eating critiques from partners

[Guest guest]

Does anyone ever run into this?

I know EXACTLY what I put in my mouth. My problem is that I sometimes

get too emotional and eat a bunch of stuff I know I shouldn't. But this problem

is getting much better now. I have lost 14 kilos (about 30 pounds) in the past

year. I have this new (very thin) partner now, and as I was eating my breakfast

of a small piece of whole grain bread covered with cream cheese and raw broccoli

(one of my latest concoctions-very tasty, by the way, especially if it is a good

bread and herbed cream cheese), this partner decided to critique my extravagant

use of cream cheese. GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR! I got so angry. What I was eating was

totally healthy, totally in my diet plan, and totally the right portion for me.

I told this person never to comment again on my eating habits, and the person

said they wouldn't

Sound familiar?

Sometimes I get so frustrated with people who don't understand what I have been

through and still go through, especially when they come along with their little

" tips " .

The person said I was being too sensitive, and perhaps I was, but this is a

sensitive area for me. Is it wrong to be sensitive about something that is so

near and dear to my heart?