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Dear CathWelcome to the group... We have a diverse range of issues which face our children.. some are very high functioning, others are more  complex.. and like my own daughter our biggest challenge has been seizures.

There is a lot of information in the files section on different approaches being used.For me.. and my daughter is undiagnosed.. but did regress at two... The Scotson Technique TST has given us the biggest gains.

Many take children off gluten and casein immediately and see how they improve. Her issues linked in with poor breathing caused by a very stressful pregnancy.. and hypoxic episodes.. which created a brain injury.... The information on this therapy along with many others is in the files section. There are a number of kids on the group using this therapy at the moment.

What other problems does your son have?How does he sleep, is he constipated, have bowel or stomach problems or other allergies? and other than the lack of speech are there any other issues which you have noticed... From here it may be easier for the group to guide you to therapies which they have tried and tested.

Best WishesTracey 

 

Hello, I hope someone can help us.

My son is four Christmas time and doesn't speak at all. He does make noises and babbles but no words. He is being seen by all the usual people and is ib a unit being assessed because doesn't quite tick all the boxes for autism.

I'm really interested in the biomedical approach but unsure where to start? Does he need bloods, urine,stool and hair tests? How do we arrange these? He has had bloods and urine done by paediatrician but just the normal routine ones I think which were ok.

My husband and I just hate sitting here waiting -we just want to try and help him if we can.

Thanks so much for any help you can offer.

Ps we live in wales.

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It would be useful to know what other problems your child has so others with similar issues can say what worked for them.

My oldest is higher functioning and didn't speak until a few weeks before starting school at almost 5yrs old, he didn't actually have any interventions, the similiatrity to your child would be the babbling, he always babbled, my youngest severe non verbal child wasn't a babbler.

My oldest didn't get an autism diagnosis until he was a bit older and it was on the back of his brother being so severe, he had other diagnosis before autism, ie language delay, severe language disorder etc.

Today at 16 language is the least of his problems in fact it's considered a relative strength, does you child have other issues besides language delay?

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Dear Cath

Welcome to the group... We have a diverse range of issues which face our children.. some are very high functioning, others are more complex.. and like my own daughter our biggest challenge has been seizures.

There is a lot of information in the files section on different approaches being used.

For me.. and my daughter is undiagnosed.. but did regress at two... The Scotson Technique TST has given us the biggest gains.

Many take children off gluten and casein immediately and see how they improve. Her issues linked in with poor breathing caused by a very stressful pregnancy.. and hypoxic episodes.. which created a brain injury.... The information on this therapy along with many others is in the files section. There are a number of kids on the group using this therapy at the moment.

What other problems does your son have?

How does he sleep, is he constipated, have bowel or stomach problems or other allergies? and other than the lack of speech are there any other issues which you have noticed... From here it may be easier for the group to guide you to therapies which they have tried and tested.

Best Wishes

Tracey

Hello, I hope someone can help us.

My son is four Christmas time and doesn't speak at all. He does make noises and babbles but no words. He is being seen by all the usual people and is ib a unit being assessed because doesn't quite tick all the boxes for autism.

I'm really interested in the biomedical approach but unsure where to start? Does he need bloods, urine,stool and hair tests? How do we arrange these? He has had bloods and urine done by paediatrician but just the normal routine ones I think which were ok.

My husband and I just hate sitting here waiting -we just want to try and help him if we can.

Thanks so much for any help you can offer.

Ps we live in wales.

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unit being assessed because doesn't quite tick all the boxes for autism.

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> I'm really interested in the biomedical approach but unsure where to start?

Does he need bloods, urine,stool and hair tests? How do we arrange these? He has

had bloods and urine done by paediatrician but just the normal routine ones I

think which were ok.

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Dear Cath

I recommend you to start on a few websites like defeat autism now and treating autism they have loads of information ....

I would start the diet now rather later and this is my experience , because a child as small as yours is experimenting and learning food wise I would be aware of textures though seems to me that your child is fussy because he can stand certain textures rather than not liking certain flavours a good Occupational therapist should give you a food programme it done wonders for my boy .....

a good gut programme always starts from removing the culprits and to our children is gluten , caseine and glutamate

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Thanks for quick replies again.

We did try gf/cf but didn't last long as all liam eats and drinks really is

bread milk etc. Won't touch anything else! Might have to take time off work!

Have heard about enzymes but don't really understand so will check that website

out.

My computer not working and my phone is dh's old one so am on internet on that

but keypad doesn't work properly so apologies if not making much sense..will try

and fix one before messaging again.

Thank you all so much, will look into extra info on the files on this website as

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Hi CathWhat are the meds saying about the very large tonsils?  These can create issues like poor breathing and inability to maintain airway.. which may be why sleeping with you makes a difference.. children tend to mimic the breathing patterns of adults.. so this may help him to get good air quality in his sleep.

Our son had large tonsils and this affected his ability to use his tongue properly and delayed the diction in his speech. With his large tonsils he tended to mouth breath which created more tonsil issues as mouth breathing stops air being filtered through nasal hairs and can create more infection. (he is NT)

It may be rather easier to remove foods than you might imagine... there are some good tasting alternatives out there and you may be able to step back initially from cows dairy and wheat and corn for example.

I found it really useful to maintain a food and drink, bowel and mood diary and to be slow to change things... introducing or taking away one thing at a time.. and allowing at least a week before next change.. this way you can be sure of what is and is not working.

The journey is a slow gentle process.. and if we rush and do too much too quickly it can be counter productive.Best Wishes

TraceyPS you do not mention if your child was vaccinated or not... if he was you might also like to look at the CEASE programme of homeopathic remedies to overcome the effects of vaccination toxins.

 

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thanks Tracey, will look into cease as had all vaccs apart from preschool

booster, unsure what to do about that..feel guilty in case my fault for giving

the others?

He has seen ent who took one quick look and just said yes they are large but he

will grow into them. If they're not causing probs leave them and that was it!

He does sometimes seem like hrs struggling to swallow and he puts our hands to

his throat simetimes,just gently...if he was hurting he wouldn't ve able to tell

us so o don't know what the ent was thinking..?does snore a lot also..we only

knew about the tonsulitis cos if his temp..he is so brave when ill..doesn't

complain bless him..just a bit clingy x

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The thing with the vaccines is that there are good alternative programmes out there to make a big difference and help detox.. and at the time we all make decisions in the most informed way we can and with the best of intentions.. Accepting that vaccines may have played a role is a good starting point as it directs us to where we can begin to help.

We used to give my son a tiny amount of manuka honey to swallow... the antiviral and antibacterial effects of this made a difference to his throat.. He is much better now and tonsils more normalised.. as mouth breathing stopped so did sore throats.

If they can keep tonsils it is better as these organs have an important role to play in the body... and I am sure homeopathics might address underlying cause of them being swollen.

Snoring can reflect a very high palate.. if you look inside his mouth is the top of his palate nice and flat and spread or is it very high and narrow... the high narrow shape tends to require mouth breathing and snoring... and it is very hard to breath at night like this.. the children often have to lie in a very unusual position to be able to get a constant air way.

You little man sounds very much like my son.. never complains just needs more hugs.... and he is now 17 and over 6 foot!!Best Wishes

TraceyPS most of us will not be agreeing to any vaccinations... and it may mean being thrown out by GP... as I was... but that is a small price to pay.. I think/

 

thanks Tracey, will look into cease as had all vaccs apart from preschool booster, unsure what to do about that..feel guilty in case my fault for giving the others?

He has seen ent who took one quick look and just said yes they are large but he will grow into them. If they're not causing probs leave them and that was it!

He does sometimes seem like hrs struggling to swallow and he puts our hands to his throat simetimes,just gently...if he was hurting he wouldn't ve able to tell us so o don't know what the ent was thinking..?does snore a lot also..we only knew about the tonsulitis cos if his temp..he is so brave when ill..doesn't complain bless him..just a bit clingy x

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Cath,

Often kids who only eat bread, milk, etc., are the kids who respond well to

removing those foods. Rather than going gf/cf (and using replacement foods as

is commonly done), I would encourage you to look at something like a Nourishing

Traditions approach. If you think about how people more traditionally served

food (meat, veg, broths) that can be a lot easier on the family, as everyone can

eat it, and it can be naturally gluten free and casein free. If you join

Treating Autism, we have a book in our library for members that can be a great

starting point for cleaning up the environment and diet. Nourishing Hope by

s.

It isn't easy changing diet of a fussy eater. I've spent many hours sitting on

the kitchen floor crying. But, it can be easier if the food you prepare is for

everyone rather than special dishes just for the one child. It may be an awful

few days, but most kids come around to eating what is put in front of them, even

if it is only a few very basic things for a few months and then you evenutally

expand. s has some great info on fussy eaters.

It sounds like your child, like every kid I've known with ASD, has immune

issues. Cleaning up the diet can help calm down an overwhelmed system.

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> My son is four Christmas time and doesn't speak at all. He does make noises

and babbles but no words. He is being seen by all the usual people and is ib a

unit being assessed because doesn't quite tick all the boxes for autism.

>

> I'm really interested in the biomedical approach but unsure where to start?

Does he need bloods, urine,stool and hair tests? How do we arrange these? He has

had bloods and urine done by paediatrician but just the normal routine ones I

think which were ok.

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> My husband and I just hate sitting here waiting -we just want to try and help

him if we can.

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> Thanks so much for any help you can offer.

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> Ps we live in wales.

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> XX

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Dear Cath,

welcome to the group. You're doing the right thing in removing the gluten and

casein immediately. I recommend Dr. McBride's book - Gut and Psycology

Syndrome. It really explains what is going on for our kids in a straight

forward way, even if you don't decide to do the GAPS diet. I think it is one of

the most commonly used diets however.

Also, look into the homeopathic CEASE programme. My daughter has been taking a

nosode to clear her MMR vaccine. It is working - we keep seeing measles spots -

a sign that it is clearing it. Don't blame yourself for getting your child

vaccinated. Hindsight would be a wonderful thing but none of us have it!

Very best of luck.

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I've lost track of the beginning of this thread now, but I remember there was a

recent post from someone who said their child had a difficult delivery with

forceps. In this case I would suggest you consider going to see an experienced

paediatric osteopath (cranial osteopath)as there might be retrained physical

stresses within the skull from the birth and releasing this tension could help

the palate and dentition to develop better.(BTW I met a mother in the hospital

eye clinic a few years ago who had been recommended by an NHS professional in

the clinic to see a cranial osteopath. She was so grateful because in her

child's case there was compression near the base of the skull and releasing this

led to a big improvement in her child's vision.)

Margaret

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When I read your post, Cath, I thought that it was quite possible that your

child may have a particular problem with the foods they crave. It seems not to

be uncommon in autism that children are living on bread and yogurt. A local

mother I knew had an autistic child like this and I gave her the Sunderland

Protocol and suggested that her child might benefit from a diet without gluten

and dairy. She was horrified and said it would be impossible. However the

child's health deteriorated and it was obvious there were gut problems.

Eventually the NHS said the child needed a gluten and dairy free diet! Anita's

suggestion for how to make dietary changes is something I would agree with -

better than replacing wheat and dairy with processed substitutes.

Margaret

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I second that. Treatingautism.co.uk has a very good beginners section. If you have time I highly recommend you watch as many DAN! conference presentations as you can via autism.com - look for their parent support or video conferences section. Read as much as you can. If you join Treating Autism there are many great books in the library FREE to members, you only pay for postage. Best of luck,Natasa >> Dear Cath > I recommend you to start on a few websites like defeat autism now and > treating autism they have loads of information ....> I would start the diet now rather later and this is my experience , because > a child as small as yours is experimenting and learning food wise I would > be aware of textures though seems to me that your child is fussy because > he can stand certain textures rather than not liking certain flavours a good > Occupational therapist should give you a food programme it done wonders > for my boy .....> > a good gut programme always starts from removing the culprits and to our > children is gluten , caseine and glutamate > > All the best > > > >

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I'm with Mandi, digestive enzymes would be a good place to start. You can always withdraw any foods that you still see behaviour issues with at a later date and the enzymes may promote hunger for other foods so that you could widen his choice too.

I've lost track of the beginning of this thread now, but I remember there was a recent post from someone who said their child had a difficult delivery with forceps. In this case I would suggest you consider going to see an experienced paediatric osteopath (cranial osteopath)as there might be retrained physical stresses within the skull from the birth and releasing this tension could help the palate and dentition to develop better.(BTW I met a mother in the hospital eye clinic a few years ago who had been recommended by an NHS professional in the clinic to see a cranial osteopath. She was so grateful because in her child's case there was compression near the base of the skull and releasing this led to a big improvement in her child's vision.)Margaret> > > > >> > > > >> > > > >> > > > >> > > > >> > > > > Hello, I hope someone can help us.> > > > >> > > > > My son is four Christmas time and doesn't speak at all. He does make> > > > noises and babbles but no words. He is being seen by all the usual> > people> > > > and is ib a unit being assessed because doesn't quite tick all the> > boxes for> > > > autism.> > > > >> > > > > I'm really interested in the biomedical approach but unsure where to> > > > start? Does he need bloods, urine,stool and hair tests? How do we> > arrange> > > > these? He has had bloods and urine done by paediatrician but just the> > normal> > > > routine ones I think which were ok.> > > > >> > > > > My husband and I just hate sitting here waiting -we just want to try> > and> > > > help him if we can.> > > > >> > > > > Thanks so much for any help you can offer.> > > > >> > > > > Ps we live in wales.> > > > >> > > > > XX> > > > >> > > >> > > >> > > >> > >> >> > > >>

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As well as the good advice here, slowing down your speech and speaking

telegraphically, meaning dropping unnecessary words can help

as if you are speaking to a foreigner with a limited grasp of English,

try to stop autistic leading i.e. grabbing you by the hand and leading you to

what he wants, modelling the words for what he wants and if possible trying to

get him to attempt the word, without making it aversive.

The below link might take a while to get your head around but can be helpful.

http://www.mariposaschool.org/learning-materials

Making noises and babbling is usually a good sign that he is capable of

language.

I personally would also recommend a Doctors Data Hair Elements Test from

directlabs.com quoting AUT for a discount but realise that you have probably

already have had your head filled.

All the Best

Kenny

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> My son is four Christmas time and doesn't speak at all. He does make noises

and babbles but no words. He is being seen by all the usual people and is ib a

unit being assessed because doesn't quite tick all the boxes for autism.

>

> I'm really interested in the biomedical approach but unsure where to start?

Does he need bloods, urine,stool and hair tests? How do we arrange these? He has

had bloods and urine done by paediatrician but just the normal routine ones I

think which were ok.

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> My husband and I just hate sitting here waiting -we just want to try and help

him if we can.

>

> Thanks so much for any help you can offer.

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> Ps we live in wales.

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> XX

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Thank you all so much for your help. I can't believe all the replies! Back in

work today but will sit down in the weekend and write everything down and decide

in what order to do everything. Will have to take time off work I think!

Thanks everyone

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and babbles but no words. He is being seen by all the usual people and is ib a

unit being assessed because doesn't quite tick all the boxes for autism.

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> > I'm really interested in the biomedical approach but unsure where to start?

Does he need bloods, urine,stool and hair tests? How do we arrange these? He has

had bloods and urine done by paediatrician but just the normal routine ones I

think which were ok.

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help him if we can.

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> > Thanks so much for any help you can offer.

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Where are you based? Maybe there is a local Treating Autism group that meets up

regularly near you?

Kirsty

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