Re: Re: End Stages//Sharon/

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I know " the Look " you are talking about. My mother gets it as well.

My sisters and I take it as an indicator that our Mum has " left the

building " so to speak and her evil LBD alter ego has surfaced.

The woman with " the look " was not your mother. So the mean things she

said at those times were not actually said by your mother. It was the

LBD taking over. Try to find pictures of your mother as she was

pre-LBD, try to focus on that face and those times that were happy.

Write down as much as you remember about the good times and carry a

list with you so that when the LBD spirit visits take out the list and

focus on it instead.

- you are in my thoughts and prayers.

--- wrote:

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Sharon the thing is I don't know what my mother would say to me. She

was so angry and gave me such a look the day before she died. she

looked at me just like she always did when she was very dissapointed

in me. That look haunts me.

-- In LBDcaregivers , " Sharon " <LadySmilingAtU2@c...>

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> kaqren,

> ativan is the drug of choice in many hospitals/physicans offices

when they

> want to calm someone down. and even the lbd doc we went here said

that what

> is good for one patient can be disastrous for another patient and

he tried

> meds slow and one at a time, but when i finally heard the words

lewy body

> disease i researched and researched as i had my laptop in the hosp

with us.

> but dad had been on trazadone and ativan in 93 when he had his

first major

> hallucination issues, but my dad hated meds and unless his sister

supervised

> him he would not take them or would spit them out.

> would your mom be saying to you, honey you did the best you can, i

love you

> for what you did for me and how you helped or would she be

chastizing you

> for sometihng you didnt know, hmmmm anyh bets anyone. i thought

so, i

> bet yhour mom would thankyou for trying everything you could and

taking

> care of her. dont you think??? hugs sharon

>

> -- End Stages

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> > Could someone tell me their experience with the end stages? What

> > happeneds in the end stages? I know it is different for

> most....but my

> > mother passed away with LBD and I feel that I may have helped

> > contribute to her death by not understanding exactly what was

going

> on.

> > It might help me if I know how the end stage was for someone else.

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> > Thank you,

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