Re: HELP ME!-Donna & Jan

[Guest guest]

I just saw a TV comerical about frequency of urination for men. The

advertisement was for Advodart, which is a drug targeted to men with benign

prostate hyperplasia. The lining of the prostate overgrows and causes problems

with urination namely frequency esp, during the night. Jan, this may not be

your husband's problem, although it is common. I am just grasping at straws. I

am desparate for your sake also.

TAke care,

Gerry

HELP ME!

I think I'm going over the edge. I CAN'T HANDLE THIS

ANYMORE! While I have been reading posts, Jim has

removed all his clothes, took the Pad out from under

him on the bed and peed all over the bedding and

himself. Even though there is another pad under the

sheets it went through that too. He refuses to get in

the shower. I have cracked up and can not stop

scraeaming and crying. I have had to change the

bedding everyday of this week. He is into removing all

his clothes. He threw all his wet clothes on the floor

plus his drenched diaper. He got out his knit neck

scarf from his drawer and put it under him to soak up

the wetness and his jacket too.

I can't keep this up. I have laundry up the kazoo and

when I get to the end of it, it starts all over again.

My neighbor said call anytime when I am in need, so I

called and no one answers. They're probably all in

bed.

Thank you for letting me vent. It helps so much. I

have calmed down a lot since I am typing. I have to

get back to Jim I made him stay on the toilet for over

5 minutes now I think. He asked to get up and I

shouted he had to stay there. I feel so horrible, but

I need to be away from him for awhile.

Thank God you are all here to vent too. Hugs to all, Jan

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