Re: Todays latest...> Mel > Nic

[Guest guest]

You have hit the nail on the head! I am a giver... and unfortunately I very rarely get anything back. You would think by now that I would have learnt to not to do it. I have another friend who I have forgiven for not talking to me for about 10 months, another long story! I am good friends with her again because I forgave her. I am still the giver in the friendship, but I just don't give as much as I used to.

It is just not worth the effort to hate... I honestly can't be bothered. I don't hate the looney tune, I just can't be bothered with her.

Oh, I am going to go to the files section and print off Ghylls rules and blow them up and stick them on the fridge. You are all giving me a bit a kick up the arse as well.

Mel

>> > Mel> > > > Glad to hear the eating has settled. I am on a mission; I am doing my> utmost best to follow the rules. So far I have found it great. Gym> last night, salad and cashew nuts. I am going to be 25kg lighter for> Hawaii!> > > > I know you're laughing about it – that is good. But just stay> in control, do it your way – that is all I say. When she invites> you to dinner, give the brush off. You have nothing to gain by having> her back in your life. I am over `takers' taking and never> returning. You have to keep happy and what better way to do it than by> doing it your way!!> > > > Nx>

[Guest guest]

That is the nicest thing anyone has said to me all year... maybe this whole decade! Thanks Nic. I have to say, I think you gals and guys are the nicest people I have met in years! I suppose because we all have so much in common...

Mel

>> > You are a giver; I for one appreciate all that you 'give' on this site> and beyond. So this is a little thank you to you, sweet.> > Nx>