying to go to the group for affirmations but some of them make me feel worse. Like I should be in a better position than I am and them I feel less of a person. This has been the worse day I have had. Sometimes I wonder why do we as a society push ourselves to keep achieving and achieving. Money, Money, Money. I think all this causes more dissatisfaction in the world. Sometimes, life doesn't allow it. Sometimes mental illness doesn't allow it. I don't understand the world and it's expectations. Why are so many people unhappy. Years ago we didn't expect so much and were just greatful for what we had because everyone was in the same place. Now everyone wants more, more, more..........Where does it stop? ine N wrote: ine, I am happy to hear that you are going to a new doctor tomorrow, I really hope he can help you out of this illness you are continually having. Maybe they need to run more tests and dig deeper. I am sympathetic with you, however do you utilize all your resources that are available to you? Go online and do some searches for the county you live in and find the help you need besides a doctor too. They have many places you can utilize if you need help. I have exhausted all mine within the last year, however if you are that bad off, use these places to get you some help girl. I know about the churches and all that stuff. If you remember, I was just there myself. I know you have been ill for a long time, well as long as I have been here and its hard to help someone over the internet but we try. So yes, I did read your e-mail and I apologize if I didn't answer your question properly however I was also trying to cheer you up and at least let you know that you are not alone. If I offended you doing so , I am truly sorry. Nola -- Re: Petition-suicide Did you even read my email? I belonged to Jewish synagogues and none would help. I have not been able to belong to any churches because I have been sick for 3 months. I have not gotten out except to walk to the store across the store. I am friendly to all when I leave my building. I am alone. Have no one to rely on but me. Weak, ackey, can't breath. I am seeing a new doctor tomarrow. And yesterday because I carried too much I pulled my back out. So thanks for your response. ine Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 5, 2003 Report Share Posted July 5, 2003 ine, This is so true, however we as adults have more control then we think. Once you turn into an adult, you cannot blame your parents anymore or anyone else This IS how it is and WE have to change ourselves to make us fit into our society, with healing thoughts and loving minds. We as parents, are only human beings trying to do the opposite of our parents. If we focused on doing more for ourselves and not what the mistakes that our parents have made, we would all be living in a better world. We as parents try our best and then we get blamed for the world not doing the best job. You know what? We were not made to be perfect and neither were our parents, lets look at it as if they loved us or not and if they didn't why? It will usually come up with YOU not being the reason to all of this, it will be the fault of not being made perfect and people learn from their mistakes or if they don't, well then WE as adults must then make our own choices and go from there. Do WE make mistakes? Do WE regret them? See what I mean? The world is what you make of it and then we deal with the rest. I could easily deal with the world if I didn't have so many other things on my mind, right? That's a thought for sure! Lots of hugs...Nola You get better and stop thinking about everyone else, ine matters. We can't change the world girl but we CAN make a difference. -- Re: Petition-suicide Did you even read my email? I belonged to Jewish synagogues and none would help. I have not been able to belong to any churches because I have been sick for 3 months. I have not gotten out except to walk to the store across the store. I am friendly to all when I leave my building. I am alone. Have no one to rely on but me. Weak, ackey, can't breath. I am seeing a new doctor tomarrow. And yesterday because I carried too much I pulled my back out. So thanks for your response. ine Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 5, 2003 Report Share Posted July 5, 2003 ine, This is so true, however we as adults have more control then we think. Once you turn into an adult, you cannot blame your parents anymore or anyone else This IS how it is and WE have to change ourselves to make us fit into our society, with healing thoughts and loving minds. We as parents, are only human beings trying to do the opposite of our parents. If we focused on doing more for ourselves and not what the mistakes that our parents have made, we would all be living in a better world. We as parents try our best and then we get blamed for the world not doing the best job. You know what? We were not made to be perfect and neither were our parents, lets look at it as if they loved us or not and if they didn't why? It will usually come up with YOU not being the reason to all of this, it will be the fault of not being made perfect and people learn from their mistakes or if they don't, well then WE as adults must then make our own choices and go from there. Do WE make mistakes? Do WE regret them? See what I mean? The world is what you make of it and then we deal with the rest. I could easily deal with the world if I didn't have so many other things on my mind, right? That's a thought for sure! Lots of hugs...Nola You get better and stop thinking about everyone else, ine matters. We can't change the world girl but we CAN make a difference. -- Re: Petition-suicide Did you even read my email? I belonged to Jewish synagogues and none would help. I have not been able to belong to any churches because I have been sick for 3 months. I have not gotten out except to walk to the store across the store. I am friendly to all when I leave my building. I am alone. Have no one to rely on but me. Weak, ackey, can't breath. I am seeing a new doctor tomarrow. And yesterday because I carried too much I pulled my back out. So thanks for your response. ine Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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