Guest guest Posted February 3, 2011 Report Share Posted February 3, 2011 We use Planning Your Family Naturally to supplement our Marriage Prep NFP presentation. I think it's a great introduction, especially as our audience usually includes a lot of couples who have never heard of NFP at all. I think it's just enough info. If we were allotted more time with the couples, I would love to incorporate God's Plan For A Joy Filled Marriage.a Van UdenBillings Ovulation Method Instructorwww.billingsnaturalfamilyplanning.orgwww.nfpcharting.comBillings Lethbridge Facebook GroupTo: nfpprofessionals From: jenvolpe@...Date: Thu, 3 Feb 2011 15:11:12 +0000Subject: NFP intro video I'm one my parish Pre-Cana team and am looking for an NFP intro DVD/video that we could have the couples watch before arriving for the Pre-Cana day. The idea is to have them watch the video and answer some "reflection" questions in preparation for a group discussion in the afternoon. The group discussion will be held after a talk on Intimacy/Sexuality, so the video needn't be heavy on Theology. Ideally it will have a brief description of what NFP is and the benefits to the couples. I've already found the downloadable videos at the Gift Foundation, the one at OM soul and the one from the Diocese of Rockville Center (Planning your Family Naturally). Are there any that I'm missing? Do you have any thoughts about any of these videos in particular or the use of a intro video in general? The Deacon in charge of our Pre-cana came up with this idea as he thinks it will give them more time to think about NFP than just hearing it that day. Previously, my husband and I did an NFP intro as part of the Intimacy and Sexuality talk, but the Deacon did not want us to mention specifics, such as what the fertility signs are. I'm thinking that this might be a good way get them that specific info in the privacy of their homes. Thanks in advance for your thoughts on this matter. Jen Volpe Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 3, 2011 Report Share Posted February 3, 2011 Our 11 minute “Your Special Signs” in English or Spanish is a good introduction to the physiology of NFP Hanna Klaus, M.D.Natural Family Planning Center of Washington, D.C. and Teen STAR Program4400 East West Highway # 911Bethesda, MD 20814-4510 hannaklaus@...http://www.teenstarprogram.org From: nfpprofessionals [mailto:nfpprofessionals ] On Behalf Of NFP LethbridgeSent: Thursday, February 03, 2011 10:48 AMTo: nfpprofessionals Subject: RE: NFP intro video We use Planning Your Family Naturally to supplement our Marriage Prep NFP presentation. I think it's a great introduction, especially as our audience usually includes a lot of couples who have never heard of NFP at all. I think it's just enough info. If we were allotted more time with the couples, I would love to incorporate God's Plan For A Joy Filled Marriage.a Van UdenBillings Ovulation Method Instructorwww.billingsnaturalfamilyplanning.orgwww.nfpcharting.comBillings Lethbridge Facebook GroupTo: nfpprofessionals From: jenvolpe@...Date: Thu, 3 Feb 2011 15:11:12 +0000Subject: NFP intro video I'm one my parish Pre-Cana team and am looking for an NFP intro DVD/video that we could have the couples watch before arriving for the Pre-Cana day. The idea is to have them watch the video and answer some " reflection " questions in preparation for a group discussion in the afternoon. The group discussion will be held after a talk on Intimacy/Sexuality, so the video needn't be heavy on Theology. Ideally it will have a brief description of what NFP is and the benefits to the couples.I've already found the downloadable videos at the Gift Foundation, the one at OM soul and the one from the Diocese of Rockville Center (Planning your Family Naturally).Are there any that I'm missing? Do you have any thoughts about any of these videos in particular or the use of a intro video in general?The Deacon in charge of our Pre-cana came up with this idea as he thinks it will give them more time to think about NFP than just hearing it that day. Previously, my husband and I did an NFP intro as part of the Intimacy and Sexuality talk, but the Deacon did not want us to mention specifics, such as what the fertility signs are. I'm thinking that this might be a good way get them that specific info in the privacy of their homes.Thanks in advance for your thoughts on this matter.Jen Volpe Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 3, 2011 Report Share Posted February 3, 2011 I think the Rockville Center video is the best of its length (20 mins). It has a good overview of all methods & biology, several couples explaining how their relationships have benefitted, etc. Lots of spiritual aspect. It covers several specific questions people have about how NFP would impact their lives. What it doesn't have is any clergy or " church teaching " stuff. Those who really care about that either know it or can find it; we pass out a blurb with our website, and point out the link to the USCCB letter to engaged. The Owensboro diocese made a good attempt, but it seemed unpolished, unfocused, rambling. Plus no biology.What we use now is the St. Cloud diocese's " The Spiritual Link " which has Hahn, the Billingses, bunch of good info. But it's 20 years old and looks it, and the kids just groan. jim-- Jim & Margaret Van DammeCouple to Couple League-Central New Yorkhttp://nfp.freehostia.com/ <=Natural Family Planning info Our real address is vandamme@...!------------------------------------------------------------- Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 3, 2011 Report Share Posted February 3, 2011 Jen I honestly cannot agree with your Deacon. The best way to intro NFP to couples who don't know anything about it is through a witness couple. Once the idea is introduced a short overview of how it works is the next step, followed by some solid science about it benefits and effectiveness and ending with how it has enhanced your marriage. We tried a video a few yrs ago and the couples thought it was a "cop out" for not wanting to "speak about it openly" (their quotes). Some videos are fine but I have not found one that does exactly what it should in this venue. Besides, how would you get them to view the video before the presentation without discussing the purpose or topic in the video. Just my thoughts. As you probably know, our PNFPN conference this year is exactly on this issue. Les NFP intro video I'm one my parish Pre-Cana team and am looking for an NFP intro DVD/video that we could have the couples watch before arriving for the Pre-Cana day. The idea is to have them watch the video and answer some "reflection" questions in preparation for a group discussion in the afternoon. The group discussion will be held after a talk on Intimacy/Sexuality, so the video needn't be heavy on Theology. Ideally it will have a brief description of what NFP is and the benefits to the couples.I've already found the downloadable videos at the Gift Foundation, the one at OM soul and the one from the Diocese of Rockville Center (Planning your Family Naturally).Are there any that I'm missing? Do you have any thoughts about any of these videos in particular or the use of a intro video in general?The Deacon in charge of our Pre-cana came up with this idea as he thinks it will give them more time to think about NFP than just hearing it that day. Previously, my husband and I did an NFP intro as part of the Intimacy and Sexuality talk, but the Deacon did not want us to mention specifics, such as what the fertility signs are. I'm thinking that this might be a good way get them that specific info in the privacy of their homes.Thanks in advance for your thoughts on this matter.Jen Volpe Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 3, 2011 Report Share Posted February 3, 2011 Hi, Jen,Our Diocesan NFP Coordinator would have some good ideas. His name is Mike Day. You can call him at (904)308-7474 or email him at mday@.... We have gone through several programs. I cannot recall which one we are using now, but I'm sure he would be willing to share our experiences, especially as a full course of NFP is a premarital requirement in this Diocese. Peace, Palmer, FCPville, FL Jen I honestly cannot agree with your Deacon. The best way to intro NFP to couples who don't know anything about it is through a witness couple. Once the idea is introduced a short overview of how it works is the next step, followed by some solid science about it benefits and effectiveness and ending with how it has enhanced your marriage. We tried a video a few yrs ago and the couples thought it was a " cop out " for not wanting to " speak about it openly " (their quotes). Some videos are fine but I have not found one that does exactly what it should in this venue. Besides, how would you get them to view the video before the presentation without discussing the purpose or topic in the video. Just my thoughts. As you probably know, our PNFPN conference this year is exactly on this issue. Les NFP intro video I'm one my parish Pre-Cana team and am looking for an NFP intro DVD/video that we could have the couples watch before arriving for the Pre-Cana day. The idea is to have them watch the video and answer some " reflection " questions in preparation for a group discussion in the afternoon. The group discussion will be held after a talk on Intimacy/Sexuality, so the video needn't be heavy on Theology. Ideally it will have a brief description of what NFP is and the benefits to the couples.I've already found the downloadable videos at the Gift Foundation, the one at OM soul and the one from the Diocese of Rockville Center (Planning your Family Naturally).Are there any that I'm missing? Do you have any thoughts about any of these videos in particular or the use of a intro video in general?The Deacon in charge of our Pre-cana came up with this idea as he thinks it will give them more time to think about NFP than just hearing it that day. Previously, my husband and I did an NFP intro as part of the Intimacy and Sexuality talk, but the Deacon did not want us to mention specifics, such as what the fertility signs are. I'm thinking that this might be a good way get them that specific info in the privacy of their homes.Thanks in advance for your thoughts on this matter.Jen Volpe -- Wood Row Birth and Baby Supply*doula services, baby carriers, and natural family planning*ville, FL Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 4, 2011 Report Share Posted February 4, 2011 Our diocese just began God's Plan for a Joyfilled Marriage. It was really a great " Day " retreat. Some couples though are presenting it at home in private with the couples.Ascension Press may be coming up with an NFP video/DVD soon too. Keep on the watch for that. Sincerely,Amy Hogan, MD Hi, Jen,Our Diocesan NFP Coordinator would have some good ideas. His name is Mike Day. You can call him at (904)308-7474 or email him at mday@.... We have gone through several programs. I cannot recall which one we are using now, but I'm sure he would be willing to share our experiences, especially as a full course of NFP is a premarital requirement in this Diocese. Peace, Palmer, FCPville, FL Jen I honestly cannot agree with your Deacon. The best way to intro NFP to couples who don't know anything about it is through a witness couple. Once the idea is introduced a short overview of how it works is the next step, followed by some solid science about it benefits and effectiveness and ending with how it has enhanced your marriage. We tried a video a few yrs ago and the couples thought it was a " cop out " for not wanting to " speak about it openly " (their quotes). Some videos are fine but I have not found one that does exactly what it should in this venue. Besides, how would you get them to view the video before the presentation without discussing the purpose or topic in the video. Just my thoughts. As you probably know, our PNFPN conference this year is exactly on this issue. Les NFP intro video I'm one my parish Pre-Cana team and am looking for an NFP intro DVD/video that we could have the couples watch before arriving for the Pre-Cana day. The idea is to have them watch the video and answer some " reflection " questions in preparation for a group discussion in the afternoon. The group discussion will be held after a talk on Intimacy/Sexuality, so the video needn't be heavy on Theology. Ideally it will have a brief description of what NFP is and the benefits to the couples.I've already found the downloadable videos at the Gift Foundation, the one at OM soul and the one from the Diocese of Rockville Center (Planning your Family Naturally).Are there any that I'm missing? Do you have any thoughts about any of these videos in particular or the use of a intro video in general?The Deacon in charge of our Pre-cana came up with this idea as he thinks it will give them more time to think about NFP than just hearing it that day. Previously, my husband and I did an NFP intro as part of the Intimacy and Sexuality talk, but the Deacon did not want us to mention specifics, such as what the fertility signs are. I'm thinking that this might be a good way get them that specific info in the privacy of their homes.Thanks in advance for your thoughts on this matter.Jen Volpe -- Wood Row Birth and Baby Supply*doula services, baby carriers, and natural family planning*ville, FL Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 4, 2011 Report Share Posted February 4, 2011 Indisensable though is a priest to "lay down the law" -- charitably -- along with the other aspects. Sincerely yours, Dominic M. Pedulla MD, FACC, CNFPMC, ABVM, ACPh Interventional Cardiologist, Endovascular Diplomate, Varicose Vein Specialist, Noncontraceptive Family Planning Consultant, Family Planning Researcher Medical Director, The Oklahoma Vein and Endovascular Center (www.noveinok.com, veininfo@...) Executive Director, The Edith Stein Foundation (www.theedithsteinfoundation.com) (office) (cell) (FAX) pedullad@... "[T]he witness of their fidelity to the end was ever more powerful than the inspired words that so many of them spoke before surrendering everything to the Lord. In our own time, the price to be paid for fidelity to the Gospel is no longer being hanged, drawn and quartered but it often involves being dismissed out of hand, ridiculed or parodied. And yet, the Church cannot withdraw from the task of proclaiming Christ and his Gospel as saving truth, the source of our ultimate happiness as individuals and as the foundation of a just and humane society." (Benedict XVI on Newman beatification) Re: NFP intro video Our diocese just began God's Plan for a Joyfilled Marriage. It was really a great "Day" retreat. Some couples though are presenting it at home in private with the couples. Ascension Press may be coming up with an NFP video/DVD soon too. Keep on the watch for that. Sincerely, Amy Hogan, MD Hi, Jen, Our Diocesan NFP Coordinator would have some good ideas. His name is Mike Day. You can call him at (904)308-7474 or email him at mday@.... We have gone through several programs. I cannot recall which one we are using now, but I'm sure he would be willing to share our experiences, especially as a full course of NFP is a premarital requirement in this Diocese. Peace, Palmer, FCP ville, FL Jen I honestly cannot agree with your Deacon. The best way to intro NFP to couples who don't know anything about it is through a witness couple. Once the idea is introduced a short overview of how it works is the next step, followed by some solid science about it benefits and effectiveness and ending with how it has enhanced your marriage. We tried a video a few yrs ago and the couples thought it was a "cop out" for not wanting to "speak about it openly" (their quotes). Some videos are fine but I have not found one that does exactly what it should in this venue. Besides, how would you get them to view the video before the presentation without discussing the purpose or topic in the video. Just my thoughts. As you probably know, our PNFPN conference this year is exactly on this issue. Les NFP intro video I'm one my parish Pre-Cana team and am looking for an NFP intro DVD/video that we could have the couples watch before arriving for the Pre-Cana day. The idea is to have them watch the video and answer some "reflection" questions in preparation for a group discussion in the afternoon. The group discussion will be held after a talk on Intimacy/Sexuality, so the video needn't be heavy on Theology. Ideally it will have a brief description of what NFP is and the benefits to the couples. I've already found the downloadable videos at the Gift Foundation, the one at OM soul and the one from the Diocese of Rockville Center (Planning your Family Naturally). Are there any that I'm missing? Do you have any thoughts about any of these videos in particular or the use of a intro video in general? The Deacon in charge of our Pre-cana came up with this idea as he thinks it will give them more time to think about NFP than just hearing it that day. Previously, my husband and I did an NFP intro as part of the Intimacy and Sexuality talk, but the Deacon did not want us to mention specifics, such as what the fertility signs are. I'm thinking that this might be a good way get them that specific info in the privacy of their homes. Thanks in advance for your thoughts on this matter. Jen Volpe -- Wood Row Birth and Baby Supply *doula services, baby carriers, and natural family planning* ville, FL Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 4, 2011 Report Share Posted February 4, 2011 I used to tell myself these things. If the clergy isn't behind it though, as experience for many years shows all too clearly and painfully, solidly pushing this with the full force of their pastoral and moral authority, you're already fighting with one hand tied behind your back. You''ll get those already catechized or those with strictly non-religious motivation, but the missionary apect will be stymied. With them (i.e., clergy) however the thing can fly! You need the entire package. Sincerely yours, Dominic M. Pedulla MD, FACC, CNFPMC, ABVM, ACPh Interventional Cardiologist, Endovascular Diplomate, Varicose Vein Specialist, Noncontraceptive Family Planning Consultant, Family Planning Researcher Medical Director, The Oklahoma Vein and Endovascular Center (www.noveinok.com, veininfo@...) Executive Director, The Edith Stein Foundation (www.theedithsteinfoundation.com) (office) (cell) (FAX) pedullad@... "[T]he witness of their fidelity to the end was ever more powerful than the inspired words that so many of them spoke before surrendering everything to the Lord. In our own time, the price to be paid for fidelity to the Gospel is no longer being hanged, drawn and quartered but it often involves being dismissed out of hand, ridiculed or parodied. And yet, the Church cannot withdraw from the task of proclaiming Christ and his Gospel as saving truth, the source of our ultimate happiness as individuals and as the foundation of a just and humane society." (Benedict XVI on Newman beatification) Re: NFP intro video I think the Rockville Center video is the best of its length (20 mins). It has a good overview of all methods & biology, several couples explaining how their relationships have benefitted, etc. Lots of spiritual aspect. It covers several specific questions people have about how NFP would impact their lives. What it doesn't have is any clergy or "church teaching" stuff. Those who really care about that either know it or can find it; we pass out a blurb with our website, and point out the link to the USCCB letter to engaged. The Owensboro diocese made a good attempt, but it seemed unpolished, unfocused, rambling. Plus no biology. What we use now is the St. Cloud diocese's "The Spiritual Link" which has Hahn, the Billingses, bunch of good info. But it's 20 years old and looks it, and the kids just groan. jim-- Jim & Margaret Van Damme Couple to Couple League-Central New York http://nfp.freehostia.com/ <=Natural Family Planning info Our real address is vandamme@...! ------------------------------------------------------------- Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 7, 2011 Report Share Posted February 7, 2011 As part of our marriage preparation, we send the couples CDs to listen to together before attending our NFP Seminars. We have sent them West’s Sexual Honesty and Janet ’s Contraception: Why Not? We have them fill out a worksheet of questions to ensure that they (well, at least one of them!) listen to it. It at least gets them thinking before we give them more at our seminar, since, as you said most of them have never heard of NFP. And, sadly, as has been my experience, many of them have never heard Church teaching either. Deborah Irwin Natural Family Planning Coordinator Diocese of Rockford · Respect Life x382 Fax: PO Box 7044, Rockford, IL 61125 555 Colman Center Drive, Rockford, IL 61108 www.rockforddiocese.org/respectlife/nfp From: nfpprofessionals [mailto:nfpprofessionals ] On Behalf Of Hanna Klaus Sent: Thursday, February 03, 2011 1:46 PM To: nfpprofessionals Subject: RE: NFP intro video Our 11 minute “Your Special Signs” in English or Spanish is a good introduction to the physiology of NFP Hanna Klaus, M.D. Natural Family Planning Center of Washington, D.C. and Teen STAR Program 4400 East West Highway # 911 Bethesda, MD 20814-4510 hannaklaus@... http://www.teenstarprogram.org From: nfpprofessionals [mailto:nfpprofessionals ] On Behalf Of NFP Lethbridge Sent: Thursday, February 03, 2011 10:48 AM To: nfpprofessionals Subject: RE: NFP intro video We use Planning Your Family Naturally to supplement our Marriage Prep NFP presentation. I think it's a great introduction, especially as our audience usually includes a lot of couples who have never heard of NFP at all. I think it's just enough info. If we were allotted more time with the couples, I would love to incorporate God's Plan For A Joy Filled Marriage. a Van Uden Billings Ovulation Method Instructor www.billingsnaturalfamilyplanning.org www.nfpcharting.com Billings Lethbridge Facebook Group To: nfpprofessionals From: jenvolpe@... Date: Thu, 3 Feb 2011 15:11:12 +0000 Subject: NFP intro video I'm one my parish Pre-Cana team and am looking for an NFP intro DVD/video that we could have the couples watch before arriving for the Pre-Cana day. The idea is to have them watch the video and answer some " reflection " questions in preparation for a group discussion in the afternoon. The group discussion will be held after a talk on Intimacy/Sexuality, so the video needn't be heavy on Theology. Ideally it will have a brief description of what NFP is and the benefits to the couples. I've already found the downloadable videos at the Gift Foundation, the one at OM soul and the one from the Diocese of Rockville Center (Planning your Family Naturally). Are there any that I'm missing? Do you have any thoughts about any of these videos in particular or the use of a intro video in general? The Deacon in charge of our Pre-cana came up with this idea as he thinks it will give them more time to think about NFP than just hearing it that day. Previously, my husband and I did an NFP intro as part of the Intimacy and Sexuality talk, but the Deacon did not want us to mention specifics, such as what the fertility signs are. I'm thinking that this might be a good way get them that specific info in the privacy of their homes. Thanks in advance for your thoughts on this matter. Jen Volpe Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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