Guest guest Posted February 9, 2009 Report Share Posted February 9, 2009 Thanks e. I was just so depressed feeling and didnt want to do anything else and then I was not feeling good either, which did not help at all. Thanks for your thughts and prayers and mine are with you also. Stacie Oh, dear Stacie...sweet lady! I too spent a few hours with my head under the covers today, as well as Friday some when My Dad had , and Lily...I'm trying to forgive, to work through stuff that I'm concerned about etc....staying under the covers is a good thing to do now and then. I'm proud of you for giving your body the rest it needs. Sometimes I just need it to re-group, don't often get it, but when I do I use it. I'm praying for you, as my other email states......blessings to you...keep up the good fight for , you never know how God will lead...I will really be praying. hugs, hugs, hugs, and a kiss too dear one. e From: "hawkie6aol" <hawkie6aol>To: AutismBehaviorProblems Sent: Sunday, February 8, 2009 11:10:48 PMSubject: meeting tomorrow .. Who's never won? Biggest Grammy Award surprises of all time on AOL Music. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 9, 2009 Report Share Posted February 9, 2009 Oh, dear Stacie...sweet lady! I too spent a few hours with my head under the covers today, as well as Friday some when My Dad had , and Lily...I'm trying to forgive, to work through stuff that I'm concerned about etc....staying under the covers is a good thing to do now and then. I'm proud of you for giving your body the rest it needs. Sometimes I just need it to re-group, don't often get it, but when I do I use it. I'm praying for you, as my other email states......blessings to you...keep up the good fight for , you never know how God will lead...I will really be praying. hugs, hugs, hugs, and a kiss too dear one. e To: AutismBehaviorProblems Sent: Sunday, February 8, 2009 11:10:48 PMSubject: meeting tomorrow .. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 9, 2009 Report Share Posted February 9, 2009 Let me know if you need any help in gaining the placement that you think is appropriate. Do you have I.E.E.'s , etc. to discuss or other evals ? Let me know how it goes and if you need any help or want input. As always we do not charge parents for Advocacy nationwide. God Bless, E. , Sr. The Office of Autism Advocacy www.officeofautismadvocacy.com - In AutismBehaviorProblems , hawkie6@... wrote: > > > Hello everyone. Well, I know I have not been online hardly at all this > weekend. I really hvae been not feeling that great, both physically and > emotionally. I dont know, but yesterday, I just wanted to lay on the couch all day, > slept alot etc. I really hate feeling like that. > we went to church today and then the kids and i went to meet kathy for > lunch. We had to go ove some things, because tomorrow is the home visit/meeting > with Lotito and Dr Winega. It is about my concerns on s placement > and all that Dr Brouillard talked to her about, and I am feeling anxious about > it. I hope it goes well, but i dont have any hope that I will be able to > get into an Autism school, at least not without a fight. And by that I > mean going to court and all. I dont want it to have to go that round, but I > dont know. > I talked to Miss Jenna on the phone on Fri like we do, and it was a good > conversation, but I cant help to wonder why all of a sudden she is so nice and > all. I just dont know, but I dont believe it with everything we have been > through. I just wish this was all easier and that I could get my son into a > Autism day school, where I truly think he should be. > > Stacie > > **************Who's never won? Biggest Grammy Award surprises of all time on > AOL Music. > (http://music.aol.com/grammys/pictures/never-won-a-grammy?ncid=emlcntusmusi00000\ 003) > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 9, 2009 Report Share Posted February 9, 2009 Stacie, My thoughts and prayers will be with you today. You can do this, you are a strong, kind, dedicated Mom. One thing I have learned is to try and stay in control of the main issue. I just don't agree with them and state my reasons over and over and then when they move onto something else I discuss this for a little while but always come back to the main concern I have pretty quickly. I never tell them I agree with their ideas (if i don't) and I always take notes of their reasons for saying what I want isn't right. It is hard but I try and make them defend their reasons for not giving what he needs instead of me trying to convince them my way is right. They usually try and give vague reasons but I press for specifics about not some vague These kids. I have many times said this meeting is not about what autistic kids need in general but what needs specifically. Do not let them intimidate you. Do not hesitate to end the meeting by saying I think we need a moderator or something similar and making sure they know you will be calling another and another and another until this is resolved to your satisfaction. Know you have the power and right to do this. I have had as many as 6 meetings with the whole team (5 + people) about placement issues. Let us know how the meeting goes, Kellie To: AutismBehaviorProblems Sent: Sunday, February 8, 2009 11:10:48 PMSubject: meeting tomorrow Hello everyone. Well, I know I have not been online hardly at all this weekend. I really hvae been not feeling that great, both physically and emotionally. I dont know, but yesterday, I just wanted to lay on the couch all day, slept alot etc. I really hate feeling like that. we went to church today and then the kids and i went to meet kathy for lunch. We had to go ove some things, because tomorrow is the home visit/meeting with Lotito and Dr Winega. It is about my concerns on s placement and all that Dr Brouillard talked to her about, and I am feeling anxious about it. I hope it goes well, but i dont have any hope that I will be able to get into an Autism school, at least not without a fight. And by that I mean going to court and all. I dont want it to have to go that round, but I dont know. I talked to Miss Jenna on the phone on Fri like we do, and it was a good conversation, but I cant help to wonder why all of a sudden she is so nice and all. I just dont know, but I dont believe it with everything we have been through. I just wish this was all easier and that I could get my son into a Autism day school, where I truly think he should be. Stacie Who's never won? Biggest Grammy Award surprises of all time on AOL Music. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 10, 2009 Report Share Posted February 10, 2009 Thanks Kellie for your words of wisdom on all of this!StacieSent via BlackBerry by AT&TFrom: Kellie Folkerts Date: Mon, 9 Feb 2009 05:13:54 -0800 (PST)To: <AutismBehaviorProblems >Subject: Re: meeting tomorrow Stacie, My thoughts and prayers will be with you today. You can do this, you are a strong, kind, dedicated Mom. One thing I have learned is to try and stay in control of the main issue. I just don't agree with them and state my reasons over and over and then when they move onto something else I discuss this for a little while but always come back to the main concern I have pretty quickly. I never tell them I agree with their ideas (if i don't) and I always take notes of their reasons for saying what I want isn't right. It is hard but I try and make them defend their reasons for not giving what he needs instead of me trying to convince them my way is right. They usually try and give vague reasons but I press for specifics about not some vague These kids. I have many times said this meeting is not about what autistic kids need in general but what needs specifically. Do not let them intimidate you. Do not hesitate to end the meeting by saying I think we need a moderator or something similar and making sure they know you will be calling another and another and another until this is resolved to your satisfaction. Know you have the power and right to do this. I have had as many as 6 meetings with the whole team (5 + people) about placement issues. Let us know how the meeting goes, Kellie From: "hawkie6aol" <hawkie6aol>To: AutismBehaviorProblems Sent: Sunday, February 8, 2009 11:10:48 PMSubject: meeting tomorrowHello everyone. Well, I know I have not been online hardly at all this weekend. I really hvae been not feeling that great, both physically and emotionally. I dont know, but yesterday, I just wanted to lay on the couch all day, slept alot etc. I really hate feeling like that. we went to church today and then the kids and i went to meet kathy for lunch. We had to go ove some things, because tomorrow is the home visit/meeting with Lotito and Dr Winega. It is about my concerns on s placement and all that Dr Brouillard talked to her about, and I am feeling anxious about it. I hope it goes well, but i dont have any hope that I will be able to get into an Autism school, at least not without a fight. And by that I mean going to court and all. I dont want it to have to go that round, but I dont know.I talked to Miss Jenna on the phone on Fri like we do, and it was a good conversation, but I cant help to wonder why all of a sudden she is so nice and all. I just dont know, but I dont believe it with everything we have been through. I just wish this was all easier and that I could get my son into a Autism day school, where I truly think he should be. Stacie Who's never won? Biggest Grammy Award surprises of all time on AOL Music. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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