Aspergers and love

[Guest guest]

(nelly/p diddy0

we do it for fun, we just do it for fun

dirty EAT, we do it for fun

Bad Boy (nelly, diddy, murphy lee)

we do it for fun (this is history baby)

bend then trucks, we do it for fun

stack them bucks, we do it for fun

and the band played on (yea)

just like (i believe u cool 2 this)

we do it for fun

if u see me ma, we do it for fun

(p diddy)

bad boys 2- the soundtrack...lets go

(nelly)

hey girl

what your name is

where u from

turn around

who u came with

is that ur ass or ur momma have a raindeer

i cant explain it but damn sure glad u came here

i'm still a sucker for cornrolls, u know i never changed that

ur body is banging mama, but where ur brains at

i'm still the same cat when i was young i was running with bad boys

but now i'm older i hope they saw im running with bad boys

here come another man

unlike no other man

candy coated woah

switching in every lane

yall help me- why dont ya please help me

a thug is we then its ony two G

i like the cocky bow legged ones

like white and dominicans

hispanics and asians

shake it for nelly son

manolos ma-no-no's i cant tell

everybody and their hoochies

when u do it u do it well

(braves tomahawk chop done in background of chorus)

(nelly)

let me see u take it off

(p diddy)

girl go and take it off

(nelly) we can even do it slow)

(p diddy)

we can even do it slow

(nelly)

take it where u wanna go

(p diddy)

take it where u wanna go

(nelly)

just take that ass to the floor

(p diddy)

pop somethin, move somethin

shake ya tail feather

girl, go and take it low

(nelly)

we can even do it slow

(p diddy)

we can even do it slow

(nelly)

take it where u wanna go

(p diddy)

take it where u wanna go

(nelly)

just take that ass to the floor

(p diddy)

pop somethin, move somethin

shake ya tail feather

(p diddy)

now real girls get down on the floor

get that money honey act like u know

mama i like how u dance

the way u fit in them pants

enter the floor (uh) take it low (uh) girl do it agen

u kno i love that

now where them girls at

its diddy, murphy lee and nelly how u love that (shit uh ohhh)

come on we got another one player

from new york to the dirty how they loving it player

baby u impressive lets get

to know each other

u the best of the best and

u got to luv it in the dress, ur the sexyest

i had to tell her she's a young janet jackson

live in living color

look here moma, ur dead wrong

for havin them pants on

capri's cut low so when u shake it i see ur thong

my pockets full of dough shake ur tail feather till the morning

its bad boy and nelly man somebody better warn them

(braves tomahawk chop done in background of chorus)

(nelly)

let me see u take it off

(p diddy)

girl go and take it off

(nelly) we can even do it slow)

(p diddy)

we can even do it slow

(nelly)

take it where u wanna go

(p diddy)

take it where u wanna go

(nelly)

just take that ass to the floor

(p diddy)

pop somethin, move somethin

shake ya tail feather

girl, go and take it low

(nelly)

we can even do it slow

(p diddy)

we can even do it slow

(nelly)

take it where u wanna go

(p diddy)

take it where u wanna go

(nelly)

just take that ass to the floor

(p diddy)

pop somethin, move somethin

shake ya tail feather

(nelly)

oh no, i hear them bad boys coming

cant stop now, gotta continue my runnin

cuz we go party till them lights come on

an then my song start thumpin because my mic still on

(murphy lee)

Yo, I'm the big booty type

I like them thick with their mind right (Awe)

Banging personality conversate when the time right (Naw)

I'm not hard I've got women to handle that

They be like he the man when I'm really a Thundercat

Come on you know the tics connect like Voltron

Collect so much grass popo thinking we mow lawns

My gohans don't match that

But it matches her head wrap and the seats that I got in the lap

I'm just a juvenile (Wha)

Because I be about G's

Keep your women wizzy man they say they have my babies

I'm young like Tucker like the cash and the money (I'm going to eat

my money)

Man, I'm that damn hungry

See I'm starving like Marvin girl

I've got sixteen bars of fire is what I'm starting

Plus my rats come in packs like Sammy and Dean

And I got so many keys you'd think I was valet parking

(braves tomahawk chop done in background of chorus)

(nelly)

let me see u take it off

(p diddy)

girl go and take it off

(nelly) we can even do it slow)

(p diddy)

we can even do it slow

(nelly)

take it where u wanna go

(p diddy)

take it where u wanna go

(nelly)

just take that ass to the floor

(p diddy)

pop somethin, move somethin

shake ya tail feather

girl, go and take it low

(nelly)

we can even do it slow

(p diddy)

we can even do it slow

(nelly)

take it where u wanna go

(p diddy)

take it where u wanna go

(nelly)

just take that ass to the floor

(p diddy)

pop somethin, move somethin

shake ya tail feather

(nelly)

oh no, i hear them bad boys coming

cant stop now, gotta continue my runnin

cuz we go party till them lights come on

an then my song start thumpin because my mic still on

(outro- Atlanta braves tomahawk chop)

[Guest guest]

WHO would want to love someone that has AS??? Talk about a reason

to commit suicide.

> Adult Partnerships

>

> Due to the past belief that people with Asperger's syndrome

would not have

> the social skills needed to cope with a partner relationship,

their needs

> and those of their partners for support, information and

understanding have

> only recently begun to be addressed.

> It is now a well-established and accepted fact that some people

with

> Asperger's syndrome are able to form adult relationships, marry

and have

> children. Ritvo and his team at UCLA have studied autism

intensively

> since 1963. During the 1980's they identified adults with AS.

Their

> attention was drawn by the spouses who noted that their partners

had

> symptoms similar to their autistic children who the team had

diagnosed and

> were treating. A letter to the editor of the Journal of Autism and

> Developmental Disorders was published in 1988, and the scientific

paper was

> published in medical literature in 1996.

>

> At the end of the autistic spectrum where a person is able to

work and

> make close relationships, Asperger's syndrome is a hidden

disorder. It is

> usually only after a couple start living together that the

symptoms begin to

> be noticeable. For the partner with AS the challenge of trying to

maintain

> an intimate relationship while not understanding why their partner

is angry

> and upset can cause such stress that the symptoms may become worse.

>

> For the partner of a person with AS, their bewilderment at the

puzzling

> behaviour of their spouse can cause deep distress and a breakdown

in their

> health. Inevitably this means that there is a high divorce rate

amongst

> marriages where one partner has AS. Research in Holland suggests

that this

> is as high as 80%, and research recently done in the UK is due to

be

> published next year.

>

> It is obviously essential that to encourage relationships to

continue,

> support to partners is given in the form of advice and guidance on

coping

> strategies, information and understanding of how their spouse is

affected,

> and emotional support from other partners. Many partners live in

fear that

> their spouse's employer will find out and dismiss them. For the

partner

> with AS, there is as yet little help available. For those who

express the

> wish for a formal diagnosis, it is extremely difficult to find

competent

> clinicians who are able to diagnose AS in adults. GPs usually

insist on

> referral first to local services who do not have the necessary

knowledge or

> experience. No way has yet been found of explaining to a person

with AS, in

> a way they can comprehend, why their behaviour causes such hurt

and upset in

> their partner.

>

> There is also a great need for counsellors who have a thorough

> understanding of AS. Many couples have in the past been to Relate

which has

> not helped, but their supervisors have now been issued with

Guidance Notes

> which will hopefully help them to identify if AS symptoms are part

of a

> couple's difficulties.

>

> The National Autistic Society have a leaflet 'Help for Partners

of People

> with Asperger's Syndrome', and their Regional Development Officers

have

> partners' lists, contacts, and now hold meetings for partners.

>

> In response to enquiries to the Helpline, a booklet has recently

been

> published for children who have a parent with AS. Many people

with AS have

> difficulty relating to babies and children and in understanding

their needs.

> A booklet for partners is also being prepared.

>

> Dr Tony Attwood held the first ever workshop for partners in

March 1999 at

> the London head office of the NAS, and it is hoped that another

workshop

> will be arranged for May 2000 when Dr. Attwood next visits the

UK. This

> workshop could be held in the Midlands to enable more partners

from the

> north of England, Scotland and Wales to attend. A transcript of

the March

> workshop is available on the NAS website and also the FAAAS

website. Dr.

> Attwood has suggested that conferences concerning adults with AS

should

> include in the programme relationship issues and help for partners.

[Guest guest]

Maralee...

Do you KNOW anything about AS?? DIDNT THINK SO>>>>

> Thanks, as usual, for all the good info you share, T.K.

> Toodles!

> >^..^<

> Maralee

> RE: Aspergers and love

>

>

> Adult Partnerships

>

> Due to the past belief that people with Asperger's syndrome

would not have the social skills needed to cope with a partner

relationship, their needs and those of their partners for support,

information and understanding have only recently begun to be

addressed.

> It is now a well-established and accepted fact that some

people with Asperger's syndrome are able to form adult

relationships, marry and have children. Ritvo and his team

at UCLA have studied autism intensively since 1963. During the

1980's they identified adults with AS. Their attention was drawn by

the spouses who noted that their partners had symptoms similar to

their autistic children who the team had diagnosed and were

treating. A letter to the editor of the Journal of Autism and

Developmental Disorders was published in 1988, and the scientific

paper was published in medical literature in 1996.

>

> At the end of the autistic spectrum where a person is able to

work and make close relationships, Asperger's syndrome is a hidden

disorder. It is usually only after a couple start living together

that the symptoms begin to be noticeable. For the partner with AS

the challenge of trying to maintain an intimate relationship while

not understanding why their partner is angry and upset can cause

such stress that the symptoms may become worse.

>

> For the partner of a person with AS, their bewilderment at the

puzzling behaviour of their spouse can cause deep distress and a

breakdown in their health. Inevitably this means that there is a

high divorce rate amongst marriages where one partner has AS.

Research in Holland suggests that this is as high as 80%, and

research recently done in the UK is due to be published next year.

>

> It is obviously essential that to encourage relationships to

continue, support to partners is given in the form of advice and

guidance on coping strategies, information and understanding of how

their spouse is affected, and emotional support from other

partners. Many partners live in fear that their spouse's employer

will find out and dismiss them. For the partner with AS, there is

as yet little help available. For those who express the wish for a

formal diagnosis, it is extremely difficult to find competent

clinicians who are able to diagnose AS in adults. GPs usually

insist on referral first to local services who do not have the

necessary knowledge or experience. No way has yet been found of

explaining to a person with AS, in a way they can comprehend, why

their behaviour causes such hurt and upset in their partner.

>

> There is also a great need for counsellors who have a thorough

understanding of AS. Many couples have in the past been to Relate

which has not helped, but their supervisors have now been issued

with Guidance Notes which will hopefully help them to identify if AS

symptoms are part of a couple's difficulties.

>

> The National Autistic Society have a leaflet 'Help for

Partners of People with Asperger's Syndrome', and their Regional

Development Officers have partners' lists, contacts, and now hold

meetings for partners.

>

> In response to enquiries to the Helpline, a booklet has

recently been published for children who have a parent with AS.

Many people with AS have difficulty relating to babies and children

and in understanding their needs. A booklet for partners is also

being prepared.

>

> Dr Tony Attwood held the first ever workshop for partners in

March 1999 at the London head office of the NAS, and it is hoped

that another workshop will be arranged for May 2000 when Dr. Attwood

next visits the UK. This workshop could be held in the Midlands to

enable more partners from the north of England, Scotland and Wales

to attend. A transcript of the March workshop is available on the

NAS website and also the FAAAS website. Dr. Attwood has suggested

that conferences concerning adults with AS should include in the

programme relationship issues and help for partners.

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