what happened tonight

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I just copied and pasted from my email to dr W so I did not have to type this all out again. This is what happened tonight and I am still pretty shaken up and upset by it.

So, this is what happened tonight and I hope I can explain this ok on email. My mom came over tonight for dinner. Her and her dog Taz. Anyhow, I made tacos. Everything was fine. I had to work with on eating and all and it was hard, but we got through it. No aggression then really. Anyhow, I said that I would take him outside after dinner. Well, last night, I took him outside after dinner and he ran for the garage, even though I was saying no, wait for mom. I knew what he wanted to do from last year. He wanted to get in the garage and unlock the side door leading into the garage so he could go in and out of the garage and get out of the back yard by that door. Sure enough, I went in there last night and he did that, so I locked it, he got mad, and I said no door, lets go play. He didnt like it and fussed about it some, but then he came with me in the backyard. I did tell him no door or we go inside. So, tonight, same thing, he is waiting by the door, I said wait for mom, he wanted to open the garage, I let him when I was right there, took his hand and started out with my mom and Taz behind us. All of a sudden, broke free of my hand and went running for the garage with me behind him screaming because he knew he was going to go and open that door and I would not allow it. So I said no door , or we go inside. He unlocked it. I locked it back up, sand inside and inside we started to go. He threw himself down, started screaming, yelling, kicking etc. So, I picked him up and inside we went. Well, that is when he grabbed my face as hard as he could and started squeezing.. I said no and tried grabbing his hands and he got them away from me, and put them in the back of my head, and my hair was in a high ponytail, and he grabbed my hair and pulled so hard, a big chunk of hair came out. Man, that really hurt and still does. I said , we dont pull hair!! He was just screaming, yelling, kicking you name it. I put him down on the couch that he sits on for time out, and he jumps up and runs for the front door and was going to go outside. I said no doors, no outside. And then he started kicking and screaming and saying I going to hit you really bad. So, at this point, I was hurting, I wasnt sure what to do, so I put him in his room. He pounded on the door, threw things at the door and all of that. And this went on till Kathy got here and even when she got here and went in there with him, he was still yelling, crying and even trying to hit her. She was in there with him for about 15 minutes and then she came out and she said she told him to clean up his room. When he quieted down, we went in there and I could not believe that his room was clean. We praised him and he said I go outside and I said no outside. He wanted to come out of his room. I said ok, but what do you say, he said sorry. I sorry I hurt you and he hugged me. That was pretty much it.

This all just really depresses me. It really does. I do what I can do, what I know how to do and this happened and it was bad. I felt bad for emailing you about it, because I know you are busy and all, but I really did not know what to do, who to turn to and all.

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