Re: Re: pls forgive

[Guest guest]

your just asking for hate mail arent you-LOL!!! Either she is going to blow

up or she is gonna sick on you!!!! Or if she is smart-she will

just " forget " about it.

[Guest guest]

Are you making fun of me? I really fail to see the humor if you are.

I hate to assume the wrong thing and loose a friend. IT sure sounds

like your making fun of me. You have no clue what I am going through here.

Your precious Abbie gets to go to school

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your just asking for hate mail arent you-LOL!!! Either she is going to blow

up or she is gonna sick on you!!!! Or if she is smart-she

will

just " forget " about it.

[Guest guest]

Debi I thought this was behind us!!!!! I purposely didnt respond

to you privately as I thought this was behind us. Every time someone puts

something on this list about your republican government you get upset.

You were so sarcastic to me yes I got nasty back and if you cant handle it

that is your problem!!!!! After this letter never expect me to forgive you

i was just hoping we can put this issue behind me for the good of

learning from this list.

Now I am not going to put on a sympathy party for you and some

ladies on here might but I am not. You are no better then anyone else.

YOu deserved what I said and then some. I kept some of it toned. ITs

not my problem your a right winged christian type that loves Bush. I

simpley sent a letter to this web site and you went from there. That is

your problem. I did not want to talk to you privately because I have

better fish to fry plus you love to argue and fight because you life is bad.

NOt my problem you cant handle life now isnt it Debi???

My topic wasnt a simple discussion as you think it was. When I

posted that article you acted like I said something about your father.

Charlene

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Charlene, I guess the problem I have is that you say something to me

that isn't nice, then when I try to discuss it further you ask to

forget it. My feeling is if you don't want to talk about it any

more, stop saying ugly things. I don't mean to keep this issue

going, but I don't feel it's fair to me to expect me to just forget

it when you have on more than one occasion been seemingly nasty.

Maybe I'm not understanding and if so please forgive me. You posted

several days ago you'd rather continue privately, so I emailed you

explaining just where I had issue, then your response was that you

didn't want to talk to me.

My feelings are this, if you're gonna be nasty, expect me to

eventually get fed up. Again, please forgive me if I'm putting too

much into this because honestly, your past online behavior seems to

be indicative of ugly words from you to people when you disagree.

I'm not attempting to call you names or hurt your feelings because I

think you genuinely have a nice heart and I would love to be a

friend of your's, but I cannot be an online buddy of anyone who has

your behavior toward me because I state a difference of opinion. You

have a right to think anything, post anything, or do anything you

wish and I would never try to tell you differently. Yet it is my

understanding that posting to this board means you are opening the

post for everyone's discussion. When I post something that will have

many opinions, many differing from mine, I expect and enjoy reading

the differing opinions. If we disagree I have no problem with

disagreeing and still enjoying each other. I do have a problem with

someone calling me names and then expecting me to forget it and not

have any problem with it, esp when it's repeated behavior.

Debi

> Debi stay if you wish. I can not talk for the rest of the

group so

> please dont listen to what I said that you hurt others. I would

like to

> forget about this whole situation if youd like and we can go on

learning

> from this list.

> charlene

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

Yes you can you can duck tape your big mouth shut. Quit asking

others on here to try to join your side and this feel sorry for yourself

thing is for the birds. I will purposely stay on here knowing you dont

likeme.

Charlene

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Charlene, I for one probably don't have a clue how bad it is for you

and I'm very sorry for all your troubles. I wish there was something

I could do to make it easier for you.

Debi

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[Guest guest]

Well now I know no more letters hehehehe. Anyway

Pennie I am glad it was sent to the site so I know your true colors about me

All of you ladies want war war it will be. I am not one to leave a

list due to hatred. I fight much harsher things locally so you ladies mean

nothing.

Please exempt Kassaine, sondra and as I dont consider you in

the same group. NO more trusting emails to you Pennie and the emails were

not about my private life it was about Kassaines visit and so forth.

Charlene

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First of all this mail was sent to Debis private box, but all well

its posted. I am sure that Charlene will be mad and I expect that

however it is how I feel. I know that Colorado schools suck but

unfortunatly there isnt much that can be done. I personally get tired

of hearing of the negative and reading letters from .

I understand that he is important to you and that I respect. But when

you post these things continusly then it makes other uncomfortable

because your hatred is so great. Which I can completly understand.

Once again I know that you will be upset with what I said to Debi.

However if you want to then you may discuss it with me. I am not

trying to start a fight or a argument. If I have offended you then I

am sorry, as I am sure that I have.

Pennie

Abby's Mom

> your just asking for hate mail arent you-LOL!!! Either she is going

to blow

> up or she is gonna sick on you!!!! Or if she is

smart-she will

> just " forget " about it.

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

Yes Pennie this may be your favorate group as its a narrow minded one

and narrow minds think alike.

Charlene

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Debi!!! Your back! I am glad that you are. Of all my autism groups,

this is my favorite. We all dont agree with each other but for the

most part we are able to control ourselves and respect each other. I

hope that this whole ugly thing can be put to rest and we can get on

with more things about our kids.

Pennie

Abby's Mom

[Guest guest]

There you go with your pitty party again Debi. I was silent. I

didnt email you privately except for a minute ago. I didnt say anything

about you on this list except for a few minutes ago. I was trying to keep

this behind me until the attacks started on me again. NO matter what

you do???? What did you just do a couple of emails ago? Debi your being

a hypocrit again.

Here is my ultimatum....................leave me alone and I promise

to leave you alone. Keep on attacking me publically like this ( cant

count for the ones behindmy back privately) and I will keep this war going

too. Like I said this is cherry compare to what I fight with the local

school system.

Have a lovely day

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, I guess you'll just keep going no matter what I do, so

attack away.

Debi

[Guest guest]

Yes Pennie I will put all this behind us. Its no big deal its human

nature. I am also sorry for publisizing letters of and

others garbage. I PROMISE I REALLY PROMISE I WILL NOT DO THAT AGAIN.

ITs enough Pennie just caught me off by surprise and I guess I am so

into my stuff here I havent thought of most of everyones feelings on here.

I wont do it again.

Charlene

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I to am sorry for all that you have to go through.I wish that there

was something we can do, however there doesnt seem to be any. Once

again I am sorry about what I wrote before. I am sure that you are

upset, perhaps we can just put this behind us and just focas on our

kids. There isnt thing else that I can say besides I am sorry.

Somehow I just dont think that you will think thats enough

Pennie

Abby's Mom

[Guest guest]

Can you read Debi? Didnt you just say you tried to bring this up

privately and I turned you away? Yes this is true but an indication I

wanted to put it behind us. Didnt you just like you needed sympathy due

to my attacks against you when in fact you started it. I will forward a

later message of your attacks for you sweetie.

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What did I do a couple of emails ago?

Debi

[Guest guest]

Charlene and all I to know of the words are changing here and some to be of

reading and such but will be to not say anything's more except to not bring

the children's of ASD into this. This is not their battle it is the battle

of difference in views and such and not sure of the wholes of it but to know

that the words mean when one to be to say they are of feeling hurt

emotionally. Some here are to be of hurting more than others because of

things outside of autism , such as family dynamics and how much of supports

they to have. So this to need respected. Some to have better school systems

and have worked on the relationships of the child's team to the extent the

child is of doing well and this needs to be of respected. The one is not the

blame for the other , and words can be to come to share of this thinking but

to bring the outcomes of a child is not of fair in he dispute. That to be to

cause much pains, no child here on this list to asked in life to be born of

autism , but since they are we need to be of most respectful to their

dignity in life and not use them as pons to fight a game of who is right and

who is of wrong. Please to not be to do that here. This list is for and

about girls with autism and several here are adults female such as self on

spectrum, but most are parents all seeking answers. Each has different life

issues and styles and thus differences will come but needs to be of mature

and not bring a child in to this.

Sondra

[Guest guest]

Pennie what made you email me with your response personally if I may

ask? Remember you dont have to privately email me of what you say. ITs

OK if you do not.

charlene

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Thank you Sondra for standing up for Abby. I sent Charlene mail that

if she was mad with me thats fine, just please dont pick on my child.

If she is still upset with me despite my many appoligies then there

is nothing else that I can do. This whole thing has me in tears. I

cant take it.

Pennie

Abby's Mom

> Charlene and all I to know of the words are changing here and some

to be of

> reading and such but will be to not say anything's more except to

not bring

> the children's of ASD into this. This is not their battle it is the

battle

> of difference in views and such and not sure of the wholes of it

but to know

> that the words mean when one to be to say they are of feeling hurt

> emotionally. Some here are to be of hurting more than others

because of

> things outside of autism , such as family dynamics and how much of

supports

> they to have. So this to need respected. Some to have better school

systems

> and have worked on the relationships of the child's team to the

extent the

> child is of doing well and this needs to be of respected. The one

is not the

> blame for the other , and words can be to come to share of this

thinking but

> to bring the outcomes of a child is not of fair in he dispute. That

to be to

> cause much pains, no child here on this list to asked in life to be

born of

> autism , but since they are we need to be of most respectful to

their

> dignity in life and not use them as pons to fight a game of who is

right and

> who is of wrong. Please to not be to do that here. This list is for

and

> about girls with autism and several here are adults female such as

self on

> spectrum, but most are parents all seeking answers. Each has

different life

> issues and styles and thus differences will come but needs to be of

mature

> and not bring a child in to this.

> Sondra

..

[Guest guest]

Pennie I to be to say when angers to come this is of many reasons to be to

come but not to be to ever bring the babies into this. I to be to not like

that . I to sayed my words to that and while yet can be to understand

Charlene's pains she has been enduring to in regards to her own children's

and the systems where she is to be living, yet you baby has nothing to do

with the outcomes of anyone's lack of services. She was of venting but

vented a powerful thinking maybe with not intent to do so but regardless the

words did be to come to the list on this. I to just hope the words did not

break the beauty of this list.

Sondra