Guest guest Posted March 9, 2009 Report Share Posted March 9, 2009 Sondra, Thank you so much. I hope one day my son will be as caring as you are.. It is wonderful that despite all the struggles you have every day you are reaching out and trying to help the parents,grandparents etc.. of autistic children help and understand their children better. It is my dearest hope that with more awareness and education society will learn to accept and embrace these children. Autistic children and adults have so much to offer, if only people will stop and take the time to see it. All you have to do is look into my sons eyes to see there is so much more inside him trying to get out. I know this is asking a lot in todays busy, overloaded world but I can still dream... Thank you, Kellie To: AutismBehaviorProblems Sent: Sunday, March 8, 2009 10:38:13 AMSubject: Re: MEN kellie I to like of you thinking much so and wish had of parents like of you for me when I was of to be a child. but wanted to add that there is of even less tolerance for us as we mature to adults. if we act out or get overloaded or frustrated we are of seen in even more of negative. some come with mind set that as adults with autism we should be to have out grown of it. or that we should know of better than to act like of that. and so even as adults were of still shamed for things related to our disability , if we looked disabled then more grace is of given but when not like most with autism, we are of seen as just bad. sad.... but I to think we are many generations away from any real acceptance level by society. disability has been since the begin of times and we still have maked very little progress over the life time of human kind. sondra adult with autism in the state of Ohio Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 9, 2009 Report Share Posted March 9, 2009 kellie much see us as enpty shells or not capable of having emotion or profound insight to the world around us because we might not have an outlet to communicate it. but trust of me it is of in there. we think on much things silently over and over because we struggle to find a way to communciate it effectively to those around us. much of what we do is presented in odd fashions that is of not readed by others for what it is. it is of assumed we lack emotion and or truths or understanding of the world around us but in true we are of hyper aware but lack how to express it. we also can sense strongly the mindsets of the parents reactions or thoughts in regards to our autistic states and this can impact the outcomes of us greatly. if the energy is of negative we will react negatively out of frustrations, pains, anxiety and fear, and if we are of given positive energy we will respond to it internally too in a positive fashions but in true it may not look like what a typical person would react like but in austistic fashions. this energy is of different than other energies of emotions. below is of an example. sometimes though for self if feeling a positive energy (such as happy)it can cause of me to feel overly consumed by the emotion and will cycle to an overload and not able to self regulate and so the feeling might be to cause of me to feel agitated because the emotion is of rushing and not smoooth anymore so the happy might in a short time come in agitation. some kids with autism can turn of happy into biting or pinching when this happens because not able to regulate of it. so some think they are of angry and they are of not they are of maybe overly happy and cant stop the overwhelming emotional state consuming them. also thanks to post of me back was worried that maybe my presence here was of not welcomed or maybe I was of being offensive in some fashion. I to want to connect here so was of worrying over this. I to felt to self if my words do not connect with a few more attempts that maybe I to not be of wanted here and was of thinking should be to sign off here. I to lacked what the silence to me was of meaning. Maybe people just need of time to see of my words and then they will be of okay like some who are of new to me I to need of time to get to be of familar with their patterns of words too before can begin posting to them. You words of faith caused me to want to connect to you. sondra Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 9, 2009 Report Share Posted March 9, 2009 Sondra, I am sorry if you did not feel welcomed right away. This is a great group of people and it wasn't intentional. I am very glad you are here and appreciate all that you have to offer. You can offer us something that is very hard to come by, a glimpse of a world that we very much want and need to understand better. I don't really mean autistics live in a different "world" but experience the world we all live in so differently. Please continue to post and comment, it is very valuable. Kellie To: AutismBehaviorProblems Sent: Monday, March 9, 2009 5:06:40 PMSubject: Re: RE: Sondra kellie much see us as enpty shells or not capable of having emotion or profound insight to the world around us because we might not have an outlet to communicate it. but trust of me it is of in there. we think on much things silently over and over because we struggle to find a way to communciate it effectively to those around us. much of what we do is presented in odd fashions that is of not readed by others for what it is. it is of assumed we lack emotion and or truths or understanding of the world around us but in true we are of hyper aware but lack how to express it. we also can sense strongly the mindsets of the parents reactions or thoughts in regards to our autistic states and this can impact the outcomes of us greatly. if the energy is of negative we will react negatively out of frustrations, pains, anxiety and fear, and if we are of given positive energy we will respond to it internally too in a positive fashions but in true it may not look like what a typical person would react like but in austistic fashions. this energy is of different than other energies of emotions. below is of an example. sometimes though for self if feeling a positive energy (such as happy)it can cause of me to feel overly consumed by the emotion and will cycle to an overload and not able to self regulate and so the feeling might be to cause of me to feel agitated because the emotion is of rushing and not smoooth anymore so the happy might in a short time come in agitation. some kids with autism can turn of happy into biting or pinching when this happens because not able to regulate of it. so some think they are of angry and they are of not they are of maybe overly happy and cant stop the overwhelming emotional state consuming them. also thanks to post of me back was worried that maybe my presence here was of not welcomed or maybe I was of being offensive in some fashion. I to want to connect here so was of worrying over this. I to felt to self if my words do not connect with a few more attempts that maybe I to not be of wanted here and was of thinking should be to sign off here. I to lacked what the silence to me was of meaning. Maybe people just need of time to see of my words and then they will be of okay like some who are of new to me I to need of time to get to be of familar with their patterns of words too before can begin posting to them. You words of faith caused me to want to connect to you.. sondra Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 10, 2009 Report Share Posted March 10, 2009 kellie thanks , metaphorically though we do live in different worlds and we actually come from a whole other planet that is of why it is of hard for most to understand us and us them because there is a huge barrier and nothing we can really compare it too LOL/ just playing to words here because literally we do exist on the same planet. there is of huge communication barriers and social barriers and much much odd sicknesses that many cannot even begin to understand in us with autism. as for self much much affected by high or toxic levels of yeast, mercury, zinc, selinium. also defiecient in vitamin d many who are of a level of 13 get of rickets and for me I to be of a level 14. that is of what causes of me much much pains. I to get of much sun and day lights to me and do find other sources of calcium and yet still defecient in this. I to suspect other low levels too. I to find if i to eat of nuts that have of niacin and copper i to find self more clear. My son did of much well with pressed coconut oil instead of other things as he tended to become more social with it. I to get of sick easily too. like one infection after another. much so carry fevers, and have always had of much gut issues. I to not seek a cure for self as fear of leaving the mind to great disappoint because not feel there is of a set cure for all with autism, it will be fo like to win the lottery to obtain a cure. but for me do seek fo health, so I to try to do best for my health. not sure of how many know of me here but I to joined of this list because I to have of much so called behaviors and so wanted to come here for to learn as well as to add insight is of why I to joined of here. sondra Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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